Pursuing a Man vs. Waiting to be Pursued

[Miss Spaulding]

If I talk to young ladies I clam up and studder and sound like an idiot. I have a problem showing I'm interested or even just trying to get to know them better.

Hey now...welcome to the club.

 

[ImperatorWall]

Hey now...welcome to the club.

Why do you have trouble talking to young ladies?

 

[Miss Spaulding]

Why do you have trouble talking to young ladies?

*EDIT: Men for me, not women. Haha.

But I'll answer the question anyhow. I do have trouble talking to young women...I just don't connect. Very rarely anyway. Only a couple times in life have I met a woman around my age who I felt like I can fully trust and be myself around. They make me uncomfortable. This is why I enjoy and prefer the company of older women (both genders actually) and men better.

 

[redblue22]

don't worry, you are doing better than the lliars who pretend to be alpha men. Have you considered going after lots of women and keep sounding like an idiot? a lot of girls like idiots. trust me, I'm an idiot.

 

[Spunkn]

*EDIT: Men for me, not women. Haha.

But I'll answer the question anyhow. I do have trouble talking to young women...I just don't connect. Very rarely anyway. Only a couple times in life have I met a women around my age who I felt like I can fully trust and be myself around. They make me uncomfortable. This is why I enjoy and prefer the company of older women (both genders actually) and men better.

Sounds like conversations between me and other guys

Them: So how about (insert pro football team here)?

Me: Don't really watch pro football games.

Them : Oh, so do you like hunting?

Me: Not really.

Them: Oh...how about cars?

Me: Not really.

Them: Just what kind of guy are you!?!?




It's not that I don't like sports, it's just everyone around here makes it into this huge deal that seems to consume your life. And if you're not into cars, hunting, and sports well...then you're not a "man"

 

[Miss Spaulding]

Sounds like conversations between me and other guys

Them: So how about (insert pro football team here)?

Me: Don't really pro football games.

Them : Oh, so do you like hunting?

Me: Not really.

Them: Oh...how about cars?

Me: Not really.

Them: Just what kind of guy are you!?!?




It's not that I don't like sports, it's just everyone around here makes it into this huge deal that seems to consume your life. And if you're not into cars, hunting, and sports well...then you're not a "man"

YES.

Seriously. I cannot connect whatsoever. Everything is shopping related, hair related, nail polish related, maxi dress related, and everything else in between.....And then I'm all, "Um, I like horseback riding. And old movies. And uh...I like my cats..." Which is promptly followed by...

"Who are you? Where are you from? And why are you here?"

 

[pressingon17]

YES.

Seriously. I cannot connect whatsoever. Everything is shopping related, hair related, nail polish related, maxi dress related, and everything else in between.....And then I'm all, "Um, I like horseback riding. And old movies. And uh...I like my cats..." Which is promptly followed by...

"Who are you? Where are you from? And why are you here?"

I like you. First gal I've ever met not into shopping. My wallet would REALLY like you.

 

[Miss Spaulding]

I like you. First gal I've ever met not into shopping. My wallet would REALLY like you.

It's true. I really don't like shopping. I would definitely be a very cheap girlfriend (in the financial sense, mind you! ).

 

[foundthecure]

Sounds like conversations between me and other guys

Them: So how about (insert pro football team here)?

Me: Don't really pro football games.

Them : Oh, so do you like hunting?

Me: Not really.

Them: Oh...how about cars?

Me: Not really.

Them: Just what kind of guy are you!?!?




It's not that I don't like sports, it's just everyone around here makes it into this huge deal that seems to consume your life. And if you're not into cars, hunting, and sports well...then you're not a "man"

you don't like hunting???????????????????????

just what kind of man are you?

 

[pressingon17]

It's true. I really don't like shopping. I would definitely be a very cheap girlfriend (in the financial sense, mind you! ).

Hahaha
Being "expensive" in other areas is much more important.

 

[Spunkn]

you don't like hunting???????????????????????

just what kind of man are you?

The non-hunting kind. Yeah I went there!

 

[Miss Spaulding]

Hahaha
Being "expensive" in other areas is much more important.

This is true.

 

[pressingon17]

This is true.

There is some things in a relationship with a price tag that says "priceless". Your heart has that same price tag.

 

[Miss Spaulding]

There is some things in a relationship with a price tag that says "priceless". Your heart has that same price tag.

Oh shucks.

 

[pressingon17]

Oh shucks.

 

[Miss Spaulding]

...Now, now. No blushing.

 

[pressingon17]

...Now, now. No blushing.

 

[MacFall]

I think that one actually has bee stings on his cheeks.

 

[pressingon17]

I think that one actually has bee stings on his cheeks.

 

[Miss Spaulding]

Yeah, they are a little redder, aren't they?

There. Feel better?