Question:
I have seen it defined that if you ever had sex with someone that equalled marriage.
that was how I was taught but I feel that is not the case. That there needs to be a covenant so to speak and having God in mind when marrying. People say oh now you are living in adultery since you are not with the person you lost your virginity too..
Before coming to Christ I had many relationships some years and some months and sex was involved.
Finally 3 years ago I was married to my husband who I met on Chrisitan mingle btw.
We did the whole born again virign thing and abstained from sex before marriage since for both of us our whole lives we did it wrong by having sex with others.
I have seen it defined that if you ever had sex with someone that equalled marriage.
that was how I was taught but I feel that is not the case. That there needs to be a covenant so to speak and having God in mind when marrying. People say oh now you are living in adultery since you are not with the person you lost your virginity too..
Before coming to Christ I had many relationships some years and some months and sex was involved.
Finally 3 years ago I was married to my husband who I met on Chrisitan mingle btw.
We did the whole born again virign thing and abstained from sex before marriage since for both of us our whole lives we did it wrong by having sex with others.