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Hey everyone,

I'm new. For a great part of my life I've been agnostic. Recently someone introduced me to Christianity (not that I didn't know about it before) and I considered becoming a Christian myself, but I'm having some doubts. I'm not sure whether this belongs in the struggle forum or in the questions forum, but since I'm going to ask some questions, I guess it belongs here. I hope you guys can help me with this.

I always looked up to Jesus, but when I started reading passages of the Bible, there were things that were concerning me.

Luke 16:17 - "It is easier for Heaven and Earth to pass away than for the smallest part of the letter of the law to become invalid."

Matthew 15:18-19 - “For truly, I say to you, till heaven and earth pass away, not an iota, not a dot, will pass the law until all is accomplished. Whoever then relaxes one of the least of these commandments and teaches men so, shall be called least in the kingdom of heaven; but he who does them and teaches them shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven.”

But when I read the laws of Moses, I strongly disagree with the morals they are teaching people. Like, why should parents stone their own children when they're rebellious? It's still their child. And what's wrong with homosexual people? Also, why enforce your beliefs upon others by killing non-believers?

I know these things aren't practiced these days, but I thought God's word was eternal. Besides, Jesus said that no single letter would pass away from the Old Testament.

Also, to me it sounds like the only way to get to Heaven is to accept Jesus as your Saviour. I know a Christian who has done some pretty horrible crimes. Yet, according to Jesus, he could just 'repent' for his sins and be over with it, and still go to Heaven. But then I'm here, trying to help people and not do any sort of evil (I know I will always make mistakes, but I'm trying to be a 'good' person), but if I don't accept Jesus as my Saviour, I will go to Hell? That doesn't seem to make any sense to me. If I were to become a Christian, then I'd become one just to be 'safe', but then again, that isn't who I am. Then I'd just be using Jesus, because I only chose him so I could get my free ticket to Heaven. Then I wouldn't chose Christianity out of love, but out of fear. And I really don't want that to happen, so I guess it's Hell for me.

I have more questions, but I guess this is enough for now. Thank you for your time. I would like it if you guys would clarify things, so I could have a better understanding as I'm still a non-Christian after all. So I might not always understand Christian reasoning.

Thanks!

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Hey everyone,

I'm new. For a great part of my life I've been agnostic. Recently someone introduced me to Christianity (not that I didn't know about it before) and I considered becoming a Christian myself, but I'm having some doubts. I'm not sure whether this belongs in the struggle forum or in the questions forum, but since I'm going to ask some questions, I guess it belongs here. I hope you guys can help me with this.

I always looked up to Jesus, but when I started reading passages of the Bible, there were things that were concerning me.

Luke 16:17 - "It is easier for Heaven and Earth to pass away than for the smallest part of the letter of the law to become invalid."

Matthew 15:18-19 - “For truly, I say to you, till heaven and earth pass away, not an iota, not a dot, will pass the law until all is accomplished. Whoever then relaxes one of the least of these commandments and teaches men so, shall be called least in the kingdom of heaven; but he who does them and teaches them shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven.”

But when I read the laws of Moses, I strongly disagree with the morals they are teaching people. Like, why should parents stone their own children when they're rebellious? It's still their child. And what's wrong with homosexual people? Also, why enforce your beliefs upon others by killing non-believers?

I know these things aren't practiced these days, but I thought God's word was eternal. Besides, Jesus said that no single letter would pass away from the Old Testament.
The mosaic law hasn't changed, but we aren't living in the time it was written for. It was there for Israel, to prepare and preserve God's people so that, through them he could act. All that came to fulfillment in Jesus of Nazareth and we are living on the other side of that fulfillment. We aren't living in the Old Testament - though we still need it to understand Jesus and the time we are living in.



Also, to me it sounds like the only way to get to Heaven is to accept Jesus as your Saviour. I know a Christian who has done some pretty horrible crimes. Yet, according to Jesus, he could just 'repent' for his sins and be over with it, and still go to Heaven. But then I'm here, trying to help people and not do any sort of evil (I know I will always make mistakes, but I'm trying to be a 'good' person), but if I don't accept Jesus as my Saviour, I will go to Hell?
What the bible actually says is that Jesus is the only way to the father, and then goes on to tell us how we should respond to that. We know that all who turn from their own path and follow Jesus' will be saved - what we don't know is to what extent others will find a path, through Jesus, to the resurrection.

(Note, the purpose of God isn't to get people to heaven, but to renew and recreate "The new heavens and new earth" and us with it, resurrected into that perfect, physical, kingdom of God. "Heaven is important, but it isn't the end of the world." Christianity is not so much about life-after-death as life-after-life-after-death.


That doesn't seem to make any sense to me. If I were to become a Christian, then I'd become one just to be 'safe', but then again, that isn't who I am. Then I'd just be using Jesus, because I only chose him so I could get my free ticket to Heaven. Then I wouldn't chose Christianity out of love, but out of fear. And I really don't want that to happen, so I guess it's Hell for me.
You lost me. Ideally you would come to Jesus because it's the right thing to do, but even if you come for the wrong reasons what's important is trusting him to transform you into what he always intended to be.
I have more questions, but I guess this is enough for now. Thank you for your time. I would like it if you guys would clarify things, so I could have a better understanding as I'm still a non-Christian after all. So I might not always understand Christian reasoning.
I would thouroughly recommend reading Simply Christian by Tom Wright if you can get yourself a copy.
 
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Hello EgbertTheFourth,

Also, to me it sounds like the only way to get to Heaven is to accept Jesus as your Saviour. I know a Christian who has done some pretty horrible crimes. Yet, according to Jesus, he could just 'repent' for his sins and be over with it, and still go to Heaven.
He could repent of his sins, be forgiven but that is still a long shot from Heaven. In addition, it's not quite a 'just' matter. Yes, anyone I feel can offer sincere repentance for their sins, and be forgiven. But this is between them and God, it is not our place to judge or feel slighted by other's salvation. Essentially, that person, upon becoming a Christian, will have much to think about over the course of their life. It's not quite so simple, that we repent and suddenly forget the horrible things we've done. We have to endure and live with it and that edge only becomes sharped the closer to God you get, as you realise truly how far you've fallen.

But then I'm here, trying to help people and not do any sort of evil (I know I will always make mistakes, but I'm trying to be a 'good' person), but if I don't accept Jesus as my Saviour, I will go to Hell?
Well it's not really our place to judge others, what you do with your life is your affair, and is between you and God. However you cannot accept salvation from someone you have never met before...

There are some interesting views on this, one interpretation is that God cannot abide sin, and sin cannot withstand God's presence. The only way for you to be without sin, is to accept Christ's offer of salvation, if you do not, it's not that God cannot be with you, it's that you cannot be with Him, as His image, character and being to you are repulsive by nature of your being, you character and the person you are when you pass from this world. An evil man does not find a good man attractive, and likewise.

That doesn't seem to make any sense to me. If I were to become a Christian, then I'd become one just to be 'safe', but then again, that isn't who I am. Then I'd just be using Jesus, because I only chose him so I could get my free ticket to Heaven. Then I wouldn't chose Christianity out of love, but out of fear. And I really don't want that to happen, so I guess it's Hell for me.
I guess there is nothing like ensuring your own self destruction... but I would encourage you to think over it, as ideally, if you believe you to be a good person, then what possible reason do you have for not accepting God as your saviour? Don't let pride be your downfall.

I have more questions, but I guess this is enough for now. Thank you for your time. I would like it if you guys would clarify things, so I could have a better understanding as I'm still a non-Christian after all. So I might not always understand Christian reasoning.
I think it's a good idea to approach the Bible carefully, because you cannot take what was written thousands of years ago, and have those same words carry the connotations of the current words we use today. If you wish to see what is really written, then you may need to look at a version that has the Greek and Hebrew words in their original context, and research the time period. For instance, many people have issues with the way slavery is handled in the Bible, but the culture was totally different. Slavery was not advocated in the Bible, simply governed. It was originally instituded as a substitue for captives during war. Instead of being put to death, they were enslaved, and yet it was not a great deal unlike our present day military service. You are restricted in your coming and goings and report to an authorative figure, yet you lead your own life. Seems rather more acceptable than death to me. :) Be aware of what you read and I would highly suggest starting with John myself, as really that details a very true relationship with God.

And most importantly, don't worry about what others are doing, and their lives, sin, crimes, punishments etc. Just focus on you and God, it's only you two that matter. :)

Cheers!
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Thank you for your replies.

The mosaic law hasn't changed, but we aren't living in the time it was written for. It was there for Israel, to prepare and preserve God's people so that, through them he could act. All that came to fulfillment in Jesus of Nazareth and we are living on the other side of that fulfillment. We aren't living in the Old Testament - though we still need it to understand Jesus and the time we are living in.
So it's matter of personal interpretation? Though, in my opinion if God's word is eternal, why isn't that appropiate for our time?

What the bible actually says is that Jesus is the only way to the father, and then goes on to tell us how we should respond to that. We know that all who turn from their own path and follow Jesus' will be saved - what we don't know is to what extent others will find a path, through Jesus, to the resurrection.
If Jesus says he's the only way to Heaven, and you're not on his side, then according to him you're against him.

Matthew 12:30 - "He that is not with me is against me; and he that gathereth not with me scattereth abroad."

Which is kind of black-and-white in my opinion. Just because I'm undecided for the moment, doesn't mean I'm totally against him. Though, according to him, it does mean I am.

You lost me. Ideally you would come to Jesus because it's the right thing to do, but even if you come for the wrong reasons what's important is trusting him to transform you into what he always intended to be.
But how can I be sure that it's the right thing to do? How can I possibly know? There are so many religions. How can I possibly know this is 'it'? I wish there was some way to decide.

I would thouroughly recommend reading Simply Christian by Tom Wright if you can get yourself a copy.
Thanks. Perhaps I can borrow it from a local library, or I might consider buying it.

There are some interesting views on this, one interpretation is that God cannot abide sin, and sin cannot withstand God's presence. The only way for you to be without sin, is to accept Christ's offer of salvation, if you do not, it's not that God cannot be with you, it's that you cannot be with Him, as His image, character and being to you are repulsive by nature of your being, you character and the person you are when you pass from this world. An evil man does not find a good man attractive, and likewise.
So when I accept Christ as my Saviour, God will consider me to have no sins at all? Just by accepting Christ as my saviour makes me 'good'?

I guess there is nothing like ensuring your own self destruction... but I would encourage you to think over it, as ideally, if you believe you to be a good person, then what possible reason do you have for not accepting God as your saviour? Don't let pride be your downfall.
Well, I don't believe I'm a good person. Though, I admit that I believe that I'm 'better' (as in good, not better as in 'worth more') than a large amount of the world population. However, that doesn't mean that there aren't many people that are 'better' than me. I've been thinking about Christianity for about 2 months now and I'm still reading and thinking a lot. I'm not "throwing" stuff away just like that. It takes a lot of thought to finally decide that something is or isn't going to work. My pride might get in my way, but we'll see what happens.

The reason I have for not accepting Christ as my Saviour is that I can not be sure that it is 'right'. As I said before, how can I know this is the truth? How can I be certain? Should I perhaps get a trial on Christianity to see how it works?

I think it's a good idea to approach the Bible carefully, because you cannot take what was written thousands of years ago, and have those same words carry the connotations of the current words we use today.
Yeah, I'm taking that in consideration.

For instance, many people have issues with the way slavery is handled in the Bible, but the culture was totally different. Slavery was not advocated in the Bible, simply governed. It was originally instituded as a substitue for captives during war. Instead of being put to death, they were enslaved, and yet it was not a great deal unlike our present day military service.
Do you believe that the life of slave is better than death?

Be aware of what you read and I would highly suggest starting with John myself, as really that details a very true relationship with God.
I have read the Book of John. I liked the story, but I can't be sure whether it is the truth.

And most importantly, don't worry about what others are doing, and their lives, sin, crimes, punishments etc. Just focus on you and God, it's only you two that matter. :)
I agree that is a mistake I made, even though I primairly used it to express the differences between Christians and non-Christians, because I don't believe you're a 'good person' by definition if you only accepted Christ as your Saviour. It just doesn't feel... right.

And again, thanks for the replies. I highly appreciate it and I think I've learned some more. :)

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Thank you for your replies.


So it's matter of personal interpretation?
Yes and no. Yes, it has to be interpreted - any text has to be interpreted. But that doesn't mean eall interpretations are equally valid.

Though, in my opinion if God's word is eternal, why isn't that appropiate for our time?
"God's word is eternal" can be a very misleading and unhelpful phrase. God works where we are - in time and place. What's needed for one time and place is different for what's needed in another time and place. One of the most crucial truths of the whole bible is that the world fundamentally changed when Jesus of Nazareth became incarnate, died on the cross, and rose again.


If Jesus says he's the only way to Heaven, and you're not on his side, then according to him you're against him.

Matthew 12:30 - "He that is not with me is against me; and he that gathereth not with me scattereth abroad."
The funny thing is he also, separately said those who 'opposite'; that those who are not against 'us' are for 'us'.

Taking Jesus' quotes out of the context in which they are written is sure to build false ideas. Everything he did and said is a cohesive whole to bring the problems of the world to a climactic solution on the cross - not just a collection of sayings that need rearranging.

Which is kind of black-and-white in my opinion. Just because I'm undecided for the moment, doesn't mean I'm totally against him. Though, according to him, it does mean I am.
Both things are right in different ways.


But how can I be sure that it's the right thing to do? How can I possibly know? There are so many religions. How can I possibly know this is 'it'? I wish there was some way to decide.
Try it and see.


Thanks. Perhaps I can borrow it from a local library, or I might consider buying it.
:)


So when I accept Christ as my Saviour, God will consider me to have no sins at all? Just by accepting Christ as my saviour makes me 'good'?
Sort of.


Well, I don't believe I'm a good person. Though, I admit that I believe that I'm 'better' (as in good, not better as in 'worth more') than a large amount of the world population. However, that doesn't mean that there aren't many people that are 'better' than me. I've been thinking about Christianity for about 2 months now and I'm still reading and thinking a lot. I'm not "throwing" stuff away just like that. It takes a lot of thought to finally decide that something is or isn't going to work. My pride might get in my way, but we'll see what happens.
:)

The reason I have for not accepting Christ as my Saviour is that I can not be sure that it is 'right'. As I said before, how can I know this is the truth? How can I be certain? Should I perhaps get a trial on Christianity to see how it works?
Why not? Find a good church - one that doesn't expect you to hand your brain in at the front door but encourages you to think and struggle with the difficult questions - and become part of the worshipping community.


Yeah, I'm taking that in consideration.


Do you believe that the life of slave is better than death?
I guess that would depend. Anybody's life back then would have been very harsh by our soft, western standards. On the subject of slavery I believe the bible to be deeply anti-slavery to the core. It doesn't come out and ban slavery as such - slaves were so essential to the economy that that would be as practical as telling modern Christians to just stop burning fossil fuels to save the environment. But two of the key motifs - Exodus in the O.T. and New Exodus in the N.T. are described in terms of freedom from slavery in way that makes no sense unless it is self-evident that slavery is wrong.

I have read the Book of John. I liked the story, but I can't be sure whether it is the truth.
In what way?


I agree that is a mistake I made, even though I primairly used it to express the differences between Christians and non-Christians, because I don't believe you're a 'good person' by definition if you only accepted Christ as your Saviour. It just doesn't feel... right.
Becoming Christian is about starting on the path of transformation that will restore you back to being a 'good' person. Faith (trusting in God) allows that verdict from the future judgment to be brought forward now. It's not so much that I am good now (clearly I'm not) but that the verdict of the future judgement can be declared now.
 
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Then I wouldn't chose Christianity out of love, but out of fear. And I really don't want that to happen, so I guess it's Hell for me.
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Jesus wanted us to be afraid to go to hell.
You are incapable of loving Jesus until He saves you.
1 John 4:19 ESV We love because he first loved us.

First He saves you, then you love Him for saving you, then you obey Him because you love Him.

Matthew 5:29 ESV If your right eye causes you to sin, tear it out and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body be thrown into hell.

Matthew 5:30 ESV And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body go into hell.

Matthew 10:28 ESV And do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul. Rather fear him who can destroy both soul and body in hell.

Mark 9:45 ESV And if your foot causes you to sin, cut it off. It is better for you to enter life lame than with two feet to be thrown into hell.

Luke 12:4-5 ESV
4 "I tell you, my friends, do not fear those who kill the body, and after that have nothing more that they can do.
5 But I will warn you whom to fear: fear him who, after he has killed, has authority to cast into hell. Yes, I tell you, fear him!
 
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most of the answers above are great.

i would add that it helped me by taking my "feelings" out of it. the word of God says my ways are not His ways. If I take out my "feelings" - what I think things should be like or what I think God should be doing, it is easier to try to understand.

if you take the bible and have faith that it IS God's word, then you can just be satisfied that we won't have all the answers to the questions and we won't always understand why God does what He does. but we can rest in the fact that He is God-and He knows what is best and is perfect.

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Hiya EgbertTheFourth,

Thank you for your replies.
No worries, I will maybe add on some additional info to thsoe that responses to other replies too. :)

So it's matter of personal interpretation? Though, in my opinion if God's word is eternal, why isn't that appropiate for our time?
We can all interpret things whichever way we like, in fact many arguments come about from misunderstandings in our daily lives when someone said something and meant something else, yet people interpreted it differently. The important thing I find with the Bible, is that the end result of what it says, I find to be true. I know, for example, that I often do things I dislike and know to be wrong. Therefore when the Bible says that we are fallen, I believe this. The actual method of how that came to be, isn't so important, for me personally. Whether it was a historically accurate and literal Garden of Eden, or whether that was an allegorical story that was meant to convey a point, is not important. Just as I am quite confident God doesn't care about our master over theology, for example when we die and stand before Him, I do not believe that He will ever quiz us on the Bible. The hows and whys are not important to God, and therefore I don't think they are something we should get caught up in to such an extent to affect our relationship with Him. What is important is the end result. Do we accept Christ's offer, or not. Not why.

If Jesus says he's the only way to Heaven, and you're not on his side, then according to him you're against him.

Matthew 12:30 - "He that is not with me is against me; and he that gathereth not with me scattereth abroad."

Which is kind of black-and-white in my opinion. Just because I'm undecided for the moment, doesn't mean I'm totally against him. Though, according to him, it does mean I am.
Jesus must have been an odd character to be around. For example, when you stepped on someone elses foot, Jesus said that He forgave you. Which is quite crazy, it's like me insulting someone who you have never met, and then you telling me that you forgive me for it. Why? What power do you have to do so? Well, that's just it. It's not really an offense against that person, it's a sin against God. The real question is what power does that man have to pardon sin against God? Which is, none whatsoever. To put that into perspective, if you do not acknowledge God, then you have no way to be forgiven for your sins against Him and therefore, you very much -are- against Him.

Would you reward someone who runs around destroying your work, undermining your power? I don't think so, me neither. :)

But how can I be sure that it's the right thing to do? How can I possibly know? There are so many religions. How can I possibly know this is 'it'? I wish there was some way to decide.
Oddly, I think this is a matter of faith. As I wasn't sure it was right until I became a Christian. I put faith in God, trusted Him, accepted His offer and began living a life with Him as my visible leader and guardian, and the more I do so, the more I am convinced this is the way it was meant to be.

Thanks. Perhaps I can borrow it from a local library, or I might consider buying it.
Another excellent book is Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis. It's quite flowery language, yet not that difficult to read and he was a great Christian of his time.

So when I accept Christ as my Saviour, God will consider me to have no sins at all? Just by accepting Christ as my saviour makes me 'good'?
It's not really about good and bad, it's more about a relationship with God. When you accept Christ, you acknowledge your dependance on Him, His complete power and thank Him for His offer of salvation, His sacrifice. It's basically saying, "I need your help, will you help me?" Christ, God, has said that He will answer all who call out to Him, and thus, will help you indeed. You will have asked for forgiveness from the person who matters, and even though you are still a sinful creature, you have a way out of sin now, through God.

Well, I don't believe I'm a good person. Though, I admit that I believe that I'm 'better' (as in good, not better as in 'worth more') than a large amount of the world population. However, that doesn't mean that there aren't many people that are 'better' than me. I've been thinking about Christianity for about 2 months now and I'm still reading and thinking a lot. I'm not "throwing" stuff away just like that. It takes a lot of thought to finally decide that something is or isn't going to work. My pride might get in my way, but we'll see what happens.
I think the turning point for me, was when I was reading the Bible and something sort of clicked, and suddenly it turned from being a story book, to being a documentary, if you will. Suddenly, it formed such a believable picture, that I knew it was all real and then I knew what I had to do. I honestly believe you will find a version of it that matches your liking, but I feel there are some important things to take into account.

First and foremost, recall that this is about you and God, not you and your friends, you and your family, you and some right-wing religious extremist group, you and your partner. It's just you, and God. With that said, no one need know about this, apart from you and, that's right, God. :) So many times I've seen people put off because of any number of things, like what they see 'Christians' doing on the news, what their friends will think, what THEY themselves think a Christian must do. Ultimtely the Bible makes a clear distinction between sin and personal sin. There are sins that we know to be wrong, like murder, that we are commanded against doing by God Himself. Then there is personal sin, things we feel personally convincted off, the problem here is that Christians in general tend to overlook the latter, and it merges with the former, and then you have Christians using the Bible as a weapon, to support their way of life. Really, it's not about that at all, and in fact the image of Christianity as perceived by others outside of it I imaging to be quite different from the reality.

Second of all, God does not want you to be ignorant, or to trick you.
1 Thessalonians 5:23
"Test everything. Hold on to the good."

Make sure you check what you are told, and presented and only hold on to the things you find pleasing and that are pleasing to God.

Lastly, many answers will be out of reach to you. Just as answers were out of reach to those people who were seeking them a hundred years ago - that we have answered today, so do we have new questions which are unanswered, and out of our reach. In these situations, have faith in God. Faith is not only believing in what we cannot necessarily prove, but also placing trust in God, that He knows best.

Hebrews 11 deals with faith in a stark way that shows what challenges some people faced.

The reason I have for not accepting Christ as my Saviour is that I can not be sure that it is 'right'. As I said before, how can I know this is the truth? How can I be certain? Should I perhaps get a trial on Christianity to see how it works?
You are not sure about what precisely? The easiest way to find out, is to reduce this to the lowest common denominator, just like mathmeticians do. What is the one, single thing, that right now, prevents you from being a Christian? Is it evolution? The morality and ethics in the Bible? Stoning of children? Slavery? Wars in God's name? Preconceptions of what a Christian life is like? Did Jesus ever really exist? Was Jesus really divine? Name it, and take it from there, I can't really see you making much headway until you address that. :)

Do you believe that the life of slave is better than death?
This depends on the definition of slavery. Don't be duped into thinking that a word from 2000+ years ago, has an exact translation to a word of todays times, given our history of slavery. As I said, slavery back then, by all accounts, was not much different than military service is now. Considering that people of today volunteer for that, I would say it's a great deal better than death. Also think about this from God's point of view, all those people have a chance at salvation now too, which is the ultimate thing at stake here.

I have read the Book of John. I liked the story, but I can't be sure whether it is the truth.
I guess really, we have to ask why would so many writers lie about so many events. You know, scientific fact is something that is a repeatable observation. It used to be scientific fact that the sun revolved around the earth. Not one of sciences finer moments, but we base so much on what we see and observe, yet even that has been proven to be wrong. What does your heart tell you about the matter? Truth has a way of standing the test of time. So many religions have come and gone in our history, yet Christianity still stands firm, it even overcame the Roman pagan religion, during a time where the Christians were pursecuted and fed to lions for entertainment. I guess there are many examples, but ultimately Christianity is either a lie, and in that case there are many questions which are raised about it, it's creation and purpose, or it's the truth.

I agree that is a mistake I made, even though I primairly used it to express the differences between Christians and non-Christians, because I don't believe you're a 'good person' by definition if you only accepted Christ as your Saviour. It just doesn't feel... right.
Exactly! It doesn't feel right because it's not true, we don't suddenly become fantastic people when we have God in our lives. We are, to all intents and purposes, exactly the same people. The singular and only difference is that we are now aware of God, and that has tremendous impact in our lives. We live differently, when others would take the easy road out of a conflict, we try to make amends, even at our own cost. We sacrifice of ourselves to please others and we do our very best to live a life that would please God. The ultimate test of character is what someone does when they know no one else will find out. Look at software piracy for example. People pirate music, games, applications because they don't get caught. What truer testiment is there to our fallen nature than that? Would these same people walk into a shop and steal something? Of course not, the risk of discovery is too great. What did Adam and Eve do the first time they sinned? They hid from God, they were ashamed of it. Do people actively talk about their experiences with pornography? No, because they are ashamed of it if ever it were to become public knowledge - but they still do it and enjoy it when they are alone and in private, they are bonded to their sin. I get the definition of sin here from the Bible, in that it means, basically, to miss the mark. I think it was originally an archery term. Essentially God has intended various things for us, and really, the more you discover what God intended for us, the more you see how badly warped that intent has become through our choices in our lives. Then things begin to make sense.

I hope this finds you well, and Happy New Year to you! :D

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Hey everyone,

I'm new. For a great part of my life I've been agnostic. Recently someone introduced me to Christianity (not that I didn't know about it before) and I considered becoming a Christian myself, but I'm having some doubts. I'm not sure whether this belongs in the struggle forum or in the questions forum, but since I'm going to ask some questions, I guess it belongs here. I hope you guys can help me with this.

I always looked up to Jesus, but when I started reading passages of the Bible, there were things that were concerning me.

Luke 16:17 - "It is easier for Heaven and Earth to pass away than for the smallest part of the letter of the law to become invalid."

Matthew 15:18-19 - “For truly, I say to you, till heaven and earth pass away, not an iota, not a dot, will pass the law until all is accomplished. Whoever then relaxes one of the least of these commandments and teaches men so, shall be called least in the kingdom of heaven; but he who does them and teaches them shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven.”

But when I read the laws of Moses, I strongly disagree with the morals they are teaching people. Like, why should parents stone their own children when they're rebellious? It's still their child. And what's wrong with homosexual people? Also, why enforce your beliefs upon others by killing non-believers?

There is the Law, respect your parents then there is the punishment for being rebellious against your parents. You must be able to discern between the Law and the consequence for breaking the law.

Jesus took away from us the call to carry out punishment for breaking the law. But he did not make a new law stating that it was good to be disrespectful to ones pairents. That Law still stands. The OT establishes the will of God regarding what is moral and what is wrong of immoral.

The consequence of sin/(going against the will of God) is still death. Eternal death. But through Jesus there is atonment/forgivness for all sins to those who believe Jesus and trust in His righteousness and atonement for their sins.

So the Law still stands and the penalty for breaking the Law still stands. The only change is the process of carrying out the penalty of the law.



I know these things aren't practiced these days, but I thought God's word was eternal. Besides, Jesus said that no single letter would pass away from the Old Testament.

Right indeed. We no longer carry out the punishment because Jesus told us not to. We are here to give the good news of what Jesus did for us in the hope that people will have trust in Jesus and gain access to the loving forgiveness of God. We are not here to carry out judgements/punishments but to reflect the forgiveness of Jesus by forgiving others there wrongs against us and showing the kind of mercy that Jesus showed to those who where repentant in Spirit.



Also, to me it sounds like the only way to get to Heaven is to accept Jesus as your Saviour.

Yes. The only way to have eternity with God is though Jesus.



I know a Christian who has done some pretty horrible crimes. Yet, according to Jesus, he could just 'repent' for his sins and be over with it, and still go to Heaven. But then I'm here, trying to help people and not do any sort of evil (I know I will always make mistakes, but I'm trying to be a 'good' person), but if I don't accept Jesus as my Saviour, I will go to Hell? That doesn't seem to make any sense to me.

You are looking at it from your human perspective because the human perspective sees people as Good and Bad while Gods perspective sees everyone as imperfect some loving their imperfections others regretting their imperfect nature. It is only when we see things from Gods position of perfection that we can come to the conclusion that all people need to atonement that Jesus has secured for us.

People must see all humanity as falling short of the perfection that is required to exist with a perfect God into eternity. And that only by being granted Gods forgiveness can anyone be with Him into eternity.



If I were to become a Christian, then I'd become one just to be 'safe', but then again, that isn't who I am. Then I'd just be using Jesus, because I only chose him so I could get my free ticket to Heaven. Then I wouldn't chose Christianity out of love, but out of fear. And I really don't want that to happen, so I guess it's Hell for me.

Why not become a follower of the Messiah Jesus because you Love His Word and you Love what He has done for you? You do not need to dwell on paradise or the lake of fire. It is good to follow God Because God is good, rather than doing it out of fear or desire for reward. Is it not better to love others because it is good to love others? What kind of love is it when people only love others because they want to get a payment or they want to avoid being beaten up? No. Following Jesus should be for a genuine love for His Word not based on fear or greed.

1 John 4
18 There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves torment. But he who fears has not been made perfect in love. 19 We love Him because He first loved us.



I have more questions, but I guess this is enough for now. Thank you for your time. I would like it if you guys would clarify things, so I could have a better understanding as I'm still a non-Christian after all. So I might not always understand Christian reasoning.

Thanks!

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Hey everyone,

I'm new. For a great part of my life I've been agnostic. Recently someone introduced me to Christianity (not that I didn't know about it before) and I considered becoming a Christian myself, but I'm having some doubts. I'm not sure whether this belongs in the struggle forum or in the questions forum, but since I'm going to ask some questions, I guess it belongs here. I hope you guys can help me with this.

I always looked up to Jesus, but when I started reading passages of the Bible, there were things that were concerning me.

Luke 16:17 - "It is easier for Heaven and Earth to pass away than for the smallest part of the letter of the law to become invalid."

Matthew 15:18-19 - “For truly, I say to you, till heaven and earth pass away, not an iota, not a dot, will pass the law until all is accomplished. Whoever then relaxes one of the least of these commandments and teaches men so, shall be called least in the kingdom of heaven; but he who does them and teaches them shall be called great in the kingdom of heaven.”

But when I read the laws of Moses, I strongly disagree with the morals they are teaching people. Like, why should parents stone their own children when they're rebellious? It's still their child. And what's wrong with homosexual people? Also, why enforce your beliefs upon others by killing non-believers?

The law of Moses wasn't the actul law of God, it was the law of Isreal and Jesus broke the law of Moses alot by healing on the Sabbath and other activities that the law forbid. Jesus says something outstanding about the law in the gospels, "moses commanded you to divorce because your hearts were hard" [paraphrase]. So what does this say? Part of the law was written because the men's hearts were hard! In the profitical books [Jeremiah or Ezekeil], it says that God will make a new covenent with his people and he will write the law upon our hearts. Now let me ask you..... why make a new covenent? Becuase the old one wasn't working! The law we are to follow is the law written upon our hearts. The law that tells you that well over half the laws in the book of Moses are immorel.... listen to that law, because thats the law of God upon your heart.


Also, to me it sounds like the only way to get to Heaven is to accept Jesus as your Saviour. I know a Christian who has done some pretty horrible crimes. Yet, according to Jesus, he could just 'repent' for his sins and be over with it, and still go to Heaven. But then I'm here, trying to help people and not do any sort of evil (I know I will always make mistakes, but I'm trying to be a 'good' person), but if I don't accept Jesus as my Saviour, I will go to Hell? That doesn't seem to make any sense to me. If I were to become a Christian, then I'd become one just to be 'safe', but then again, that isn't who I am. Then I'd just be using Jesus, because I only chose him so I could get my free ticket to Heaven. Then I wouldn't chose Christianity out of love, but out of fear. And I really don't want that to happen, so I guess it's Hell for me.

the idea isn't accepting a relegein, the idea is repentance and showing remorse for your sins. We all want evil vanquished from the earth, in order to do that God has to do something about the sin problem that currently plagues us. So he sets himself up as judge and he judges his people's crimes. He gives warnings and over-all tries to be a good Father. However the people won't turn to him from their heart. They are so consumed with evil that they have no desire to repent. So God does the only thing he can do, you can't have a world of peace and love with people who only desire hatred and choas.

So yes.... repentance is the point and if you show remorse for your wrongs [no matter how big the wrong is] than your pardonned. thats the way things go.... we just have to be sorry. Why? because God has no desire to bonk someone on the head, he just wants to protect us and people who are consumed with sin drag a trail of death with them usaully. You know what I'm talking about.... murder, hatred, adultery, all of these things create victoms.
Thanks!

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Another excellent book is Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis. It's quite flowery language, yet not that difficult to read and he was a great Christian of his time.
Simply Christian (that I recommended above) is blurbed as the equivalent for the 21st century (though Tom Wright's style is significantly different to Lewis').
 
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You're right about the Law, and you seemed to understand something about it that many professed Christians do not: that it is Christianity's guidebook to life.

EgbertTheFourth said:
But when I read the laws of Moses, I strongly disagree with the morals they are teaching people. Like, why should parents stone their own children when they're rebellious? It's still their child.

How bad does a child have to become before his own parents want him put do death? Especially considering that there was no Social Security back then, and parents would rely on their children to care for them when they god old. Also, it states that he was to be taken to the city elders and stoned by the entire city, so it was assumed, that everybody knew I about his character. I a can infer that this was a rare occurance.

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And what's wrong with homosexual people?

Homosexuality, like any sexual behavior that turns sex into just another recreational activity, rather than being primary a means of begetting and strengthening families, is subversive of God's purpose for creating sex, and therefore an abuse of sexuality.

EgbertTheFourth said:
Also, why enforce your beliefs upon others by killing non-believers?

The church of Christ was not given the power of the sword, and is commissioned to use other means to uphold God's law, as the New Testament reveals.

EgbertTheFourth said:
If I were to become a Christian, then I'd become one just to be 'safe', but then again, that isn't who I am. Then I'd just be using Jesus, because I only chose him so I could get my free ticket to Heaven. Then I wouldn't chose Christianity out of love, but out of fear. And I really don't want that to happen, so I guess it's Hell for me.

Fallen humanity has always had trouble understanding that God's law was not put in place to make us miserable, but for our benefit. The Law was given in love. Since Adam and Eve were in the Garden of Eden, Satan has peddled the lie that God didn't really have our best interest at heart when he gave his commandments. Sadly, all too many have fallen for it. God can enable you to see through that lie if you come to Him in humility with an open heart. You will see the world as He sees it the closer you draw to Him. You see, He doesn't want you to obey Him out of fear, but out of love, and if you despise the Law then you cannot love the One who wrote it.
 
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First I want to thank you all for reading and replying! It has really helped me into understanding certain parts of the Christianity better than before.

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I have read the Book of John. I liked the story, but I can't be sure whether it is the truth.
In what way?
As in liking? If so, then it's because I find it interesting and educating. I'm not sure whether all these things that have been told, have actually happened. I can see a lot of motives for someone to make something up like this. I don't know whether it has been made up or not, that's why I'm in doubt. The Bible also has got a lot of contradicting verses, which I find confusing.

Jesus wanted us to be afraid to go to hell.
You are incapable of loving Jesus until He saves you.
1 John 4:19 ESV We love because he first loved us.

First He saves you, then you love Him for saving you, then you obey Him because you love Him.
So if a non-Christian were to sacrifice his own life for someone he really cared about, it's not love?

if you take the bible and have faith that it IS God's word, then you can just be satisfied that we won't have all the answers to the questions and we won't always understand why God does what He does. but we can rest in the fact that He is God-and He knows what is best and is perfect.
So it's all a matter of faith rather than reason?

The important thing I find with the Bible, is that the end result of what it says, I find to be true. I know, for example, that I often do things I dislike and know to be wrong. Therefore when the Bible says that we are fallen, I believe this.
Can't it just be because you know better yourself, even without the Bible?

What is important is the end result. Do we accept Christ's offer, or not. Not why.
If it were true, I think I would accept his offer. But is it the truth? I'll try finding out.

To put that into perspective, if you do not acknowledge God, then you have no way to be forgiven for your sins against Him and therefore, you very much -are- against Him.
What about a baby that dies at the age of 1. He or she didn't have the chance to acknowledge God in the first place. Will he or she end up in Hell for this? Because earlier it was said that the only way to get to Heaven was to accept Christ's offer. However, not going to Heaven implies going to Hell. So... The baby will go to Hell?

Also, why do babies die so young anyway? Doesn't God love them?

Would you reward someone who runs around destroying your work, undermining your power? I don't think so, me neither. :)
It depends. If I were infinitely powerful, then I would just laugh at his attempts, because isn't it impossible to undermine the power of someone who is ultimately powerful?

Oddly, I think this is a matter of faith. As I wasn't sure it was right until I became a Christian. I put faith in God, trusted Him, accepted His offer and began living a life with Him as my visible leader and guardian, and the more I do so, the more I am convinced this is the way it was meant to be.
Hmm. If it's about faith, then why do we have reason? Did Satan give us reason to blind us for the love of God?

I think the turning point for me, was when I was reading the Bible and something sort of clicked, and suddenly it turned from being a story book, to being a documentary, if you will. Suddenly, it formed such a believable picture, that I knew it was all real and then I knew what I had to do. I honestly believe you will find a version of it that matches your liking, but I feel there are some important things to take into account.
To be honest, I sort of know what you mean, I think. But I didn't have this when I was reading from the Bible. One morning I woke up and suddenly "realized" that creationism might be right after all. I saw people more like God's creation than just people, and not just people, but the whole world and everything that exists. It gave me a really strange feeling, but the "realization" faded away shortly after that.

Second of all, God does not want you to be ignorant, or to trick you.
1 Thessalonians 5:23
"Test everything. Hold on to the good."

Make sure you check what you are told, and presented and only hold on to the things you find pleasing and that are pleasing to God.
I don't have much good to hold on to. Also, I'm not sure whether Christianity really suits me when I think about it. I generally dislike people, especially when I think of what they've done to me in the past. Mostly I've been treated better by animals than people. And for that reason, I find it hard to accept the Christian idea that people are worth more than animals.

The part that hurts me most is that I've been lied to and deceived by a Christian, one who I perceive as a die-hard Christian. She was supposed to be a friend, but I don't think friends push you away when you need them most. I know even Christians aren't perfect, but still, to give me all the blame and deny everything I say... She lived so much in her own "Christian" shell of self-righteousness that I couldn't let her know what she had been doing, because she just didn't want to see it.

That's something that adds up to my doubts about Christianity. If she was under influence of the Holy Spirit when doing those things, then what good would the Holy Spirit to me? I know you'll probably say that doesn't have got to do anything with the relation between me and God, but it does add up to my doubts, and I hope that can be understood.

You are not sure about what precisely? The easiest way to find out, is to reduce this to the lowest common denominator, just like mathmeticians do. What is the one, single thing, that right now, prevents you from being a Christian? Is it evolution? The morality and ethics in the Bible? Stoning of children? Slavery? Wars in God's name? Preconceptions of what a Christian life is like? Did Jesus ever really exist? Was Jesus really divine? Name it, and take it from there, I can't really see you making much headway until you address that. :)
Well, like I said, my biggest problem is faith vs reason and not knowing whether the Bible actually represents the truth, and if it does, why it is sometimes contradictary with today's science (like evolution vs creationism).

I can't say it's just this, because I would like to know whether Jesus was really divine too. You'll probably tell me about his miracles, but then we stumble on the question: did they really happen and how should I know? Faith?

I guess there are many examples, but ultimately Christianity is either a lie, and in that case there are many questions which are raised about it, it's creation and purpose, or it's the truth.
Yes, but how can one tell? There's no evidence for and against Christianity.

Essentially God has intended various things for us, and really, the more you discover what God intended for us, the more you see how badly warped that intent has become through our choices in our lives. Then things begin to make sense.
I hope so.

I hope this finds you well, and Happy New Year to you! :D
Yes, it did. You too. :)

Yes. The only way to have eternity with God is though Jesus.
If that's the case, then what about Satan? What is he like? And what is hell like?

No. Following Jesus should be for a genuine love for His Word not based on fear or greed.
But I don't experience genuine love for Jesus yet. So I guess I can't follow him yet. Also the quote
Jesus wanted us to be afraid to go to hell.
seems to contradict what you just said.

You are incapable of loving Jesus until He saves you.
Also, if this is true, and I'm saved whenever I accept him as my Saviour. Then I can't really be saved, because I'm incapable of loving until he saves me, because in order to follow Jesus, I need to genuinely love him?

The law of Moses wasn't the actul law of God, it was the law of Isreal and Jesus broke the law of Moses alot by healing on the Sabbath and other activities that the law forbid. Jesus says something outstanding about the law in the gospels, "moses commanded you to divorce because your hearts were hard" [paraphrase]. So what does this say? Part of the law was written because the men's hearts were hard! In the profitical books [Jeremiah or Ezekeil], it says that God will make a new covenent with his people and he will write the law upon our hearts. Now let me ask you..... why make a new covenent? Becuase the old one wasn't working! The law we are to follow is the law written upon our hearts. The law that tells you that well over half the laws in the book of Moses are immorel.... listen to that law, because thats the law of God upon your heart.
Actually, Jesus said that the Old Testament was still valid, and that he came only to fulfill to law, not to abolish it. So I don't think he meant that it wasn't working, because he clearly stated that Moses already gave the people from Israel the Law.

the idea isn't accepting a relegein, the idea is repentance and showing remorse for your sins. We all want evil vanquished from the earth, in order to do that God has to do something about the sin problem that currently plagues us. So he sets himself up as judge and he judges his people's crimes. He gives warnings and over-all tries to be a good Father. However the people won't turn to him from their heart. They are so consumed with evil that they have no desire to repent. So God does the only thing he can do, you can't have a world of peace and love with people who only desire hatred and choas.
Then why can't he just destroy Satan and evil altogether? It doesn't defeat the purpose of free will, because evil is only something God invented.

Isaiah 45:7 - "I form the light, and create darkness: I make peace, and create evil: I the LORD do all these things."

He could just have made X, something unknown to us, because we're just mere humans. So we could pick between good and non-evil X. Just because it doesn't exist now, doesn't mean the omnipotent God can't create it. So that's something I don't really understand.

Homosexuality, like any sexual behavior that turns sex into just another recreational activity, rather than being primary a means of begetting and strengthening families, is subversive of God's purpose for creating sex, and therefore an abuse of sexuality.
What's wrong with having sex as a recreational activity? Research has pointed out that it's actually quite healthy to have it once in a while. So we can live longer. Besides, expressing love through sex binds humans together, and thus decreasing the chance on a divorce.

I do understand your reasoning, but then we'll have to ask ourselves where homosexuality finds its origin. Do you know? Because most people say that they can't help it, I suppose you disagree with that?

You see, He doesn't want you to obey Him out of fear, but out of love, and if you despise the Law then you cannot love the One who wrote it.
Does God love us infinitely?

Again, thanks everyone, and happy newyear for those who care about numbers! :)

- EgbertTheFourth

P.S. This is for the person that PM'ed me, I can't send you a PM until I have 5+ posts. I'm close, so don't think I'm ignoring you.
 
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So it's all a matter of faith rather than reason?


quite simply, yes.

but the more you get to know Him, the more things start to make some sense (although we will never have perfect knowledge until we are with Him).
 
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Hi EgbertTheFourth

I think we have a problem here. You are trying to communicate with us all using one post and i think you are getting our answers mixed up.


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No. Following Jesus should be for a genuine love for His Word not based on fear or greed.
But I don't experience genuine love for Jesus yet. So I guess I can't follow him yet. Also the quote Quote:
Jesus wanted us to be afraid to go to hell.
seems to contradict what you just said.

It would be better for you to reply to each person here individuely,

thanks


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Then I wouldn't chose Christianity out of love, but out of fear....

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But I don't experience genuine love for Jesus yet. So I guess I can't follow him yet. Also the quote seems to contradict what you just said.

Also, if this is true, and I'm saved whenever I accept him as my Saviour. Then I can't really be saved, because I'm incapable of loving until he saves me, because in order to follow Jesus, I need to genuinely love him? ...
First you said that you didn't want to choose Christianity out of fear, but rather out of love.
I made the point that it's not necessary to hold yourself to that standard since Jesus taught us to be afraid of hell, and the Bible also teaches that God loved us first.

Becoming saved has nothing to do with "loving" Jesus although this seems to be something you have been told by someone else.

This is the way I was saved:
I became convicted of my sinfulness before God.
I asked God to help me humble myself before Him so I would confess my sins.
God helped me humble myself.
I confessed my sins.
God forgave me.
I received a new spirit which was alive to God and dead to sin.
I received power to say no to sin.
I began to live my life for God with all my heart.

May God open the eyes of your understanding.
Happy New Year.
 
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What about a baby that dies at the age of 1. He or she didn't have the chance to acknowledge God in the first place. Will he or she end up in Hell for this? Because earlier it was said that the only way to get to Heaven was to accept Christ's offer. However, not going to Heaven implies going to Hell. So... The baby will go to Hell?
Yes it has been stated that the only way to eternity with God is through Jesus and Jesus has no problem granting eternity to innocents who have died. Because they are innocent.

Also, why do babies die so young anyway? Doesn't God love them?
How does the age of death have any relevance on the Love of God towards anyone?

It could be argued that God loves the babies that die more than the people He allows to go on to old age because the babies get to paradise without facing the troubles and tribulations this life throws at them.

The death of a person irrespective of their age should not be seen as an indication of Gods love or otherwise of that person or the people who are close to that person.

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