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I had a disturbing dream last night that was one of those dreams that shook my spirit.

I dreamt that I was still married to my ex-husband. We were living here in Oregon and had a home, a church, our kids had a school and friends, I had friends--in other words we had a LIFE built. And one day for no apparent reason he decided we were going to move to New Jersey!! CLEAR ACROSS THE COUNTRY!! We had no home there, no job, no friends or family, knew no one...and he did not consult me or discuss it with me. He just announced that we were moving next week. He was renting a UHaul, and he expected me to have the whole house packed--plus, I was going to have to help him pack the truck! AT MY AGE!!

Needless to say, in my dream I was FLABBERGASTED!! I felt like I didn't even exist and none of my desires or needs were even heard, much less considered. But it was that feeling of being *discounted* that really shook me. As I said, I felt like I didn't exist, and that disturbed me.
 
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I guess I need a dream catcher!
 
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I had a disturbing dream last night that was one of those dreams that shook my spirit.

I dreamt that I was still married to my ex-husband. We were living here in Oregon and had a home, a church, our kids had a school and friends, I had friends--in other words we had a LIFE built. And one day for no apparent reason he decided we were going to move to New Jersey!! CLEAR ACROSS THE COUNTRY!! We had no home there, no job, no friends or family, knew no one...and he did not consult me or discuss it with me. He just announced that we were moving next week. He was renting a UHaul, and he expected me to have the whole house packed--plus, I was going to have to help him pack the truck! AT MY AGE!!

Needless to say, in my dream I was FLABBERGASTED!! I felt like I didn't even exist and none of my desires or needs were even heard, much less considered. But it was that feeling of being *discounted* that really shook me. As I said, I felt like I didn't exist, and that disturbed me.

I'm not good with dreams either- mainly other people's dreams. I am good with mine though. ^_^

If I had that dream here's how I would break it down.
Who does the ex represent? Or what traits does he represent?

To me the move would be symbolic to a new direction in my life. Not something small, something medium or big. The reason I would think something medium instead of big is because through moving you can rebuild, re-establish and create new.

Then I'd have to ask myself is this a God dream, or a me dream? Is God telling me there are going to be changes and regardless of my feelings towards it, it going to happen? Or is this me and am I holding onto feelings and emotions about something that I already know is going to happen?

That's just how I break them down for myself. I don't know how helpful it will be to you, but hopefully something will make sense. I'd pray asking God to help you understand 1) who it came from and 2) what it really means.

Regardless I'll be praying for you. :prayer:

Menominee.

Welcome! :wave:


Hello everyone! May we all feel God's presence and see the little miracles of every day with Him.
 
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I agree with Christianna about your dream, Faithful Wife.

How are you, Red Fox? Has your husband returned home yet from his business trip?

What are some of your secrets and strengths that help you to raise seven children (including a small infant!)

Share your strengths and needs with us.
 
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I also agree with Cristianna. My husband came home flew home Saturday night, but he is gone again for another 2 weeks. My children and I took him to the airport yesterday afternoon. My secrets to help me raise my children? I do not have any. And all my strength comes from the L-rd, because without his grace, I would not be able to make it through. It is my faith in him that enables me to cope with my husband being gone. I am in need of prayer because all but one of my children are sick with a stomach virus. I am not feeling all that well either. Since we were gone last week, we are now behind on laundry (lots and lots of laundry), and our house is in need of cleaning. But none of us really feel well and rested enough to do anything about it. I am also having chest pains. Please remember us in your prayers.
 
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I can testify that having 7 kids, there are literally mountains of laundry. I think to "keep up" we do 3-4 loads a day--washed, dried, folded and put away.

One of my biggest tricks for raising a bunch of kids is to have a sense of humor about it. When they spill milk, laugh a little. When they break something, it's just a vase or a lamp--laugh. After all, THEY are the precious thing in my life, not the vase or lamp.
 
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Red Fox, I love that pic of the red fox!!!

I once saw a red fox while I was doing my newspaper route....it is a treat to see one as they seem to hide out most of the time...

Thanks again for all the great pics and art that you post in my guest book, in your Talking Circle, and at WWJD.

You are a blessing more than you know!

love,
Jan
 
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I am rather fond of the red fox actually, even before I was given the name. I have always admired its swiftness, gentleness and cleverness.

But you, my friend, I compare to the swan. You have grace in dealing with others. You are calm and gentle, but you are spiritually strong. Your words and actions reflect your inner beauty, tenderness, and courage. You do indeed walk in peace and in beauty, my friend.

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A burden for the Indians, you say
you have a burden for the Indians
and anxiously wait for my reply
thinking your words warm my heart.
Instead they send a chill down my spine.

A burden for the Indians, you say
you have a burden for the Indians.
Be my Indian guide; take me to your people.
Be my Tonto; I'll be your Lone Ranger.
I'll be your Custer; you be me White-Man-Owns-Him.

A burden for the Indians, you say
you have a burden for the Indians.
You've always dreamed of this:
A two-week adventure with lifetime bragging rights.
Indians left to live or die with the consequences.

A burden for the Indians, you say
you have a burden for the Indians.
Have you, your church, your denomination
ever opposed the slaughter, the theft of land,
the termination of our ways of life?

A burden for the Indians, you say
you have a burden for the Indians.
Is this the burden of Columbus and Smith,
of Bradford and Amherst and Sevier,
of Wayne and Harrison and Dawes?

A burden for the Indians, you say
you have a burden for the Indians
to kill the Indian but save the man?
The only good Indian is the one who died
or behaves as one already dead.

A burden for the Indians, you say
you have a burden for the Indians.
Is this the burden of the gospel of greed
that comes calling itself civilization
preaching the salvation of selfishness?

A burden for the Indians, you say
you have a burden for the Indians.
Is this the burden of a cannibal culture
prowling around, looking for one to devour,
crossing earth and sea for a single convert?

A burden for the Indians, you say
you have a burden for the Indians.
Who am I to pass judgment on another?
But, you will know them by their fruits.
Grapes will never grow on sawbriers.

A burden for the Indians, you say
you have a burden for the Indians.
Did Creator lay such a burden on your heart?
"My burden is light," the Great One says.
"You are the burden and I will cast you off."

A burden for the Indians, you say
you have a burden for the Indians.
The white man's burden lays a heavy load
that bends and breaks the backs
of all for whom he is burdened.

A burden for the Indians, you say
you have a burden for the Indians,
and you anxiously wait for my reply.
GET OVER IT! I say; then maybe we Indians can
get over 500 years of your burden lain on us.

For those non-Indians who feel they have a burden for the Indian: The "white-man's burden" has consistently made things worse for American Indian people. You may be thinking that what you are feeling inside is different. I hope it is. Are you willing to help without seeking to control? Are you willing to listen before you speak? Are you willing to observe before you ask questions? Are you willing to acknowledge the neediness of your own people and of your own self as well as the neediness or "plight" of the Indians? Are you willing to acknowledge that the healing of your people and the healing of other peoples, including American Indian peoples, is intricately bound together? Are you willing to understand that healing for Indian peoples does not mean Indian people becoming more like you? Are you willing to lay aside the idols of civil religion and denominational or religious dogma that you may hear the voice of the Spirit and act on what you hear? If you have answered "Yes" to, at least, some of these questions, there is hope. Let's talk.

Native American Indian spiritual helpers live in poverty on a fraction of what white ministers or white missionaries to Indians are paid. This disparity remains regardless of the level of education achieved by Indian helpers or ministers. If you really want to help American Indians, encourage your church to get involved in financially helping an American Indian helper who is working within the culture (the only New Testament approach) of his/her own people. To make this a reciprocal, helping relationship, encourage your church to invite that person to speak in your church periodically (not five-minutes before worship to explain the "plight" of the poor Indian but the whole worship time to meaningfully share in ways that will help the people of your church).

Bible References: Matthew 23:15; Romans 14:4; Matthew 7:16; Matthew 11:30; Jeremiah 23:33

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