She says hi sometimes, then she doesn't say hi other times. When she doesn't say hi it usually means she is mad at me or something. So I was commenting on her not saying hi because I think she's upset again. I don't get why she feels the need to say hi when she really doesn't want to..it just seems to be a polite chore.
I'm not sure a mediator would work unelss we got another RA to do it because the RA we have now is friends with her. Also, she has said before that she thinks talking with an RA is childish
I am just going to keep praying about it and if she still seems upset when I return from class tonight, I'm going to tell her that she seems upset and ask her what's going on, and ask her to give me a heads up when she is going to have a guest over (i'll be a bit better with words than that though). I mean, I know it's a dorm and that we don't have much privacy anywhere here, so I understand bringing a guy to the room to hang out, otherwise I would definitely not be okay with it. I don't bring guys up here, if a guy friend or my b/f comes to see me we go somewhere on campus or off campus. Anyway, thanks for the advice! I will let you know how things go! I am hoping we can at least get through the rest of the semester peacefully!
I'm not sure a mediator would work unelss we got another RA to do it because the RA we have now is friends with her. Also, she has said before that she thinks talking with an RA is childish
I am just going to keep praying about it and if she still seems upset when I return from class tonight, I'm going to tell her that she seems upset and ask her what's going on, and ask her to give me a heads up when she is going to have a guest over (i'll be a bit better with words than that though). I mean, I know it's a dorm and that we don't have much privacy anywhere here, so I understand bringing a guy to the room to hang out, otherwise I would definitely not be okay with it. I don't bring guys up here, if a guy friend or my b/f comes to see me we go somewhere on campus or off campus. Anyway, thanks for the advice! I will let you know how things go! I am hoping we can at least get through the rest of the semester peacefully!
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