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my sister we may not understand how or why things happen . but the lord knows it all . for he will us just who he wants to bring his blessing forward . i love you and god do to . hold your head up and know that the lord has a plain .
father we thank you for this child that you will bless this family with . we thank you for your plain you have made . i ask that you will comfort them and pour out your mighty blessing in the name of jesus christ amen .
 
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peacechild4 said:
Mimi praying for you tonight.. take one day at a time.. each day has enough troubles of its own.. You will get there... \0/

Tonight because of learning of your situation.. I sat down with my 15 year old son and 13 year old daughter and had a good talk to them both... about sex and all that goes with it but also about waiting for marriage.. They were open about it and so was I.. Surprisingly they were quite keen to listen...It was a good time together.. talking about the options before them and giving them among other things some biblical reasons for waiting..

Thank you for being honest and for bringing your concerns for prayer.. God is already in your tomorrow.. I have been moved by your situtation to make sure my kids know that they have a choice to make and giving them other options to consider.. I told them even if they were to have sex before marriage.. God loves them and forgives them.. but I did also tell them that the other road is not as God intended it to be..

Maybe through what has happened to you both God can use you situation to help others, I know your story has provoked me to spend some time with my kids.. I know this must sound strange but thank you.. There is so much pressure on our young people not to wait... and yet there is so much at stake as you well know..

God is with you.. :groupray:

Wow, that blessed me:) I'm glad it motivated you to talk to your kids. I'm definately going to have a talk to mine when he/she is old enough.
And just so you all know, My boyfriend and I weren't under any pressure at all.
Let's see...................
My dad isn't quite cooled off yet so we're gonna make that talk for another day. (Where him and my boyfriend talk) By the way, my boyfriends name is Jaimee. Should've mentioned that a long time ago. :)
I've been holding it all in lately but I am extremely scared. I don't know what to do still. I'm so anxious all the time now. I've tried to give it all to God but the nerves aren't settling any. I talk to my mum and Jaimee about how I'm feeling and they try to help. Jaimee is so scared too. We're just trying to keep it together.
Thanks for all of the support and prayers everyone. Bless you all.
Mimi
 
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i will pray for you MOST DEFINATLY but lol YOUR GOING TO BE A MOTHER!! thats pretty cool but at that age it must be very very very very very hard for you but all in all it'll all work out since your walking wih God already you shouldnt be nervous at all but it's easier said then done but yea put ALL OF YOUR FAITH IN GOD FOR HE CAN DO ALL THINGS AND I WILL PRAY FOR YOU KEEP STRONG AND BY ALL MEANS DONT LOSE FAITH!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Oh sweet child........
I'm still here praying for you .......
I want you to know that your future is in gods hands and that you must recognise his plan step by step.....
i pray for your accuracy in not missing his guidance....
this baby is here for a reason....:prayer:
 
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Sweetheart I know its hard but you really need to trust God in this, yes you made a mistake, yes your young, and yes your frightened of what your parents will say, but behind all this God has a plan, and will turn it around for good. Tell your parents as soon as possible, they may be shocked at first but they'll come round to the issue, just trust and have faith for the next move.

God Bless

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afraid said:
:help: I'm so scared! Lastnight, I found out that I'm pregnant. I'M 14!!!!! I am absolutely beside myself and I'm freaking out! My boyfriend is here for me ofcourse and he is afraid too. He's 16. My parents are going to freak! I don't know what I'm gonna do. I'm so afraid of how my parents will react. They trusted me and my boyfriend. They love my boyfriend like a son. I feel so sick! I am soo afraid! What am I gonna do? Why did we have to be so stupid?! It's not like we are teens with raging hormones or anything. We're just so in love and.............it happened. *** *** ***!!!!!!!!! Please pray for me and that my boyfriend doesn't get beat up by my dad. I just need strength to get through this. We plan on telling them tomorrow. I don't want tomorrow to come! Please pray! I'm not ready for this! ***! I just registered on this sight cos I need someone to talk to. My boyfriend and I didn't go to school today cos we're too busy freaking out. AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please...advice anyone? Prayers are needed extremely bad!
thank you.
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lostndown said:
hey honey, i am scared 4 u but u can get thru this. email me on here if u still wanna talk. i am 5 mnths preg. by rape and will be due in november. how far along r u? i am 20 but am definately here for u, mimi. please dont abort the baby. it'll be ok. vent to me in pms if u want a new friend and talk too.

Love,
Michelle (alicia)

you're gonna be ok.

Oh My. I'm sorry that happened to you. But don't lose faith in God. :)
Let's see..............I'm about 2 weeks along. Due sometime in April. I really need prayer. Lately I've been very depressed and down on myself thinking, "Why were you being so stupid?" ..."Your childhood is OVER".........."You had pre-marital sex!" .."Your kid isn't gonna like you."..."Your kid isn't gonna grow up right." Just all sorts of things. The devil is trying to get into my head and screw everything up. I've been praying against these feelings but nothing seems to work. Jaymee is actually doing good. Atleast thats what he says. I know he's scared but he's not putting himself down like I am and he's not letting the devil have a foot-hold. I am. We pray every single day for us and for the baby. And I assure all of you, I would never get an abortion no matter how much I doubted this pregnancy or no matter how afraid I get. There's no way I'd ever murder a helpless baby. I'm so against it.
I just need the strength to get through this. Thank you all.
God Bless,
Mimi
 
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lostndown said:
wow thats cool. im gonna be a mommy too hehe... im 20. u too and ur 14. :) kinda scary but yeah. i pm'd u hon. email me when u can. *hugs*

Thanks for messaging me but when I go to open any of my private messages..well...they don't open so I can never read anything. :S
 
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Doko said:
i will pray for you MOST DEFINATLY but lol YOUR GOING TO BE A MOTHER!! thats pretty cool but at that age it must be very very very very very hard for you but all in all it'll all work out since your walking wih God already you shouldnt be nervous at all but it's easier said then done but yea put ALL OF YOUR FAITH IN GOD FOR HE CAN DO ALL THINGS AND I WILL PRAY FOR YOU KEEP STRONG AND BY ALL MEANS DONT LOSE FAITH!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thanks :wave:
 
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Im-revived said:
Sweetheart I know its hard but you really need to trust God in this, yes you made a mistake, yes your young, and yes your frightened of what your parents will say, but behind all this God has a plan, and will turn it around for good. Tell your parents as soon as possible, they may be shocked at first but they'll come round to the issue, just trust and have faith for the next move.

God Bless

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In agreement with Iamrevived........
I am praying sweet child...........
 
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you're welcome sweety. im praying for u, jaimee, and your little angel tonite, k??? *hugs* thanks. me2, it's hard having that stolen from me (virginity) and yeah. it wasnt my choice cuz i said no but yeah. email me anytime and im me on yahoo too and ill reply when im on. :)

lylas! we can talk anytime bout our babies and stuff. im excited but nervous. hug
 
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Wow, I haven't been on in quite a while. I'm 15 now so I guess it's not quite as bad as 14, although it's still bad. I'm a little over 2 months along now. Everything is going good with the pregnancy. All of my relationships are mended with family and friends. Now everyone is just excited for this baby to come. Jaimee and I are doing absolutely great. I couldn't ask for a better daddy for our baby. And he is so good to me. We have so much respect for eachother. I just want to say thank you all so so much for your prayers! I'm so greatful for you all. I pray that you all will be blessed and happy for all of your lives. My Dad and my Boyfriend are close now. They go out and spend the day together every once in a while, while my Mum and I plan stuff for the baby. We don't know what the baby is going to be yet. We're gonna wait until it's born. I feel like all of you are my Family so I'm just gonna go ahead and tell you the few favourite names we've picked out. So for a girl we like Keelee Kiana, Mylee Rene`, Seronna Marie, Zoe Jane, And Gracelynn. For a boy we like Cody Mitchel, Jayden Michael, Holden Robert, Hunter Allen, Or Mason James. Some of them are a bit unusual but we love them=] Well I just wanted to update everyone. Sorry I haven't been on in so long. I've been getting sick sooo much lately and I've been trying to keep up with school at the same time. I'm trying not to get too stressed becos I know it's not easy on the baby. Well, I will try to get on more to keep everyone updated. God Bless everyone.
~*~Mimi~*~
 
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Wow, I haven't been on in quite a while. I'm 15 now so I guess it's not quite as bad as 14, although it's still bad. I'm a little over 2 months along now. Everything is going good with the pregnancy. All of my relationships are mended with family and friends. Now everyone is just excited for this baby to come. Jaimee and I are doing absolutely great. I couldn't ask for a better daddy for our baby. And he is so good to me. We have so much respect for eachother. I just want to say thank you all so so much for your prayers! I'm so greatful for you all. I pray that you all will be blessed and happy for all of your lives. My Dad and my Boyfriend are close now. They go out and spend the day together every once in a while, while my Mum and I plan stuff for the baby. We don't know what the baby is going to be yet. We're gonna wait until it's born. I feel like all of you are my Family so I'm just gonna go ahead and tell you the few favourite names we've picked out. So for a girl we like Keelee Kiana, Mylee Rene`, Seronna Marie, Zoe Jane, And Gracelynn. For a boy we like Cody Mitchel, Jayden Michael, Holden Robert, Hunter Allen, Or Mason James. Some of them are a bit unusual but we love them=] Well I just wanted to update everyone. Sorry I haven't been on in so long. I've been getting sick sooo much lately and I've been trying to keep up with school at the same time. I'm trying not to get too stressed becos I know it's not easy on the baby. Well, I will try to get on more to keep everyone updated. God Bless everyone.
~*~Mimi~*~
Oh my goodness. 15. Well...a young woman age 22 at my church was born to a 15 year old mother....her mother is my age 37.
It's going to be alot of work. I just had a baby back in February and he is my first baby. What a handful, but what joyful little boy. His name is Dylan.
Your sickness should go away by the end of the 3rd month or a little after 13 weeks. I didn't just have morning sickness, but morning, noon, and night sickness. It was horrible.
I lift you up in prayer because it's not easy being a mother. Will your mother be watching the baby when you are in school?
I pray that you have a healthy baby and that it brings joy to your lives. You will have down times and those are the times when you will need to lean on the Lord.
I'm glad your parents are understanding because my mother would have severely killed me if I had ever gotten pregnant at that age.
Praying for you.
 
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So for a girl we like Keelee Kiana, Mylee Rene`, Seronna Marie, Zoe Jane, And Gracelynn. For a boy we like Cody Mitchel, Jayden Michael, Holden Robert, Hunter Allen, Or Mason James.

These are awesome names. I like every one of them !
My younger daughter, Connie also got pregnant at 14 and it turned out to be TWINS ! They are now 23 years old and wonderful girls !
She had another girl and then 2 boys. Sadly, :sigh: Connie died March 2003 from flu .
 
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