Roald said:
Anyway, this is my first post in Orthodox, so hello from the 'Westside'!
Word up, homeboy.
To answer your original question, the problems many Orthodox have with the Western way of worship are primarily based on changes made during Vatican II. What I find incredible is that many of Vatican II's decisions and such are worded so vaguely; a Byzantine Catholic friend of mine told me how Vatican II's call for active participation in the liturgy lead to something called "liturgical dancing"--anybody want to tell me what that was about?...
In many Orthodox eyes, we look at things like Vatican II and we see the Catholic Church placing ecumenism higher than orthodoxy (notice the little "o"

) and orthopraxis. Some of us interpret these decisions as saying that ecumenism (and therefore inoffensiveness) is more important than following the ways and traditions handed down by the Apostles.
To get back more on topic, my friend told me about a Catholic friend of hers who would take her small son to church with her. The church was of a more traditional style. The woman would ask her son, "Where's Jesus? Find Jesus for me." Her son would then point to a crucifix, a picture, or whatever. Then they moved to a different city and went to a more modern-style Catholic church, and she did the same thing with her son, asking him to point to where Jesus was. The boy looked around--and couldn't find anything to point to! There wasn't any artwork, the only cross they could see was Protestant-style without a body, et cetera. The woman later said that right then and there, she had half a mind to write to their bishop and ask why her son couldn't find Jesus in a Catholic church!
I went to a Catholic mass early this year and that was one thing that made me kind of sad, was that there weren't that many things there to represent God, Christ, or anything to do with what we were there for. I think there was a crucifix in the back, and there was a Chi-Rho thing at the front, and I noticed the Alpha-Omega symbols in the "stained glass" (it wasn't real, it was controlled by a dimmer switch).
(Also, I don't know if there are even supposed to be any rules about this, but I found it curious that the priest had absolutely no idea who I was but he asked me to be one of the ones to bring up the gifts. I certainly gave no indication that I was Catholic, I had just TOLD him I wasn't Catholic in a (failed) effort to get to talk with him afterwards, and at the time, I wasn't even baptized. I did as the priest asked me to, but I felt REALLY uncomfortable about handling what was supposed to be consecrated as the body of Christ while I had yet to be baptized a Christian.)
I'm not sure how familiar you are with Eastern Christian worship practice so I hope I'm not going back too far. Traditional Orthodox church architecture and worship practice is geared towards keeping us focused on Christ. At nearly all times in every service, the faithful are facing an iconostasis covered in icons of the One we are there to worship and those holy ones we venerate. And even when we're not facing the iconostasis, the other walls are covered in icons, too. In many churches, there are no pews, or if there are any, we do not use them very much--we tend to stand through most of the liturgy. (It was tough for this ex-Protestant at first, but ya get used to it after awhile, trust me.) When your church makes you stand up most of the time, you have a lot less problems with people snoring during the consecration.
