fluffy_rainbow said:The reality is, that is the way it is when you give your heart and body to anyone but the person you're married to. You take a little piece of that person around with you. The ghosts from your past haunt you on your wedding day. They haunt you during sexual relations. They're not always at the forefront of your mind, but every once and awhile they show up.
That isn't my reality at all!! LOL! I seriously think that sexual issues are as unique as the individual, and if yours lead you to think this way then by all means do whatever necessary to keep these things from ruining your life. Personally, after 20+ years of marriage I have a hard time even remembering what happened during my single days, much less having 'ghosts of lovers past' haunt me.
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