Well i have had a friend who has committed suicide on me...... a few years ago!!! There are many harsh feelings to be left behind by this.... but what makes it ten times harder is im getting blamed for it and reminded of it every day!!! Im not sure what to do about this and hoped that someone here might have an idea???????
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Serious Problems--- advice please
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That's hard. You must not accept the criticisms being made against you. Some people like to blame shift. But may people have disagreements that don't end that way. That person, for whatever reason, made their own call. His family should have first call on their treatment, not you.
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I agree with Johnnz. Sounds like they can't accept what has happened, and find it easier to blame you. Could you be a little bit more detailed about what happened? Do you blame yourself?
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Hey Girl
Don't listen to them, ok. I know it can be hard not to. But in the end could you of done anything to stop it, if the answer is yes then still do not blame yourself because at the moment you properly did all you could.
Did you know they were struggling at the moment, because if you didn't then I can say for 100% sure that it wasn't your fault.
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Don't listen to them, ok. I know it can be hard not to. But in the end could you of done anything to stop it, if the answer is yes then still do not blame yourself because at the moment you properly did all you could.
Did you know they were struggling at the moment, because if you didn't then I can say for 100% sure that it wasn't your fault.
Nat
(Your crazy cadet friend)
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I'm not sure what to say other than to encourage you that suicide is something that the person who does it, is responsible for. There are times people are in the hospital for this and they are still successful at killing themselves.
I would encourage you to seek support... see if there is a group such as survivors of suicide (not sure if they are international or not).
I'm sorry you're being reminded of it daily.
I would encourage you to seek support... see if there is a group such as survivors of suicide (not sure if they are international or not).
I'm sorry you're being reminded of it daily.
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This must be very hard on you, im sorry youre in such an awful situation. im hoping for the best for you. PM me if you need a chat
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