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Preperation

grace4sds

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I have been single again for several years. Honestly at first, it isn't easy. Of course, it depends on the situation. It is an adjusment and if the single life in any way looks like greener pastures, it's not. If there is anyway possible to save your marriage, do it. A new life and a new person might be fine at first, but once things settle down you usually have issues to deal with, and if you ever marry again it is never like your first, a blended family is very difficult, it just isn't natural and usually takes about 4 years to blend both families. I don't mean to sound depressing, just letting you know from someone who has been out there several years. I will say my relationship with God has grown stronger in my single life and I have been able to serve God and others. But, it is hard being single.
 
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oldrooster

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Apr 4, 2004
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It has really been a struggle to be single again, my whole life was geared twoard my family. I have had to alter every facet of my life now. My daughter and grandson live with me now, so I still have some family around. I also get to see my sons whenever I want so that is nice, in 3 years haven't met anyone yet. I am however trusting God to send me someone someday.
 
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