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pre-marrial sex wrong?

flicka

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Hooch said:
Premaritial sex is ok- but if seed is wasted-- it is a sin. If a women comes to pleasure- it is ok- but if the man spills seed- it is a sin.

I think you need to rethink your position... :p . You can't 'waste' sperm (or seed as you say) since it is a renewable resource. Basically what your saying is a man can't have an [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] outside of marital intercourse without it being a sin.

Sorry. Try again..
 
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flicka said:
I think you need to rethink your position... :p . You can't 'waste' sperm (or seed as you say) since it is a renewable resource. Basically what your saying is a man can't have an [bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse][bless and do not curse] outside of marital intercourse without it being a sin.

Sorry. Try again..
There are no renewable resources, except for The Holy Spirit, don't waste it :)
 
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Hooch said:
Premaritial sex is ok- but if seed is wasted-- it is a sin. If a women comes to pleasure- it is ok- but if the man spills seed- it is a sin.
Allow me to quote myself from another thread:

Me said:
Oh, and to the person who spoke against spilling seed, remember that if a male does not touch, have sex, or otherwise "let it out," the excess buildup of sperm will be released when he urinates.

The only way to avoid this would be to get married and start having sex as soon as soon as the little buggers learn how to swim, which I believe happens at around age 12-14. It would also mean having sex on a very regular basis for the rest of your life, which for most men just isn't feasible. What if you become a widower? Depending on your views about remarrying, you could really be in a LOT of trouble!
You do, however, get points for saying that it's okay for us girls to enjoy ourselves (at least, if I'm understanding you correctly). :thumbsup:
 
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