Has God the Son, creator of the universe ever suckled at your breasts and spent 30 years subject to you as an obedient child? Think of how close was the relationship of Mary and Jesus.
Where did Mary come from? Was she just a random girl that God chose to fulfill His purposes? Are we creatures to be used for mere pleasure or does He love us and give Himself for us?
Are God’s ways not so far above ours? Consider proverbs chapter 8 where wisdom is a woman that plays before God.
22 The Lord possessed me in the beginning of his ways, before he made any thing from the beginning.
23 I was set up from eternity, and of old before the earth was made.
24 The depths were not as yet, and I was already conceived. neither had the fountains of waters as yet sprung out:
25 The mountains with their huge bulk had not as yet been established: before the hills I was brought forth:
26 He had not yet made the earth, nor the rivers, nor the poles of the world.
27 When he prepared the heavens, I was present: when with a certain law and compass he enclosed the depths:
28 When he established the sky above, and poised the fountains of waters:
29 When he compassed the sea with its bounds, and set a law to the waters that they should not pass their limits: when he balanced the foundations of the earth;
30 I was with him forming all things: and was delighted every day, playing before him at all times;
31 Playing in the world: and my delights were to be with the children of men.
32 Now therefore, ye children, hear me: Blessed are they that keep my ways.
33 Hear instruction and be wise, and refuse it not.
34 Blessed is the man that heareth me, and that watcheth daily at my gates, and waiteth at the posts of my doors.
35 He that shall find me, shall find life, and shall have salvation from the Lord:
36 But he that shall sin against me, shall hurt his own soul. All that hate me love death.
You may say that does not apply to Mary, well then who is she? Wisdom. Ok, then how do you think about God? Is God some Stoner that thinks about abstract concepts and muses the phrase, far out? If you say wisdom is a woman that is not Mary, then do you think that God is more of a Hugh Hefner type that needs multiple women around him to validate his greatness? Or is it more likely that God is faithful and true, and the women described in the Bible as with God are one and the same woman, Mary? Hail Mary full of grace, the Lord is WITH you.