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Sparagmos

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I'm sure that's true, but I honestly don't feel that is truly the issue. She has plenty of energy and drive to commit to many activities and other things, but she doesn't seem as interested in sex, or at least reserves all her energy for other activities.
I’m not an expert, but testosterone specifically increases sex drive. Don’t knock it til you’ve tried it!
 
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jameseb

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I’m not an expert, but testosterone specifically increases sex drive. Don’t knock it til you’ve tried it!

Haha, I won't, though I don't need it myself. However, I don't think that is the issue with my wife. I'm not even sure how I would broach the subject with her... I'd need advice for that as well! ;)
 
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Why wouldn’t her own sex drive be a measuring stick as well? You seem to be leaving her desires and needs out of the equation. The Poster I responded to knew the husband’s sex drive was less than normal, because she described the situation well enough that most of us were able to determine he had a low sex drive. There was no discussion of the husband’s sexual past, only the wife’s. Par for the course from people with sexist ideas and double standards.
Because everything revolves around the man, ya know?
 
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