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Leanna

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Starling2003 said:
When you notice an attractive woman and she is wearing a low cut shirt, do your eyes instantly go to her bosom?

Well I'm a woman, but when I see a woman and she is wearing a shirt with her breasts hanging out *I* have a hard time not glancing. Hello. So don't be hard on men because they glance, only if they then stare and check out the rest of the package :o
 
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All I can say is I do my best not to. If it's a passerby, look elsewhere.

If talking to her, well. Thats easy. I always look at peoples faces, specifically their eyes when talking to them.

So yes, I'm afraid they do go immidiately to her bosem. Just long enough for me to notice and then look elsewhere.

Truth be told, I usually feel embaressed by that for them.
 
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Starling2003 said:
When you notice an attractive woman and she is wearing a low cut shirt, do your eyes instantly go to her bosom?

Eversince I have reverted back into Christianity and decided to free myself from the bondage of porn and masturbation. One of the struggles is not looking at an attractive woman while she is wearing a low cut shirt that reveals her clevage. By natural instincts my eyes automaticly go to her bosom. Yes, I am still struggling with this, especialy after going through the hormone stormed teenage years and checking out girls with large bosoms.

Oh how I feel shallow for going through this :o
 
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I think it is hard not to notice.... THAT is exactly why fashi on designers design them that way.

But like someone else said....I normally wonder... why do you need to show your stuff?

I think women need to understand that guys are visual.

designers understand that as do companies that make commercials - but it is never taught to girls that guys are very visual.
 
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