Please! Please Help!!!!

[mom_one]

praying for you ,your b/f & your parents ,we pray Gods will be done

 

[xXbrokenXx]

Oh my. That would be so scary. i'm 14 too. i can't imagine being in your situation. i'll pray for you all. Best wishes and take care.

 

[BrandonGray]

I don't know any good advice to give you, but I'll pray that it'll work out ok.

 

[JPPT1974]

Lord help our friend to
Help workout things and that
They will lean on you for their sake
In thy name and will comfort and guide them
Amen!

 

[searchingforGodlyanswers]

Just prayed for you.
Please do keep us updated.

 

[JacobsDream]

A mistake has been made and I pray that your parents realize that there's no going back. I pray that they support you through this.

However, I must add, with no disrespect intended that I do not agree with some of the comments I've read in this thread that suggest that you should have used protection.
The correct response is that you shouldn't have done anything at all. Protection doesn't protect us against adultery.

I have a pair of teenage twin sisters and I'm trying to imagine this as if you were my sister.
I wouldn't tell you to use protection, I would tell you NEVER to sleep with anyone at this stage in your life.

I'm praying for you.

 

[dsboy19]

Wow sweetie, my heart breaks for you. The important thing is to know that you made a mistake, and if you asked, you are forgiven by God. One lesson from the Bible we learn is that we reap what we sow. I am pleased to hear that you are not having an abortion, and this child will be a blessing in due time. We all love you and are praying for you. Learn from this and live for Jesus the rest of your days!

 

[Lost]

Wow sweetie, my heart breaks for you. The important thing is to know that you made a mistake, and if you asked, you are forgiven by God. One lesson from the Bible we learn is that we reap what we sow. I am pleased to hear that you are not having an abortion, and this child will be a blessing in due time. We all love you and are praying for you. Learn from this and live for Jesus the rest of your days!

 

[Lost]

God bless you!

 

[Lost]

Wow thanks everyone! I told them this morning and luckily I had asked my boyfriend to stay home until they calm down. It was pretty emotional. My dad freaked as I expected. He left. He's been gone for 5 hours. But he does that whenever he's upset. Thank God that I have always been close to my Mum. She's my best friend and she's supporting me 100%. I called my boyfriend and told him how everything is going. Now I'm just waiting for my dad to get back so we can all sit down together. And I assure all of you that I will NOT get an abortion. It's such a horrible thing to do. I do not believe in it at all. I think it's cruel. And We're thinking about keeping the baby, but we're not sure yet. Cos We're so young. I don't know. We'll see. I'm very scared about this. I'm so young. So is my boyfriend. But we're giving it all to God so we'll see how it works out. Thank you all so so much for your support. You don't know how appreciative I am. I'll keep you posted.
Mimi

Oh, so glad for you! We are all here and praying for you both!

 

[SHIELDS]

lord you have the plains of your children . lord you know all the time what would take place . i ask that you guide the both of them .father comfort this family and let them know you are our plains in jesus name amen .

 

[powerofprayer]

Mimi, I will pray for you and your family every night. I know you have a tough decision ahead of you ( whether to keep the baby or put it up for adoption) but just keep praying about it and God will reveal HIS will for you and the baby. Being the mom of an adopted daughter, I feel this is a very mature option and I am very proud of you for even considering it. Continue to listen to God - He will never leave you and never let you down. You have MANY people praying with you and there is power in prayer! Take care Sweetheart & remember - you have already been forgiven.
Sandy

P.S. Thank you JacobsDream for bringing up the "protection" issue... Abstinence should always be used until marriage... TRUE LOVE WAITS!!

 

[deb7648]

praying for you

 

[afraid]

I know you are right. We shouldn't have done anything. Some people think that people my age and my boyfriends' age can't be in love but they're wrong. And our relationship is all for God. But....we just got caught up in being in love and everything. We feel forgiven and that's important to feel content with it. We're both very mature for our ages and our relationship is strong. We have the money in our families and ourselves to support the baby. My dad came home. I talked to him alone. He's still very upset but that's no surprise. He agreed to talk to my boyfriend tomorrow and not to beat him up. There was some laughter there so that's a good thing. He just can't believe I [his baby] am not a virgin and I'm gonna have a baby. It's pretty crazy. But thank you all for your support. My boyfriend read everything and he said thank you as well. :]
I'm still so scared though. I'm so young and...my childhood is over. Also, I've heard about post-pardom depression. Please pray against that. And that the baby is healthy. Thanks again. I'll keep you updated.
Mimi

 

[peacechild4]

I know you are right. We shouldn't have done anything. Some people think that people my age and my boyfriends' age can't be in love but they're wrong. And our relationship is all for God. But....we just got caught up in being in love and everything. We feel forgiven and that's important to feel content with it. We're both very mature for our ages and our relationship is strong. We have the money in our families and ourselves to support the baby. My dad came home. I talked to him alone. He's still very upset but that's no surprise. He agreed to talk to my boyfriend tomorrow and not to beat him up. There was some laughter there so that's a good thing. He just can't believe I [his baby] am not a virgin and I'm gonna have a baby. It's pretty crazy. But thank you all for your support. My boyfriend read everything and he said thank you as well. :]
I'm still so scared though. I'm so young and...my childhood is over. Also, I've heard about post-pardom depression. Please pray against that. And that the baby is healthy. Thanks again. I'll keep you updated.
Mimi

Mimi praying for you tonight.. take one day at a time.. each day has enough troubles of its own.. You will get there... \0/

Tonight because of learning of your situation.. I sat down with my 15 year old son and 13 year old daughter and had a good talk to them both... about sex and all that goes with it but also about waiting for marriage.. They were open about it and so was I.. Surprisingly they were quite keen to listen...It was a good time together.. talking about the options before them and giving them among other things some biblical reasons for waiting..

Thank you for being honest and for bringing your concerns for prayer.. God is already in your tomorrow.. I have been moved by your situtation to make sure my kids know that they have a choice to make and giving them other options to consider.. I told them even if they were to have sex before marriage.. God loves them and forgives them.. but I did also tell them that the other road is not as God intended it to be..

Maybe through what has happened to you both God can use you situation to help others, I know your story has provoked me to spend some time with my kids.. I know this must sound strange but thank you.. There is so much pressure on our young people not to wait... and yet there is so much at stake as you well know..

God is with you..

 

[HOLYROLLER71]

Lord touch this sister,do a mighty move in her life,help her as she faces her parents,let them respond to her without screaming,give her parents the words to help this teen,let the father not turn to violence when dealing with her boyfriend,bring peace to her mind and keep her thoughts from rolling,I ask that you do a mighty work here,show the family what they need to do,I ask that you bless them Lord in the name of Jesus,amen.

 

[gumpsmom]

Mimi, I will pray for you and your family every night. I know you have a tough decision ahead of you ( whether to keep the baby or put it up for adoption) but just keep praying about it and God will reveal HIS will for you and the baby. Being the mom of an adopted daughter, I feel this is a very mature option and I am very proud of you for even considering it. Continue to listen to God - He will never leave you and never let you down. You have MANY people praying with you and there is power in prayer! Take care Sweetheart & remember - you have already been forgiven.
Sandy

P.S. Thank you JacobsDream for bringing up the "protection" issue... Abstinence should always be used until marriage... TRUE LOVE WAITS!!

Very well said.

 

[Ninjitsu14]

If you need anymore help, I saw a billboard on the way back from Carlsbad Caverns, it's a help hotline for people who are pregnanet and scared....Though, you may not need it, since you've spoken to your dad.


1-800-395-HELP

Since it's an 800 number, I'm sure you could call it too....maybe...

 

[bfly]

I know you are right. We shouldn't have done anything. Some people think that people my age and my boyfriends' age can't be in love but they're wrong. And our relationship is all for God. But....we just got caught up in being in love and everything. We feel forgiven and that's important to feel content with it. We're both very mature for our ages and our relationship is strong. We have the money in our families and ourselves to support the baby. My dad came home. I talked to him alone. He's still very upset but that's no surprise. He agreed to talk to my boyfriend tomorrow and not to beat him up. There was some laughter there so that's a good thing. He just can't believe I [his baby] am not a virgin and I'm gonna have a baby. It's pretty crazy. But thank you all for your support. My boyfriend read everything and he said thank you as well. :]
I'm still so scared though. I'm so young and...my childhood is over. Also, I've heard about post-pardom depression. Please pray against that. And that the baby is healthy. Thanks again. I'll keep you updated.
Mimi

You are so blessed to have such loving parents. They have your best interest at heart. Listen to them and respect their advice. I hope this will be a good lesson for you and your BF. "My father would have killed him and me both". God bless you and may all your needs be met.
May you and I both learn to walk in His Ways.

 

[ahmunmun]

Praying that your parents will forgive just like God did.