Well, get this one. The guy I was talking about that I used to work with, he grew up in the Adventist church but was no longer a member but because he still believed what they taught he was totally bought and sold on the idea of soul death. The way he saw it, he could sin all he wanted and not have to pay the price as when his body dies, so does his soul. The way he saw it, it was a win win situation. He got to do all the sins he loved to do, you know, party, party, party; sleep around, sleep around, and sleep around, and never have to worry about judgment. And I'm telling you, he totally believed this. I tried to speak to him about sound doctrine and it didn't matter.
It is sad but what would happen was that I would give him a verse and talk about it with him. He would then in turn talk it over to his mother and talk to her about it, and the next day he would tell me what she said and how wrong I was. I don't care what anybody says, most people look towards an outside party to tell them what is true. This person in the thread saying they don't look to a third party, I view that as mostly rubbish, maybe not for him or her. Whether it's your church, your pastor or Bishop, your mother, brother, sister, or friend, most people would rather take someone else's word for it.