Ainesis said:
Although I can appreciate what you are trying to say, I can only take your word for being representative of how you feel. It would be rather silly to think that you are speaking on behald of 1.4 billion people.
Why? The Cathlic and Orthodox Church have never changed the defintion of Theotokos . .
Those are the 1.4 billion people I am referring to . . and all are obigated to believe what the Church teaches it means . . they are not free to come up with their own interpretation . .
I think you can be safe in accepting that the Church is teaching the same thing to all 1.4 billion people . .
I am not expressing a PERSONAL opinion or belief ainesis . . but the explicit teaching of the Church . .
So this is not a discussion of what "I" understand vs what "you" understand . .
This is a discussion about what the Church clearly teaches vs what "you" understand.
There is a significant difference . .
I am sorry, but I can not oblige you in turning this into a discussion of our respective "personal" beliefs.
Additionally, large numbers are really not that significant. Afterall, broad is the way that leads to destruction and many will follow that path. That is not a comment about the 1.4 billion people you refer to (whomever they are), but it is simply an illustration of how massive numbers do not equate to Truth.
I am not the one who first brought up the idea of numbers . . I was responding to your assertion of "some" . .
Since 4 billion are not Christian in this world, yes, broad is the way .
I am referring specifically to those Churches which have always held to the same definition and understanding of the word Theotokos the Catholic and Eastern Orthodox Churches.
I think you have chosen the wrong example to show how massive number do not equate to truth . . the massive numbers are on the other side of the rest of this earth's population . .
The council created the word "mother"?
The council officialy decreed the word "THEOTOKOS" the English translation is "Mother of God" ..
(Theotokos was in use much earlier than that, so when I said created earlier, it would have been more accurate to say "decreed" . .but I was not speaking of the Enlgish word "mother" . . that is part of the translation of Thetokos).
How do you see these "protesters" defining the word "mother"?
However they want to . . like you have.
I think it would be much less confusing if you focused on the original word, Theotokos instead of the English translation .. it might help you understand where we are coming from better.
Actually, "we" don't. The mother of my dog Cooney is referred to as Cooney's mother. But to each his own.
Vets refer to them as b*tches - didn't you know that is where the slang term "b*tch" comes from? I assumed you did so did not explain, please accept my apologies . . because of its slang usage, I understand why people do not use it to refer to the female dog at home . . but it is the appropriate way to refer to one who has had pups . . .
I haven't seen anyone making that claim here tlf. Perhaps they have, but Ihaven't seen it. My only comments were about the title mother of God, and no, I do not agree with that.
Thanks

But there is that concern that it could move in that direction, am I right?
Which has actually been my point all along. I do not think that the title in question fully depicts that.
I understand your position . . but here is a similar situation that might be easy to relate to especially in relation to this thread . .
If I say I worship Mary you would hear one thing . . that I am giving Mary worship that is due God alone . .
If the word "worship" can only mean what you understand it to me, then you would be right and I would be committing idol worship . .
But if I say I worship Mary and that word "worship" can have additional usages which you are unaware of, legitimate usages, that would not ascribe to Mary a position of divinity, but that would denote reverence properly due man without impinging on the worship due God alone, then I would be perfectly in my right to use it in that way, even if you didn't understand, and it would never mean what you think it means. .
It is a matter of perspective . .
When one group uses a word in a certain way, when speaking of their usage of that word, it is inappropriate to insist that their understanding of that word is in error . .
No . . it is a culturally determined thing . . not a linguistially determined thing ..
Linguistics are dependent on culture much more than culture on linguistics . .
So, the phrase .. when in Rome, do as the Romans do . .
Meaning, in this context, that it is not proper to take another's use of a word out of its cultural context for them and evaluate it from your own cultural perspective .. Culture changes a lot of things, and lots of misunderstandings occur between cultures over issues just like this . .
Perhaps you are taking things just a little too personally. Why does someone disagreeing with this title mean in your mind that they are finding fault with any church? I understand what the title is meant to imply, and I agree with that implication. I do not agree that this title accurately reflects that intention on its face.
I was over broad in my comment . . many do, and that is what I should have said. Another comment you made later though does tie into this idea.
Some people may very well believe that. I do not, so I cannot answer for them. I do believe that Catholic veneration of Mary is beyond what is Scriptural, but I do not think that error is due to the title under discussion.
It helps to be clearer on where we are coming from, so thank you for sharing this.
Then you may want to get used to having problems, because there will always be someone somewhere who doesn't see things the way you do. If we understood that, and further appreciated that such disagreement is not always personal, it may help to temper responses.
Perhaps it would help to not assume what someone is used to and is not used to as well .
Peace to all!