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not quite the same thing IMO if you know what I mean. This isn't about theology...
I can appreciate your point, but manners are an emotional-pragmatic question, not one of logical categories.
 
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you really think it was hidden until your commentary?

No, of course not. Now, as in lately, because of all the press. But the RCC did a good cover-up job in the past.
 
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No, of course not. Now, as in lately, because of all the press. But the RCC did a good cover-up job in the past.

so if the RC already knew of it, why should an Orthodox guy chime in? especially in their own forum?
 
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so if the RC already knew of it, why should an Orthodox guy chime in? especially in their own forum?

What they may not have known is about that org in the article. What, I can't have an opinion on it?
 
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What they may not have known is about that org in the article. What, I can't have an opinion on it?
Why are you still over in OBOB, arguing in that thread?
 
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I agree 100%.

The thing that bothers me about the - well, admittedly it's the tone of the article, and may be the bias of the writer and not reflect the full scenario ...

(ETA to be fair - I did not read the entire thing - I don't really want to know details.)

What bothers me is that the response seems to be one of complete secrecy - restoration without any accountability or dealing with the problem. (And I don't think such a person should be restored to a priestly ministry - I think such a failing should disqualify one from that particular position because trust is essential.)

Maybe it's not really like that? But it certainly seems a lack of transparency and accountability is an issue both with those supporting the organization and the work they do. And I don't think that leads to healthy restoration - which of course should always be the goal (while protecting anyone from further victimization, for the sake of victims and offender alike).

Certainly though prayer should be our response.
As far as I can tell, this is not a restoration program. This is a welfare program. They are providing funds for food, housing, and other support much as many other ministries do for prisoners and ex-cons. The difference being that this welfare ministry is targeted at defrocked priests.
 
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Why are you still over in OBOB, arguing in that thread?
You're RIGHT!!! They DO have a thread about this, in OBOB... All the more reason we don't need this "stuff" here!
 
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What they may not have known is about that org in the article. What, I can't have an opinion on it?

of course you can, but if they know what's going on already, having a non-Latin pointing out their dirty laundry in their own forum looks like kicking them when they are down.
 
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As far as I can tell, this is not a restoration program. This is a welfare program. They are providing funds for food, housing, and other support much as many other ministries do for prisoners and ex-cons. The difference being that this welfare ministry is targeted at defrocked priests.
It seems that way.

I was trying not to comment overmuch on the article and organization but on general principles. Mainly because of the reasons that have steered this thread more recently. I have an opinion on the topic in general, but don't care to involve myself in judging what's going on specifically with the Catholics. There are shameful aspects, certainly. But I am also concerned for the sake of faithful Catholics I know who may well be struggling with some distress over the whole thing, when it is no fault of theirs personally.
 
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What they may not have known is about that org in the article. What, I can't have an opinion on it?
Please mind your words and their implied tone, my friend. You can disagree with Father and still show respect for his office. He may not express offense, but you do give it through your sarcasm.
 
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Please mind your words and their implied tone, my friend. You can disagree with Father and still show respect for his office. He may not express offense, but you do give it through your sarcasm.

There was no "implied tone" or sarcasm. It was a simple statement.
 
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of course you can, but if they know what's going on already, having a non-Latin pointing out their dirty laundry in their own forum looks like kicking them when they are down.

This is a serious issue, not just dirty laundry. I am just addressing their comments to me, that's all. there are others there that are non RC commenting also. Why is this such an issue that I comment?
 
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This is a serious issue, not just dirty laundry. I am just addressing their comments to me, that's all. there are others there that are non RC commenting also. Why is this such an issue that I comment?

because you would comment in their forum in the first place.
 
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