Prayers for me , plz

[Angelface007]

Seems like an everyday struggle here in my home! It's like satan has entered into my husband and just keeps, trying to drag me down. As hard as it is, its hard not to hurt in a time like this. I give all that I have over to God, and go and pray for His healing within my home! I pray for peace and I pray for happiness, I pray alot for my husband..Satan constantly use's my husband by using him to call me stupid, and curse me constantly, and saying things to really hurt me! Sometimes he even use's him by distanting my husband from me, when I need my husbands affection the most! I am trying so hard to be the Christian that God wants me to be! I sometimes feel like giving up and moving on, with my children so we don't have to put up with the verbal, social, and emotional abuse. I sometimes get mad, and I try so hard not too. When he says things to hurt me and call me stupid, he really hurts me alot! I always tell him I am not. Sometimes I get mad and say things out of hurt, which only makes him say worse things to me! I do not mean too, but I hurt so much. He can't even touch me like a husband should, with out wrestling, and most of the time hurting me! I tell him that I do not like how he treats me, or how he shows me he loves me! He just tells me, to deal with it...and calls me a winnie... I cry over this kind of abuse, constantly. What hurts me the most is when, I want to be told I'm loved I ask him does he love me, and he says sometimes! I stay with him cause, he's my husband, and I feel until God shows me that he does not want me to go through this anymore, I have to stay. I do not know what to do! I need your prayers for my husband and for me. I ask you to plz pray for me strength and healing. I have been under so much stress lately, that I have put on like 15lbs. in two months. My stomach constantly hurts me, and I am alot happier when my husband is at work. Thats the only time I free like I do not have to watch my everylittle move. When he's here, when he wants the TV ,we have to give it up. If we are in the middle of a a TV show. When he wants everyone to be quite, we better be quite. Or he will hollor at us, Me and the kids. I feel like I am in a prision in my own home, when he's around! I know this is not the kind of marriage God intends a couple to have! What do I do? I have been praying for the past year and half. He does not want to hear me talk about God. When I do , he tells me to shut up, and calls me a hypocrit. I try hard everyday to be what God wants me to be! A Wife, A mother of three. My husband should be so blessed, cause their are so many men out here in this world who would love to have awife like me! With all the stress around me, its really a wonder I have not ran from it all. I have been hanging on for some time now, I only pray that God will let me know soon, ( I'm patient I know He will in His own timing ) what he wants me to do! Maybe one of you are His Angels, maybe he can use one of you to help me! Plz pray for me...I normally hate to talk about my problems, and I know that is called pride on my part,
( I ask God to forgive me ) I do from time to time. I'd rather think of others first and help them, than constrate on my own problems here at home. Only because I know I can not change my husband. He has to be willing to allow God to change Him. I pray that God either changes my husband, or God will deliever me and my children from this, broken home, that is filled with so much hurt... that is like a prision... may His will be done and contuine to use me to be, a guiding light to others. In Jesus name I ask and pray, amen

Thank you and God bless you all for your prayers, ~ Angelface ~ :angel:

 

[dmiller]

What hurts me the most is when, I want to be told I'm loved I ask him does he love me, and he says sometimes!

Am praying for you. I picked this quote out of your letter that has a lot of hurt, and need, expressed to us here. I will be praying for you, your children, and especially your husband.

And no ----- it is not pride to speak as you have done. Be blessed that you can tell others of what is bugging you, so that they (and I) can go to the Father in prayer in your behalf.

You are chosen by God Almighty. Don't you think He wants to see your family intact, and an earthly model of the one He has planned for us in Paradise? Of course He does, and I'M gonna pray that you see that, and that your husband sees it too.

Is he a Christian?? If not, I will pray for his salvation too. Angelface -- it you need to talk, my e-mail is dmiller1112@aol.com Please put either Angelface, or Christian Forum in the title, so I don't delete it.

God bless you, and yours.

 

[dmiller]

and you also said --
I give all that I have over to God, and go and pray for His healing within my home! I pray for peace and I pray for happiness, I pray alot for my husband..

I am in agreement with you. That makes at least two of us wanting/praying for the same thing. May I offer Matthew 18:19-20 to you.
Again I say unto you, That if two of you shall agree on earth as touching anything that they shall ask, it shall be done for them of My Father, Which is in Heavan.
For where two or three are gathered together in My Name, there am I in the midst of them.

Jesus thinks very highly of us. After all, He did come and die for all the sins we have committed. That includes the ones committed by your husband. Not saying your husband is right, but am saying Jesus loves him too. And I am in agreement with you in prayer for your husband, for your kids, for your marriage, and for you.

I'm in your corner. And I feel real confident about the outcome of this "fight", "cause both God the Father, and Jesus the Son are here with you and I!

God Bless You.

 

[dmiller]

And --- can you tell?? This request is hitting "home" with me. I was never an abusive husband, but I was married for 10 years (no kids), and have now been divorced for almost 20 years, and have never remarried.

I don't want to see the same happening to you.

 

[MadeInOz]

I'm praying for you, and giving you a big hug in the spirit. (I dub this... the spug! ... hmmm... that doesn't sound too good)

Peace be with you.

 

[Live4God]

for YOU & Husband & FAMILY Right Now! L4G

 

[Cat59]

I pray that God either changes my husband, or God will deliever me and my children from this, broken home, that is filled with so much hurt... that is like a prision... may His will be done and contuine to use me to be, a guiding light to others. In Jesus name I ask and pray, amen

Praying with you Angelface, that things will improve for you
May the Lord bless you for your continued advice and prayers for others and help you in this relationship
We ask for this in the name of Jesus the Lord
Amen
and
Cat

Psalms 121
I will lift up mine eyes unto the hills, from whence cometh my help.
My help cometh from the LORD, which made heaven and earth.

 

[Angelface007]

I am writing you all to say " Thanks For your prayers * I most graciously Praise God for allowing you all to be here in my time of need. May Gods will be done, through your prayers and may God find peace and love , with all.



And to Dmiller, my husband believes in Jesus Christ, but to say he's a cHristian.... I 'm not suppose to judge him, but for myself I say he's not, by the fruit in which he bares, By the way he treats me, and by the way he treats the kids! And the way he holds grudges. A few examples here;

1. He hates my Dad and my Mom, why because we lived a few years ago in their mobile home, paying rent of $100.00 a month. My husband left me three times in one year, and the last time He came back my parents raised the rent to $200.00 a month, because I took him back. Also because my dad wanted my husband to fix a busted water pipe under the trailer, and my husband refused too, and my husband heard my Dad , telling me how lazy he was, and how I should had not took him back, cause he was not good for me by the way he treated me and the kids. He hates my Mom, for no reason, He just doen't like her I guess because she's my daddy's wife.

2. He hates my oldst brother, cause my cousin saw my husband draging my out side down the porch by the head of hair and he ran to my grandmothers and got my brother. My brother came to my rescue, and told my husband taht if he wanted to be a man and fight with someone to bring it on to him! My brother had three of my big size cousins backing him up. My husband refused to fight and he left.

3. My best friend Haley, in which she does not come around is because my husband can not stand her, cause she kept a secret from him when we were dating. ( Thats been 4 years ago. (I asked her too ) until I could tell him, and then I did and all hell broke loose. He over heard us talking and every since then he has hated her. And said he'll never forgive her

4. My uncle B.J.
Because I asked my uncle BJ to play Santa for all the kids at my Parents two Christmas' ago. Cause I had the whole santa outfit.....I was going to go, but my husband as like every Christmas gets upset with me going and shows out, and I don't get to go to my Parents for the Holidays. It takes me an arm and leg to beg him to go, cause its important to me to be involved as an family. When He's not there my Family , say things and it hurts me. When he's there they treat him nice and kind, as though he belongs.
My uncle wrote him an email, and asked me what kind of husband would keep me away from my family! My husband got mad and wrote him an nasty email.

I could go on and on. and list all that i know that he hates,but this all really makes me sad, to talk about this stuff. There is so much that I dare to tell, but God knows everything. Once someone has crossed him the wrong way once, he does not forgive them. He pushes my friends away, thats why I am a stay at home wife! He keeps tabs on me, and says he has people watching out for me. He has his friends but, even my friends on the enternet are, not good enough in his sight. *Sometimes I have to not say anything about my friends, just so I can have friends * I hate that I have to keep that a secret. I do not like to cause problems, but what do I do. All, I can do is pray about it, and ask God constantly to help me and show me what I need to do! Especially where my family is concerned!

I talk to his mother and she is a Christian. She knows how he treats me and and has seen marks where he has left upon me, she is sadden by all this. There are somethings I do not tell her, cause she is his mother. I do not want to cause problems for them so I am quite about alot of things that take place within my home!

If I am wrong I pray God will forgive me!
But I feel its all for the best.... I will say no more, cause I feel I have said enough!
I thank you all once again for your prayers! God Bless you all, ~ Angelface ~

~ An souther Angel ~

 

[promise]

Joining in prayer with you and sending you a big Praying for your situation and for a change in your husband to take place. May he have an encounter with God that will change him forever.Until then may your heart be comforted during this time and your faith and strength in God be increased

 

[dmiller]

posted by Angelface:
And to Dmiller, my husband believes in Jesus Christ, but to say he's a cHristian.... I 'm not suppose to judge him, but for myself I say he's not, by the fruit in which he bares, By the way he treats me, and by the way he treats the kids! And the way he holds grudges.

I will be praying more for him then, than for you, although I will not forget you in prayer. He sounds like a lot of folks I know who have anger, pent-up frustrations, control issues, and a general feeling of inadequacy about themselves - so that it spills out of their guts, and "pollutes" whatever "scenario" they happen to be in.

God bless you, sister-in-Christ. "Judging" is something that Jesus did, and we are told to imitate Him. He took a look at the Pharisees, the Saducees, the Who-wants-to-see groups, -- and Yes -- He judged them. Jesus looked, and found wrong doctrine/ behavior/ belief/ etc. -- and had no problem declaring it as it was. In Ephesians 5:1-2 you have your answer.

We are told to be imitators of God. The word "imitators" is the greek word mimetes (in english -- mimic). And then the VERY NEXT VERSE SAYS TO WALK IN LOVE.

Sooooo -- it is possible to judge, and in love, rather than condemnation.

If sin/ unrighteousness is being seen, call a spade a spade. Jesus did, and I know He has gone though more than you, I, or all here will ever imagine.

 

[Angelface007]

Thank You Dmiller , and everyone for your prayers. I contuine to pray for Gods blessing and glory be shown over to my husband! I pray for God to soften my husbands heart and help Him see that the way he is treating me and the kids, and family will not be tolerated. That He has to learn forgiveness. And in order to seek forgiveness, he has to seek God for forgiveness, and always forgive others. I pray that where ever my husband goes to work, ( cause from one day to the next he works differant job sites, so he works around and with differant people ) that God will send His angels to my husband and open his eye sight and shower him with the truth of Gods word, about forgiveness, and how to show those he loves, how to love them through Gods word. I pray that God will fully open my husbands heart to understanding, the word of the Lord, and shake him up , until His word has sinked deep into his heart. What ever it takes, I pray that God will, put him around spiritual people, to show him, that cursing is not of Him. And I pray my husband will come home every day after being around these people , a whole new man in Christ. Dear God I ask you this in Jesus name, use your messengers Lord to speak to my husbands heart and to soften it, and restore all the pain that is within, so He will learn forgiveness, and be a man of God. In your precious name I pray, amen


Again Thank you all for your Prayers..... Plz contuine to pray for my husband and his salvation. Thank you all, and God Bless you all, ~ An Southern Angel ~ Angelface

 

[praisegirl2]

Father God
You are our deliver and I ask for this husband to be delivered from the hands of the enemy. Lord bring restoration into his life and into this marriage. Restore his love for his wife and his family and for you Father. Lord bring healing to this wife as she struggles to understand why her husband acts this way and treats her this way. Father draw this man back to you. Reveal yourself to him in such a way that he can't help but be changed! Lord work a miracle in these people's lives. Your our healer our restorer our deliver our Heavenly Father. Come into the middle of this and make all things new. I ask this in Jesus name
Amen