It really depends on the eyes you see through. Me personally giving how horrible and gruesome my life has been how I have seen every kind of evil and blood lust from the human heart and how I have been mistreated judged mocked and told all my life I am nothing that I can't do anything that I am incapable of doing even the simplest of things I could very easily say that love is almost non existent, I don't know your reason for saying this but I can assure you I have a very good reason to say it but I chose from the beginning of my life even in all the pain and all the evil and blood lust to see with a different pair of eyes.
Love is often times shown in the smallest things, if a firefighter knows he could easily die but goes into a burning house to save ppl then if that is not love then why do the scriptures say there is no greater love than that of one who is willing to lay down his life for a brother? only when you know what love is can you see it and recognize it.
Well sure if you were hung by your feet and beaten with hog fencing every night for many years it might appear someone else has unfiegned love for you for simply acting "less inhumane" towards you. You might also perceive that public servants have this unfiegned love for you (even if blaspheme Christ on their off time).
Here are verses on laying ones life down in a couple of places
John 13:7 Peter said unto him, Lord,
why cannot I follow thee now?
I will lay down my life for thy sake.
Its not that we loved him first (they all scattered at that time)
John 13:38 Jesus answered him,
Wilt thou lay down thy life for my sake? Verily, verily, I say unto thee,
The [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] shall not crow, till thou hast denied me thrice.
This
is how we perceive
the love of God
1John 3:16
Hereby perceive we
the love of God,
because he laid down his life for us:
and we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren.
And do likewise, following verse....
1 John 3:17
But whoso
hath this world's good,
and seeth his brother have need,
and shutteth up his bowels of compassion from him,
how dwelleth the love of God
in him?
Greater love,
John 15:13
Greater love hath no man
than this, that
a man lay down his life for his friends.
And so
we ought to lay down our lives for the brethren (1 John 3:16b) which is also tied into the following verse (1 John 3:17 above) even as John 15:13 (above) goes before John 15:14
John 15:14
Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you.
Which ties back into 1 John (if following thru)
1 John 3:18 My little children,
let us not love in word,
neither in tongue;
but in deed and in truth.
And hereby we know the following
1 John 3:19
And hereby we know that we are of the truth,
and shall assure our hearts before him.
Which follows on thru goes into keeping God's commandment by believing in His Son and loving one another even as he has given us the commandment. Which is the verse that preceeds "the greater love" hath no man than this, even as Jesus speaks of in John 15:13 This is my commandment,
That ye love one another, as I have loved you. (See again 1 John 3:16)
I might not be sold on how you appear to be showing it. I also dont believe people need to see things through your eyes (or your perception) to know what love is. Many "tongue it" (which accounts for "my present perception") which I dont try to make yours, because I try not to make my standard of sight the measuring rod for everyone else around me. I was simply agreeing with the scripture that evil men would grow worse and worse and the love of many would grow cold, some people believe the love in this world is so hot you can toast marshmallows over the open flame of it. I dont.
We see things differently and I am okay with not seeing things the same as you.