Tom, this is going nowhere when you ignore information from previous posts, and draw conclusions contrary to what was posted.
To get down to basics, and I know we have been over this, this discussion shouldn't be happening due to the issues of first principles first, or milk before the meat.
Our eternal potential is not a doctrine that is offered to the public, yet it is not withheld either. It becomes public controversy, for example, when non LDS search out such doctrines that were taught to members and documented. The members were, for the most part, prepared to receive such doctrine. Even many members then "choked" on the meat of doctrine, and not properly understanding it, used their misconstrued presentations against the Church when they left it.
The discussion is a loose / loose situation because one must first accept and apply the first and basic principles of the gospel before they can approach the rest, as was explained in Hebrews 5. Since you reject these first principles, then you cannot understand what is beyond. You are demanding proof before the trial of faith. It does not work that way!
When you ask for Bible references, do you assume that just having access to the written word of God entitles anyone to understand exactly what God conveyed? Does not God withhold understanding from men? How do you know or gauge when a person has the insight from the Spirit to understand?