"For those He foreknew He also predestined to be conformed to the image of His Son, so that He would be the firstborn among many brothers. And those He predestined, He also called; and those He called, He also justified, He also glorified." (Taken from the HCSB.)
Well, I formally rejected Calvinism in 2017 but ended up losing my faith altogether. That took a deadly turn and I almost became a criminal.
God delivered me from that lifestyle and brought me back to Christianity wholesale. (Not like I'm divinely cured of all my struggles; I still wrestle with a lot that I ought not to feel.)
My rejection of Calvinism was based on the free will argument, of course. While I never truly believed in absolute free will, I allowed enough leeway so that I could believe in prevenient grace over the believer's life. I thought that God was offering me prevenient grace a lot of times, but was it actually
irresistible grace?
I re-read this verse after I came out of the shower and I reached the same conclusion I did when I first embraced Calvinism. This verse, again, destroyed my Arminianism just in the last thirty minutes.
Deja vu.
I do not want to embrace my prideful Calvinist attitude that I had many months ago. Yet this verse convinces me of the validity of Calvinism theologically. Yet I find that many Calvinists get all prideful over their 'theological superiority' and that's something I balk at.
This verse is Calvinist. There is no other way to say it. God chose us in Him. I cannot twist this verse to support any form of Arminianism. I believe what the Bible says.