Yes something is happening on that maybe tennis ball sized star maybe a few light years away for all we know. We do not know distances or sizes. Whatever we see happening is always here in TIME also! OUR time.
Well, if there was time but it was different, less or more or whatever, all that would be happening is that it did what it did in IT'S time. We then see that event in OUR time!
Not true. You do all sorts of believing and assuming.
Absurd. That is like saying if an angel moves it must take a lot of time. When the spiritual is involved all usual rules are off. Out the window. No time need be involved in movement when the spiritual is involved. Also, even if there WERE time of some sort, or some degree in deep space, how much time there is compared to ours we do not know! What takes say, a moment to move there might seem to us here IN time, to take a thousand years!
Remember that decay takes so much time. That means what se see here does not need to equal the time somewhere else.
That depends, give an example. I seem to recall them saying that the decay time seemed to best match some cobalt decay or some such.
Let's call a spade a spade.
Yes, when something pretends not to be!