please help me

[sadlisa]

Hi my name is Lisa I am 15 yeasr old. i hope that you will be able to help me becaus i have a little problem. well rely a big problem.

I am pregant at this point. only 2 months. I kno I am pregnant becaus i have missed my period lots and I wnet to see a doctor last week. He said I was pregnant so now I kno. i also kno who the father is and that is a big problem to.

My parents wuld defanitely throw me out of teh house if they knew i was pregnant. So i cant tell them. But I dont think I shuld have this baby becaus the father is my englis teacher he is sort of my boyfriend rite now, it’s hard to expalin. He is older and my parents wuld kil me if they thot he did somethin liek that. i luv him and he does not kno about the baby but he wuld be very upset, but i think he is aginst abortion…

So shud I have this baby anyway, it’s rely a hard decision—wut shuld I do? please help, thx. and hurry!

~lisa

 

[SavedChild]

Ok, hold up..... You're pregnant by your English teacher.. If I may ask what is the age difference between you two? Do you ever plan on telling him? Praying for you... As for me, I wouldn't have an abortion, because it's not something I'd consider, it's almost like with mariage, I dont believe in divorce, pretty nuchthe same way with abortion, you put yourself in that predicament, why take the life of a little who didn't even do anything.

If you know you dont want to kep the baby, maybe you should look into a couple who is looking to adopt. God bless you, and good luck.

 

[SavedChild]

Ok, hold up..... You're pregnant by your English teacher.. If I may ask what is the age difference between you two? Do you ever plan on telling him? Praying for you... As for me, I wouldn't have an abortion, because it's not something I'd consider, it's almost like with mariage, I dont believe in divorce, pretty nuchthe same way with abortion, you put yourself in that predicament, why take the life of a little who didn't even do anything.

If you know you dont want to kep the baby, maybe you should look into a couple who is looking to adopt. God bless you, and good luck.

Also I just want to say, give the baby a chance at life, dont cut it short.... my mother was 12, yes 12 when she got pregnant with me.. She had me whe she was 13 years old... Hid her pregnancy for 7 months, and I'm grateful she gave me the chance of living a life, even though I have only lived with her for 3 months out of my whole life, I'm still grateful she didn't have an abortion or anything, because I'm here right now.

 

[sadlisa]

i told my parents and theyre making me hav an abortion...its sad

rite after xmas im suposed to see the docotr and get one....goodby baby

 

[sadlisa]

ohhh and i culd never tell my parents about my english teacher, theyd freak, i told them the dad was some kid i didnt kno

and i dont think i will tell him about the baby, hed be sad

 

[Sweet Pea]

Abortion is wrong you need to give the baby up for adoption. If this is true that your teacher is the father then he needs to be turned in for being with a minor. You need to tell the truth.

 

[SavedChild]

Abortion is wrong you need to give the baby up for adoption. If this is true that your teacher is the father then he needs to be turned in for being with a minor. You need to tell the truth.

I agree 100%...... with everything SweetPea has said.. Also, if your parents are FORCING you to have an abortion, then maybe, well I'm not telling you what to do, because it your life, I just dont want to see another post like this again but maybe you should take into serious consideration saving yourself for " the one" until you are married. God bless you.

 

[sadlisa]

the doctor is going to see me on january 4th and then no more baby

im sorry for bothering u all

 

[RED that's ME]

Lisa sending you a PM.

 

[sadlisa]

my mom bumped it up to jan 2nd

does abortion hurt alot? im scared

 

[FullyMT]

Lisa, please, do not have the abortion. Let your child have the chance to life. If you cannot raise the child, I STRONGLY suggest adoption. You can find a good agency really easily, and you can even meet the future parents! Send me a private message, because I have contacts! Praying for you and your child!

 

[Brother Simon]

Lisa, please take FullyMT up on his offer and PM him.

Talk to your parents about this. It is your child and the child deserves to live, and if you are against having an abortion I'm sure your parents will at least hear you out!

By your icon it says you are Catholic. If your parents are also Catholic, I strongly recommend going to speak with a priest about this!

God Bless you and also praying for you and your child!

Simon

 

[geocajun]

lisa, no one can force you to kill your baby. You must protect this child, its your baby.
You are about to kill your baby, and less concerned about that then protecting the reputation of your teacher.
You need to come clean about this. You need to protect your child. You may find it is not easy, but you are the mother of this child.
I will pray for you and your child.

 

[gracefaith]

I'm praying for you. I wish I could offer more.

I believe that everyone has within them the strength to do right even in the face of unimaginable obstacles. Have faith, for even the rest of the world should fall away, GOD is with you.

The prayers of many are with you too.

 

[Sweet Pea]

the doctor is going to see me on january 4th and then no more baby

im sorry for bothering u all

If this is for real then get some help quick. There are people out there who will help you. Let people help you.

 

[sadlisa]

my mom says my life will be ruined and i will hav to drop out off school

i want to be a doctor i cant leave school also she says she wont help me if i hav the baby and im scared to be wo my parents

 

[Maggie893]

Lisa I pm'd you. Please let me or someone here help. This is your moment to love unconditionally as you would want to be loved. If you have the baby, even if you give him/her up for adoption, every morning is a new opportunity to do the right thing. If you kill this child, who God has willed to live, every morning you realize that you can never undo the damage.


Please contact someone who can help and be strong.

 

[Maggie893]

Hey Lisa,


You also might want to stop by OBOB http://www.christianforums.com/f26-one-bread-one-body-catholic.html. That stands for One Bread One Body. We are the Catholic forum and there are lots of people there to talk to who know a lot and a bunch of teens that would be great for you for support!

 

[Ann Doupont]

Sadlisa,

What can I say? I'm now 59 years old, with a wonderful 42 year old son. When I was 16, I got pregnant, and was scared. Considered abortion, but I knew in my heart that it was wrong.

My son has a PhD in Computer Science and is now an Associate Professor at a University. Abortion is wrong. It's killing an unborn child, without giving them a chance at life. My son is very happy that I didn't abort him.

Give the baby a chance. Go see a pastor or a center that helps unwed mothers. You don't have to have the abortion. There is a way!

Ann

 

[Paul S]

Lisa, I really hope you consider adoption if you can't raise your baby yourself. There's a lot of places that will help you and your baby get through this and there's a lot of couples out there who would love to adopt your baby.

You should tell your parents that you really want to have this baby, and that you know abortion's wrong. Having a baby's a big change, but it doesn't ruin your life. If you really can't take care of a baby, that's what adoption's for. Please tell your parents you want to give life to your child.

Praying for you.