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problems with masturbation

flightangel777

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Well i know that when am bussy it dose help me and i don't it at all like septemberskies said put it into something other kind of energy And thank you all for your commits its really helping me as far as addiction am not addicted and as far as lusting i don't look at porn never will i hate it and its from hell i just do it out of lonelyness it would be nice if some people told me how they overcame this or feel free to share your stories lol.
 
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Well i know that when am bussy it dose help me and i don't it at all like septemberskies said put it into something other kind of energy And thank you all for your commits its really helping me as far as addiction am not addicted and as far as lusting i don't look at porn never will i hate it and its from hell i just do it out of lonelyness it would be nice if some people told me how they overcame this or feel free to share your stories lol.

:) Don't worry.
 
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..... it would be nice if some people told me how they overcame this or feel free to share your stories lol.


You don't wanna hear stories, this thread will be cut short.

BoazB and DB I advise you to plead the 5th for heaven's sake!
 
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:hug: don't be to hard on yourself :) I think all things are good in moderation. Alot of phycoligists suggest touching yourself, but only in moderation. Don't anyone bite my head off for saying this either :) they have their reasons for suggesting this and their reasons are often good. Trying to ajust it moderatly will prevent you for comming into an addiction more because it makes your boundries bigger. Try only doing it once or twice a weak and than don't go over that limit. It will be hard but it's worth it because you'll feel healthier over-all. There aLOT of dangers when you touch to much. I'd read about it.... for one... you can lose your hair at a very young age and you can actully age altogether. Some reports show that some people in their 20s start to have white hair early because they are draining themselves by over-touching yourself. don't panic :) thses people do it about 11 times a day! Though you don't wanna go down that path. Do it only in moderation.... once or twice a weak seems to be a pretty decent scale. If you find you have trouble.... try taking a cold shower. That will lower your body tempiture and your hormones will start to settle down.
 
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I'm with septemberskies on this. The sin is in the lust which is hard to seperate from touching yourself.

not really..... there's a diffrence between sexaul desire and lust. Lust is simply sexaul desire thats run out of control. Just like drunkeness is drinking run out of control, or gluttny is eating run out of control. the point is always about indulgence vs self-control.
 
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Luther073082

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not really..... there's a diffrence between sexaul desire and lust. Lust is simply sexaul desire thats run out of control. Just like drunkeness is drinking run out of control, or gluttny is eating run out of control. the point is always about indulgence vs self-control.

And how do you seperate the two?
 
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