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I am terribly sad about this. I thought that a family member would be able to take them and keep them together.
Keeping them all, and this whole situation, in my prayers.
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Thanks bro.
I am terribly sad about this. I thought that a family member would be able to take them and keep them together.
Keeping them all, and this whole situation, in my prayers.
Yes it is sad. I don't know a whole lot but I think the girls are staying together and are in the process of being adopted by family. Koltons adoption was supposed to be final today (the 22nd) by the family that took him in while Jen was going through all her stuff. There was a reason they weren't being adopted together but nobody has said why. But since his mom's death Kolton has been more and more unruley and violant. Nobody can control him. He has tried to stab people, he hits and kicks and yells at everyone. He said he was going to murder the family who was going to adopt him's 1 year old son. I don't know if you guys remember hearing this but after his dad died he stabbed his grandparents' dog to death. He's got a lot of anger inside of him and its obvious he can and will hurt people. Its sad but he will probably have these kind of problems his whole life unless he gets some kind of serious help. The family doesn't want to lock him in an institution for his whole life so they are trying to send him to the boys ranch where hopefully he can live in a different enviroment and learn to deal with whatever's going on. I looked it up and I guess it's not really an orphanage but a place for boys 6-17 years old who can't really function in normal society because of behavior and other problems.....and it says its a christian-based community. So yes its sad but maybe its the best or only option for Kolton. Otherwise what would happen if his family members tried to adopt him and he ended up murdering somebody? I wish he knew how to handle this better but who can really blame the kid? I just feel bad. If Tim could only see what was happening he would be torn apart. Who would think it would ever turn out this way
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Praying for a miracle for Kolton.
I work with troubled kids... it is so sad..
Praying he ends up in the right environment to learn to deal with his anger and grief.
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Livin4ourLord
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I am terribly sad about this. I thought that a family member would be able to take them and keep them together.
Keeping them all, and this whole situation, in my prayers.
I was hoping they'd get to stay together and with family too. Praying, praying, praying.
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JOINING YOU IN PRAYER!
Devasting just to hear about, can't imagine what the family must be going through...Praying for ALL!
Keeping you in prayer as well bbrp!
Thanks for the update...
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Well. Time to pray for today. I am praying that something is figured out soon about what to do with Kolton. I pray that wherever he ends up that he feels loved and wanted and that he learns a way to deal with the pain other than all the anger. Right now he probably feels like its him against the world and thats gotta be overwhelming for a 6 year old kid. I pray that people won't criticize the family for the decisions they are having to make regarding the kids. We all don't know everything that has gone on and all of the circumstances. It may look bad like they just don't care, but I'm sure they are very hurt from all of this....especially what they are having to do regarding kolton. And of course I am praying for the girls too. I just want peace and happiness for them. They may be the only ones that have a chance.
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How horribly sad. May God bless these precious little ones' lives and bring comfort to them in this darkness. I just lost my husband to cancer last year, and knowing how hard it is, I can't even imagine if I had lost him in this way. How heartbreaking. God bless our young war widows and give them the strength to carry on. I pray for this young woman's soul, that she is now at peace, with our Lord and her precious husband. These children will be in my prayers daily. As a citizen of this wonderful country, I feel so grateful to this family for their sacrifice. I wish there were more I could do.
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Heard they accepted him at the ranch. I'm praying it works out and there will be people there that can help and be family to him. Have a good weekend guys.
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What is the ranch, BBRP?
I don't want anyone to think that I was judging anyone. I know that Tim and Jen's family have been through almost as much as they have, and that they care immensely. I was just hoping that it would have been possible for the kids to go to a family member.
Praying.
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