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Hello guys

Things in my life have been going pretty well new job, toys, got involved with my church, joined a gym and im staying active. Problem is im still lonely and sad and depressed at times. Its been almost a year since my ex dumped me. For some reason I had a dream about her last night and that just added to my loneliness today. I did something that I never done before which is to go spy on her social media. Intresting as there are recent posts bringing up her ex (me) not in the most positive light. Seeing as we broke up due to distsnce and her unhappiness she says im suprised of the negative comments still almost a year later. Just sucks im still lonely can't find anyone else trying to do better but have a big almost relapse like this as im making good strides I thought.

Prayer reading what can change this mindset of being so down:doh:
 

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Sorry you're feeling so lonely. It takes a long time to get over a broken heart, and even if you are really over that person, reminders of them can still feel painful. I think sometimes those painful twinges are not always because you're missing them, but rather because you're missing having somebody, being a pair, having somebody to share stuff with.

Praying for you :prayer:
 
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Sorry you're feeling so lonely. It takes a long time to get over a broken heart, and even if you are really over that person, reminders of them can still feel painful. I think sometimes those painful twinges are not always because you're missing them, but rather because you're missing having somebody, being a pair, having somebody to share stuff with.

Praying for you :prayer:

Very true. And sometimes you dont miss the person, you miss who you thought they were when you were together.
Hang in there, this feeling will also soon pass.
 
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ToBeBlessed

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Hello guys

Things in my life have been going pretty well new job, toys, got involved with my church, joined a gym and im staying active. Problem is im still lonely and sad and depressed at times. Its been almost a year since my ex dumped me. For some reason I had a dream about her last night and that just added to my loneliness today. I did something that I never done before which is to go spy on her social media. Intresting as there are recent posts bringing up her ex (me) not in the most positive light. Seeing as we broke up due to distsnce and her unhappiness she says im suprised of the negative comments still almost a year later. Just sucks im still lonely can't find anyone else trying to do better but have a big almost relapse like this as im making good strides I thought.

Prayer reading what can change this mindset of being so down:doh:

You are making great strides!

Yes your a little lonely, but your doing so many things right! The devil wants to convince you that your loneliness is overwhelming all the wonderful things you have been doing. When those thoughts come in your mind, just say 'giving it to Jesus'. 'Lord please take this loneliness burden from me'.

Don't let satan get into your head. I'll be praying for you too.

Is the exercise helping release stress and endorphins in your brain? Exercise is suppose to release more 'happy' endorphins. Maybe try to keep working out. Life doesn't change in one day or one week. Keep up the good work. :thumbsup:
 
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