most of the settlers were hypocrites and abused native populations
What the settlers did was wrong, but it does not invalidate Christianity.
If they put down anyone, that is wrong.
@Eva Quispe >
I understand the Bible means that any person who trusts in Jesus is adopted to be God's own child.
"For you did not receive the spirit of bondage again to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption by whom we cry out, 'Abba, Father.'" (Romans 8:15)
"Behold what manner of love the Father has bestowed on us, that we should be called children of God!" (in 1 John 3:1)
Every one of us who have trusted in Jesus has been adopted; so there is no special superior group of us!!! And every child of God becomes able to pray effectively for any other person, and every child of God can talk about God's word and we all can help each other >
"Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers." (Ephesians 4:29)
From this scripture, I see that God means that any child of God can minister God's own grace . . . by what we pray and say to each other. And God's grace changes us to be like Jesus so we can please God like Jesus is so pleasing, plus we can love as family and care with hope for any and all people. Because
God's grace in us is the effect of His own love in our character.
My parents and I attended an evangelical church.
Evangelical can be good. What matters is if you have mature
"examples" of how God's grace of His word can have
all of us become and live >
"nor as being lords over those entrusted to you, but being examples to the flock." (1 Peter 5:3)
And I offer how a Biblical
example is a person who is becoming and living and ministering the way
any of us can. So, an
example is meant to bring
equality of all God's children, in how blessed and bles
sing we all can become in God's grace.
And Jesus Himself has prayed >
"that You have sent Me, and have loved them as You have loved Me," (in John 17:23) >
This is what Jesus Himself prays! So, not only does Christianity make us equal as children with one another, but Jesus desires and has claimed in prayer, that we are loved even as our Father has loved His own Son Jesus!!!
This shows how un-conceited Jesus is, and how we need to pray with consideration of any and all others, as much as for our own selves.
I understand it’s a personal connection with Jesus
And the Bible says >
"But he who is joined to the Lord is one spirit with Him." (1 Corinthians 6:17)
And this union with Christ has all of us His children in family connection with each other. And this is in Jesus Christ's love so we can love one another the way Jesus has loved us >
"And walk in love, as Christ also has loved us and given Himself for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet-smelling aroma." (Ephesians 5:2)
So, our main equality is not in status or position or acceptance, but in how we all can love like Jesus.
So, God our Father indeed is about family, not hierarchy of who is more or less than anyone else. We have how our great leaders related with the Thessalonians >
"as a nursing mother cherishes her own children,"
we have in 1 Thessalonians 2:7. So, I can see from this how Paul and Silvanus and Timothy considered nursing mothers to be their example of how to care for Christ's church. Possibly, then, ladies helped our great leaders find out how God wanted them to care for His people.
And, Eva, I understand you are saying your people have had a family culture, including with remembering and honoring your ancestors. So, you can more readily appreciate how God's word means for us to be one big family in Jesus . . . not with a bunch of individual groups and individual big-name people and individual Christians who are independent of each other.
Free will should free us to become together with one another, not isolate us so we are making our own choices and trying to be great, only then to wonder why we are lonely and bored and stressing out in our own pursuits!!
Learning how to love and share and trust and depend on one another as family is part of the most interesting and worthwhile challenge there is. This is included in the greatest adventure and best possible education we can have
in intimacy with God > to learn how to love as family.
So, yes we have connection . . . with intimacy of sharing as family.
And God's word does say >
"Test all things; hold fast what is good." (1 Thessalonians 5:21)
To me, this means you are expected to make sure with God about things. And Biblical leaders are
"examples" who are humble to welcome you to make sure about what they say and make sure with God about what they would lead you to do.
Now, then > a thing to consider . . . to test . . . is that if God gives us His approved
"examples" now in our real lives, then possibly we need to not give too much attention to past family members and ones said to be saints > partly because we can not personally get to know them and their real lives and test how good, then, there examples really were. Because Jesus has no superior out-of-reach people who are only in the past or are distant from us, but Jesus has provided us with His personal
"examples to the flock" here with us now.