I request to add this question to the OP, as it's one I have never received a clear answer to:
Why do synergists have such a problem with limited atonement? Why do they insist that Jesus suffered and died under the wrath of God for the sins of people he, in his omniscience, knew would never believe anyway? What did Jesus' death accomplish for them? Don't forget - election happened before the foundation of the world, and Christ's atonement happened in time. That means the elect were named before Christ ever entered the scene. So assuming conditional election is true, what difference would it make in the synergist system if Christ had only suffered and died for the sins of people he knew would believe?
I cannot understand how synergists don't see that this is pitting the persons of the Godhead against each other. The Father elects individuals before the foundation of the world, and the Son enters creation and suffers and dies for more than the Father elected, and Spirit convicts, draws, etc. more people than the Father elected. Do the Son and Spirit love people more than the Father does? Why are the Son and Spirit trying to save people the Father didn't elect? Are the Son and Spirit not omniscient? Do they think the Father elected every single person or something??
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