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There is always the act of perfect contrition.
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christinepro said:What is that?
That is beautiful!! It sucks to be so imperfect. I guess that is where grace comes in. We could only do our best to please G_d. I have a long way to go but I'll keep trying.SeenAndUnseen said:One of the most impossible things on earth for an imperfect human being to experience; it is a deep and genuine sorrow for one's sin motivated only by the love of God (not fear of hell, or disgust that stems from spiritual pride, or any other self-centered reason.)
Well, I have heard it is almost impossible anyway. I wonder about that though. Sometimes when I sin, my first thought is not "Oh no! Now I need to go to confession or I'm in big trouble with God!" or "Great, I blew my recent holy streak, " but "Oh my God, I love you! Why am I capable of failing you so?" I'm not suggesting that is anything close to perfect contrition, but it's certainly a different motivation. The thing is, we can never know whether our contrition was perfect or not.
christinepro said:That is beautiful!! It sucks to be so imperfect. I guess that is where grace comes in. We could only do our best to please G_d. I have a long way to go but I'll keep trying.![]()
Thank you. G_d Bless and Shalom to you too. It's nice to visit.D'Ann said:Yes, I agree, it does suck to be sooo imperfect. What hurts my heart more than anything is knowing how imperfect I am and knowing all of my failings and if it hurts my heart, I can only imagine how I've displease our heavenly F-ather. You are right too, that is when grace comes in and by His grace, we have hope for our salvation. I think we all have a long ways to go, but we all keep trying because we truly and sincerely do love G-d and want to please H-m and be holy as He has called us to be.![]()
Welcome to the OBOB.
G-d bless you and Shalom,
Debbie
Dominus Fidelis said:But Jesus said to confess to his priests, so why do you disobey Him?
Pandersen said:Is sin that leads to death the only sin that has to be confessed to a priest? If so how is this sin defined?
Annanias and Sapphira lied to the Holy Spirit, which caused their death. Are thier others?
They had no opportunity to confess to the priest before dying.
Would habitual sin of any kind fall into this category?
It has also been said here and agreed to by many that Jesus is our High Priest and the theif recieved special consideration because of his confession directly to the Savior. That being said, would confession to Christ Himself fullfil the command to confess your sin?
JCrawf said:Mortal sin especially must be confessed because it does lead to the second death if not confessed and repented of. However, one can confess venial sins, it's just that it is not really necessary, being that the Eucharist can take care of those sins. It may be a good idea to confess venial sins when they become more habitual and start to lead toward more serious sin. However, to be overwhelmed by venial sins and feeling a constant necessity to confess them as if they were mortal sins can lead to scruples.
Yes, the major ones are the Ten Commandmensts, though also the seven deadly sins are considered as well. These are sins that are adversarial to the seven virtues.
Actually, they were right there before St. Peter, an apostle and of whom we call the first Pope. The Pope is indeed a priest, and Annanias and Sapphira lied before him as well as the Holy Spirit. As far as I know, such an event has not happened since then, so one has to wonder if this account, being a one time thing, was done in order to express the gravity of mortal sin. But to say they did not have an opportunity to confess to their sins is not quite true, for they had that moment right in front of St. Peter to come clean about what they had done.
To Say Annanias and Sapphira had no chance to confess would be equivalent to saying that Adam and Eve didn't either. Adam and Eve were right in the pressence of God and yet Adam made an excuse rather than a confession. Would things have been different if Adam had just confessed that he ate the fruit he was told not to? We don't know. Nor do we know if the situation with Annanias and Sapphira would have been different if they had just come clean about what they had done. But they certainly had an opportunity to confess.
Habitual sin becomes a vice. Like the trap, it means it is something hard to come out of and, in a sense, something that a person doesn't have their full will to deal with it. A person snared in a trap may want to get out of it, but wanting to and actually getting out of the trap are two differnt things. Considering that a person wants to get out of habitual sin means that there is a certain ammount of culpability that is lessened in as much as the person seeks to escape from the habit.
Well, it's not as simple as a "special consideration" as much as the thief fulfilled what was needed for perfect contrition right in front of our Lord. Moreso, in Confession, a person is confessing their sins directly to Christ, so to say the thief necessarily had any more of a special consideration than any other person who makes their confession to Christ (be it in the Sacrament of Reconciliation or in prayer to Christ) is not quite true. In going to Confession, it is considered that the person is already going there with the intent on making a perfect contrition to the Lord. So there isn't a special martyr discount on where a person can get away from actually making the confession in order to have perfect contrition. For who suffers the greater pennance, the one who goes to Confession, makes the Act of Contrition and does a certain pennance as the priest prescribes; or the one who has makes the confession to the Lord before he is sent to his death?
Pax Tecum,
John
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to JCrawf again.
Pandersen said:and we are no longer under those obligations. correct?
Pandersen said:One of the conveiniences of these forums is easy information
.JCrawf said:Mortal sin especially must be confessed because it does lead to the second death if not confessed and repented of. However, one can confess venial sins, it's just that it is not really necessary, being that the Eucharist can take care of those sins. It may be a good idea to confess venial sins when they become more habitual and start to lead toward more serious sin. However, to be overwhelmed by venial sins and feeling a constant necessity to confess them as if they were mortal sins can lead to scruples.
Yes, the major ones are the Ten Commandmensts, though also the seven deadly sins are considered as well. These are sins that are adversarial to the seven virtues.
Actually, they were right there before St. Peter, an apostle and of whom we call the first Pope. The Pope is indeed a priest, and Annanias and Sapphira lied before him as well as the Holy Spirit. As far as I know, such an event has not happened since then, so one has to wonder if this account, being a one time thing, was done in order to express the gravity of mortal sin. But to say they did not have an opportunity to confess to their sins is not quite true, for they had that moment right in front of St. Peter to come clean about what they had done.
To Say Annanias and Sapphira had no chance to confess would be equivalent to saying that Adam and Eve didn't either. Adam and Eve were right in the pressence of God and yet Adam made an excuse rather than a confession. Would things have been different if Adam had just confessed that he ate the fruit he was told not to? We don't know. Nor do we know if the situation with Annanias and Sapphira would have been different if they had just come clean about what they had done. But they certainly had an opportunity to confess.
very true, I guess I see it today as allowing those sins to bring you to death(such as addiction or sexual impurity) I also think God may take His own if they stray as to cause harm to His Kingdom. But He knows our heart and can deal with us as He wills.
Habitual sin becomes a vice. Like the trap, it means it is something hard to come out of and, in a sense, something that a person doesn't have their full will to deal with it. A person snared in a trap may want to get out of it, but wanting to and actually getting out of the trap are two differnt things. Considering that a person wants to get out of habitual sin means that there is a certain ammount of culpability that is lessened in as much as the person seeks to escape from the habit.
Well, it's not as simple as a "special consideration" as much as the thief fulfilled what was needed for perfect contrition right in front of our Lord.Moreso, in Confession, a person is confessing their sins directly to Christ,
This is where i find trouble. If ultimately we are confessing to God, why do we need a middleman. I acknowledge that confessing to a priest or other Christians adds accountability and support, but I do not see it commanded like Baptism and The Lord's Supper.
so to say the thief necessarily had any more of a special consideration than any other person who makes their confession to Christ (be it in the Sacrament of Reconciliation or in prayer to Christ) is not quite true. In going to Confession, it is considered that the person is already going there with the
intent on making a perfect contrition to the Lord.
This should be the state in which we all seek forgiveness for all sin.
So there isn't a special martyr discount on where a person can get away from actually making the confession in order to have perfect contrition. For who suffers the greater pennance, the one who goes to Confession, makes the Act of Contrition and does a certain pennance as the priest prescribes; or the one who has makes the confession to the Lord before he is sent to his death?
Pax Tecum,
John
SeenAndUnseen said:One of the most impossible things on earth for an imperfect human being to experience; it is a deep and genuine sorrow for one's sin motivated only by the love of God (not fear of hell, or disgust that stems from spiritual pride, or any other self-centered reason.)
Well, I have heard it is almost impossible anyway. I wonder about that though. Sometimes when I sin, my first thought is not "Oh no! Now I need to go to confession or I'm in big trouble with God!" or "Great, I blew my recent holy streak, " but "Oh my God, I love you! Why am I capable of failing you so?" I'm not suggesting that is anything close to perfect contrition, but it's certainly a different motivation. The thing is, we can never know whether our contrition was perfect or not.
Dominus Fidelis said:Priests have the power to forgive sins. To say sins can be forgiven without a priest is to cheapen and make useless the Sacrament.
It would be like saying baptism isnt necessary.
I do agree it must been taken with caution, but you can get a broader spectrum of information because of the numbers. I attend a Baptist church but do not consider myself to be a Baptist. I do not agree with some things they teach but I think the essential message of Christ is there. I am sure the same applies with many Catholics, they may not agree totally with the church, or me, but Christ's message is there. Being able to discuss such matters with many has allowed me to see past some of these petty differences and see them more as brothers and sister in Christ and not denominational advisaries.JCrawf said:But it is also the drawback of these forums, being that easy information doesn't necessarily answer the hard questions. Those take much more work and research than easy information can provide. I'd never think of these forums as a means to an end, but scratchinging the surface and potentially bringing to light a sort of "gateway" to many more things to ponder.
Pax Tecum,
John
Pandersen said:I guess I see it today as allowing those sins to bring you to death(such as addiction or sexual impurity) I also think God may take His own if they stray as to cause harm to His Kingdom. But He knows our heart and can deal with us as He wills.
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This is where i find trouble. If ultimately we are confessing to God, why do we need a middleman. I acknowledge that confessing to a priest or other Christians adds accountability and support, but I do not see it commanded like Baptism and The Lord's Supper.
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This should be the state in which we all seek forgiveness for all sin.
This has been very informative. To think they were thinking of cutting it off.
Romanseight2005 said:Jesus is our High Priest.
It is through Him that we are forgiven and brought into relationship with Jehovah.
We are not in need of any man to recieve forgiveness.
Penance sounds to me like a way to earn forgiveness, which was freely given. There is nothing we can do to earn forgiveness.
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Addiction is kind of a modern term for a vice. The main problem, though, is the common view about the addiction is that a person is completely incapable of getting out of it, which is quite false.
I'm not sure I understand what you mean by "God may take his own if they stray..." If you wish, could you elaborate?
But I do agree that God knows our hearts and does deal with us as He wills. We are His creation afterall.![]()
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For me, This question of why we need a "middleman" rests at the heart of the Incarnation. For why, if God could forgive sins and we could just bring it to the Father alone, why did Christ, the Son of God have to come down from heaven to be born, to minister as the Word of God made flesh and then die for our sins? He is, afterall, and as the High Priest, the main "middleman" between us and the Father. Why, if we can just go straight to the Father, did Christ have to suffer for our sins and become our intercessor? Baptism and the Last Supper are founded on Christ's sacrifice - so if we need no middleman, then not only is Christ's sacrifice null and void, but also the sacraments founded by Christ. All the seven Sacraments rest upon Christ's sacrifice being a necessity for our salvation and that Christ intercedes for us and has not left us to have to fend for ourselves.
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Yes, we should come with a perfect contrition, but as sinners, we do fall short of the glory of the Lord. We try, but it takes more than personal effort to live in the life of the Spirit. For one thing, it takes faith in the love and mercy of God and to understand that we may not always understand, but we still believe and try to further turn toward the Will of the Father.
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Thank you, but remember that these forums are only a starting point. The main reason they almost cut this thread short has to do with worries about major debates, which do happen in these types of threads. In general, it is asked that non-Catholics on the thread keep to fellowship discussions and asking questions. How this is enforced varies from thread to thread, and even from denominational forum to denominational forum. The main aspect is to keep discussion as civil as possible. So far and by my personal standards, the discussion has been going just fine. But it's not up to me, but the moderators to make the ultimate decision on whether to close a thread or not. So far, there have been two warnings/reminders to keep to civil discourse.
Anyways, good discussion so far, but remember that these forums can only provide so much. A person still has to make their own investigations and decisions on these matters.
Pax Tecum,
John
I see Christ's role as intercessor, and High Priest. Pastors/Priests are there to help guide us but we are ultimately responsible for our own relationship with God. Being too dependant on any human spiritual leader can be dangerous, where they may fail, Jesus remains the same.For me, This question of why we need a "middleman" rests at the heart of the Incarnation. For why, if God could forgive sins and we could just bring it to the Father alone, why did Christ, the Son of God have to come down from heaven to be born, to minister as the Word of God made flesh and then die for our sins? He is, afterall, and as the High Priest, the main "middleman" between us and the Father. Why, if we can just go straight to the Father, did Christ have to suffer for our sins and become our intercessor? Baptism and the Last Supper are founded on Christ's sacrifice - so if we need no middleman, then not only is Christ's sacrifice null and void, but also the sacraments founded by Christ. All the seven Sacraments rest upon Christ's sacrifice being a necessity for our salvation and that Christ intercedes for us and has not left us to have to fend for ourselves.
Jesus took the place of the Priests in theJCrawf said:Indeed. So where there is a high priest, does it not make sense that there are priests below Christ that also do the work of God as they have been ordained to do so?
Are you really trying to say that Jesus is the same as any man? While He came as a man, He is God. No other can be compared to Him. I stated that He forgives us, and in fact already has. He said, it is finished. That means nothing more needs to be done.No man at all? If so, then that rules out even our Lord who is fully Man as well as fully God. Is it not at least agreed that we at least need the God-Man Jesus Christ to recieve forgiveness?
Nothing at all - not even confessing our sins? Sorry, but the Bible says quite the opposite. We do have to do something, we actually have to pray, which indeed is a work, and we also have to confess our sins to God, for "if we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us" (I John 1:8).
Romanseight2005 said:Jesus took the place of the Priests in the
OT. You are right to assume Priests under Him. They are all of us who are in Christ Jesus.
Romanseight2005 said:Are you really trying to say that Jesus is the same as any man? While He came as a man, He is God. No other can be compared to Him. I stated that He forgives us, and in fact already has. He said, it is finished. That means nothing more needs to be done.
He forgave us so that we can be in relationship with Him. We must receive this forgiveness. But you hit the nail on the head, the bible tells us how to acknowledge the forgivenss he has given us, so that He can inturn change us. The Bible also speaks of working to try to earn forgiveness, and it is called being bound by the law. This is in opposition to receiving His free gift of forgiveness, and eternal life.