What do people think of prenuptial agreements?
Doesn't making one show that you are somehow expecting failure?
Doesn't it cheapen the "commitment" somehow?
I feel like, if you're in it for life, then be in it for life and don't make plans for it to fail.
I feel like, despite the high divorce rate, no one enters a marriage expecting it to fail. Many people enter girlfriend-boyfriend relationships with the additional side note that says, "Well, I don't really expect it to go anywhere, but its fun right now so I'll just roll with it." Marriage is still idealized as "for life" despite the facts on the ground. Since most couples truly wish and hope that their marriage lasts for life, how does making a prenuptial agreement show your faith in the other person or your relationship from the get-go? If you have a lack of faith or trust in the marriage before it even happens, how do you expect it to last?
Doesn't making one show that you are somehow expecting failure?
Doesn't it cheapen the "commitment" somehow?
I feel like, if you're in it for life, then be in it for life and don't make plans for it to fail.
I feel like, despite the high divorce rate, no one enters a marriage expecting it to fail. Many people enter girlfriend-boyfriend relationships with the additional side note that says, "Well, I don't really expect it to go anywhere, but its fun right now so I'll just roll with it." Marriage is still idealized as "for life" despite the facts on the ground. Since most couples truly wish and hope that their marriage lasts for life, how does making a prenuptial agreement show your faith in the other person or your relationship from the get-go? If you have a lack of faith or trust in the marriage before it even happens, how do you expect it to last?