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I'm hoping to get some help here.
I started in a Baptist church, and am very familiar with the forms for communion. My husband comes from a non-denominational church which is basically aligned most closely with Reformed Baptist, is what he has told me.
Without going into it too deeply, I believe my understand of communion is actually not the same as my husband's. I have not been able to understand exactly what he is getting at, so I wonder if I might get some understanding by asking here?
I'm not sure, btw, if his beliefs are exactly Baptist on this either, but it's the best guess I've got.
First, do you think people can have communion on their own at home, just a family, for example, or even alone?
Second - I know it is to be symbolic of the body and blood of Christ, done in remembrance of Him, and as an act of obedience, correct? Do you give any deeper meaning to it than that? If you don't receive communion, are you missing something important? When you take communion, do you receive any particular benefit from it?
That is the part I am trying to understand. My husband quoted Christ saying to the crowd before they departed that they must eat His flesh and drink His blood, or else there is no life in them. Does that fit into your beliefs about communion at all? If so, it seems you must get some benefit from doing it? Or is it just obedience (which makes no real sense to me, as it would be works-salvation in that case)?
Forgive me for the way in which I ask if it is offensive to anyone in any way - I don't mean to be. I took communion at Baptist churches but I suppose it was never fully explained, and I have my interpretation of the Bible layered over that, which has made my beliefs different as well.
BTW, would it bother you if the bread/wafers were dropped on the floor and stepped on? Does that seem disrespectful, or do you think that places too much importance on it?
Again, forgive me, I'm only trying to understand how things are viewed in different churches, so I hope no one is offended by the questions.
Thanks for any help in understanding. I am trying to discuss a wide range of theological things with my husband and figure out where we are on the same page and where we are not - we are trying to find a church. Thank you.
I started in a Baptist church, and am very familiar with the forms for communion. My husband comes from a non-denominational church which is basically aligned most closely with Reformed Baptist, is what he has told me.
Without going into it too deeply, I believe my understand of communion is actually not the same as my husband's. I have not been able to understand exactly what he is getting at, so I wonder if I might get some understanding by asking here?
I'm not sure, btw, if his beliefs are exactly Baptist on this either, but it's the best guess I've got.
First, do you think people can have communion on their own at home, just a family, for example, or even alone?
Second - I know it is to be symbolic of the body and blood of Christ, done in remembrance of Him, and as an act of obedience, correct? Do you give any deeper meaning to it than that? If you don't receive communion, are you missing something important? When you take communion, do you receive any particular benefit from it?
That is the part I am trying to understand. My husband quoted Christ saying to the crowd before they departed that they must eat His flesh and drink His blood, or else there is no life in them. Does that fit into your beliefs about communion at all? If so, it seems you must get some benefit from doing it? Or is it just obedience (which makes no real sense to me, as it would be works-salvation in that case)?
Forgive me for the way in which I ask if it is offensive to anyone in any way - I don't mean to be. I took communion at Baptist churches but I suppose it was never fully explained, and I have my interpretation of the Bible layered over that, which has made my beliefs different as well.
BTW, would it bother you if the bread/wafers were dropped on the floor and stepped on? Does that seem disrespectful, or do you think that places too much importance on it?
Again, forgive me, I'm only trying to understand how things are viewed in different churches, so I hope no one is offended by the questions.
Thanks for any help in understanding. I am trying to discuss a wide range of theological things with my husband and figure out where we are on the same page and where we are not - we are trying to find a church. Thank you.