How do you SAHM's be sick and still manage everything? I feel like with each day I feel worse and worse... I'm not as tired as I was yeseterday, but I ache more then yesterday, plus ontop of that, my husband felt my head and said I am burning up, but still, refuses to lift a finger

I got mad at him earlier and pretty much told him how it was going to be, I know he worked all day, but so have I, maybe I don't get paid for my job, but being a SAHM ya do work. Well I told hime I really didn't feel like cooking, that my body was telling me to just relax, but he insisted that I cooked, I kinda pouted about it, but delt with it, and got up to cook, I know Seth won't eat what I cooked, so I asked Coby to come in and cook Seths while I prepair ours, he said he would, Seth is bouncing under me, "Mommy, I'm hungry" well I tell him "Please go bug ur dad, he is cooking ur food tonight" so he goes and tells his daddy "Just a minute" this goes on for about 5 times, finally I'm thed up and say "Never mind, sorry I bothered to ask you to help me" and he had his head phones on so he didn't hear me. I start to prepair Seths, and he comes in "I told you I'd do it" and I tell him "I asked you to do 5 times, I got tired of asking you, if you really wanted to help me, you would have done it" well at this time, I'm upset, and not feeling good, so it rolls together, and I almost pass out, The he asks "Whats wrong?" and I tell him "Hmm, well I been running fever the past 2 days, I feel horrible, I look horrible, I can't relax because you couldn't just cook dinner tonight and let me just relax." He says "I don't know how to cook what ur cooking" Well thats not good enough I say "I could walk you through it, its easy" well at this point I'm crying, and I look at him and say "After dinner, I'm going to take a 2 hour nap, you are taking care of Seth, if Seth comes up stairs to bug me, I'm not going to be happy"
Maybe I didn't handle it good, but I'm tired, I don't feel good, I just want to beable to relax... Dinner is ready, I'm off to eat, and go take my nap.