Well, I've had a hard couple of weeks. Last week was our 22nd anniversary, (which was very hard), it was my husbands birthday and it was also the first anniversary of me finding out all of the lies that he was telling me and him leaving. I prayed that we could get our marrage back together but with all of the lies and angry things that he has said to me and continues to say, I just can't. I know in my heart that God understands. I can feel His presence with me daily. It is still hard. My mom had back surgery and praise the Lord she is finally doing better from that and got home. My dad is doing better with his blood disease. Praise the Lord! They live about 6 hours away from me and I am trying to do what I can for them, I have to get this house sold and my husband isn't helping me at all and he's making the kids think that he works so hard that he doesn't have time to do anything. He tells me that he wants this house sold and wants the divorce as quickly as possible and then tells the kids that he wants me back and doesn't want to sell the house. He has real problems. He tells them that he doesn't have money and then takes my son on golf outings and buys my daughter things. The lies are still coming every day. I can't take it any more. I have been digging in the word and finding that God is with me every step of the way. I am just terrified that when all is said and done I am going to fall on my face. I want to make it sooo bad. I am just scared. I am working and trying to keep up with everything else and it is just so hard. Please pray for me.
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Deborah6763
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with the Lord on your side, you can't fail. it might be really difficult, but you will make it.
Get some Christian friends who will help lift you up in prayer andwho will stnad with you through this.
Your children will soon get to the place where they will see the truth for themselves. Be strong and courageous for your God is with you!
Get some Christian friends who will help lift you up in prayer andwho will stnad with you through this.
Your children will soon get to the place where they will see the truth for themselves. Be strong and courageous for your God is with you!
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I pray you are in some sort of therapy or counseling. You will need to have an objective person to talk to, cry on, etc.
His lies will eventually catch up with him. Until then, just stay the course and remember that God is on your side.
hugs,
Trish
His lies will eventually catch up with him. Until then, just stay the course and remember that God is on your side.
hugs,
Trish
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Thanks, I do have some wonderful Christian friends who hold me up in prayer and I love them for it. I know that my kids will see the truth, they will have too sooner or later, I just hate to see them get hurt more but I'm afraid that he is going to start asking them for money. He is already playing on their sympathies and it makes me sick. I don't understand how a parent can do this to their child, I don't care how old they are. He plays these games for himself. It is all about him nobody else. He is in it for what he can get out of people, no matter who they are. I still pray that he will open his heart and life to God and see what he is doing. He is a con artist and you never know with him what is real and what is not.
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Thank you, I'm not in counciling at the moment. I know that I should be but I don't know where to go. It is a matter of time too. I'm going to have to find an extra job to keep my head above water here. It is getting hard. Please pray that I can sell this house and get moved so I can get on with my life no matter how scared that I am. I know that God is with me and will be as long as I allow Him to be. I'm just in a place that I never thought that I would be or ever wanted to be.
Thank you for your prayers it means alot.
God Bless
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My prayers are with you. May God strengthen and keep you safe through this. I too was scared but through diligent prayer God turned my fear into a determination to retain my joyful spirit and survive. Remember sometimes we find strength in places we never thought we'd be.
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Thank you for your prayers. It helps to know that there are people out there going through some of the same things that I am going through. I don't feel so alone in it.
God Bless you
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