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I KWYM!! When our DH's are ill, we are there for them and they get to lay in bed all day! But when we are ill....it's still the same old day! Get up, get dressed, get the kids fed and dressed, do the dishes, make sure the kids are safe and have an activity to do, then start all over again. Yeah sure, the chores can wait, but the kids cannot wait! I'm sorry you're not feeling well sistah! May God bless you and hope you feel better soon!
 
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I think we all agree that this is not a great part of being a SAHM. I wish I had a good answer. I haven't figured out one yet. I wish our city was big enough to have a nanny temping service. I know you can find help temporarily in big cities....not here....but it also costs a fortune. This past week I was sick enough I would have splurged on someone to take the kids to school, activities and make some meals. I needed a clone really really bad.
 
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A clone would be nice!
We looked into a nanny...but it wasn't for us.
At least not last year...Jake still had stranger anxiety and he is just now getting over separation anxiety.
So...we may try again soon.
That, my friends, would be Heaven.
But yes, it is rather pricey. I don't want a live-in nanny though...just one that will take the kids here and there, maybe get them lunch, etc while i do my chores and go shopping for groceries.
Or on a grown-up play date!
 
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