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FullyMT

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my mom says my life will be ruined and i will hav to drop out off school
That's a lie. Pretty much every High School has a program where teen mothers can drop off their children for daycare and the mothers can go to school. You may have to miss a few days every now and then, and, doing the math, you'd probably miss the first bit of school, but that's about it.

i want to be a doctor i cant leave school also she says she wont help me if i hav the baby and im scared to be wo my parents
You can still be a doctor if you want! It will just take a little more time, and you'd have to be more careful with money. Do not be afraid of being without your parents, although you have every right to be. They are not supporting you in a way God would want you to be. If they kick you out of the house, there are lots of places that will take care of you and treat you very well, and help you care for your child.
 
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If you live in the United States, you are an emancipated adult. You can make your own decisions now. Don't let your parents or the hold your teacher has over you to force you into something that's dangerous and wrong!

Surely there is a minstry in your community that will help you, be it adoption or daycare.

Deuteronomy 30:19 This day I call heaven and earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live.

life -------> blessings

death ----> curses
 
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Have the Baby. Tell your parents that you love him and I hope you realize that your teacher will be fired and probably loose his teaching license and be very ill treated if not ran out of town. Plus, you are a minor and he may do jail time. Do you realize this? It is not your fault, so don't blame the baby, Let that child live. He should have been man enough, not to have gotten you in that way. Write me back.
 
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Has anyone heard from this poster? Could the Mods on theis board have the ISP traced....

Sweetie if you have not had the abortion as of yet please please do not kill this child.....
My husband and I are trying our best to have a baby at this time. I could not even dream of killing one......
Please sweetie do not do this....Your parents can not force you to do it against your will.....
 
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Please come back! God will forgive you, regardless of what you've done! God forgiveness can reach the deepest darkest part of ourselves and set us free!

If you haven't had the abortion yet, please listen! A baby is a gift from God. God has willed this child to live and he will love that child regardless.

If you have had the abortion, God WILL forgive you. Just remember that the baby is in heaven in the prescence of God.

God loves you and I love you!
 
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lisarn

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Lisa,
I wish I had seen this thread sooner! I pray that it is not too late. If you are still pregnant I want you to know God will help you. If you have already had an abortion, I want you to know God will forgive you.
What is going on with your English teacher is wrong. You need to tell someone as soon as possible.
You can send a PM to me anytime. I am here for you.
 
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Hello all,

Just to let you know, I just looked up Lisa's info. here, and saw that she has not been on this site since December 29th.

I sent her a PM, letting her know that the people here care, and that they're asking about her. Perhaps she'll get it. Meanwhile, we'll just have to keep on praying for her.

Ann
 
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PTL I am so happy for you. I have been where you are now and I can assure you that there is a way to keep this child and get the education you want. I was 16 when I got pregant, got married after the baby was born, graduated from High School, had two more childern then went to Nursing School. I have been a Registered Nurse for 22 years. You can have it all, I am an example of what happens if you put your mind to it.
 
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I am so thankful that you are keeping the baby....and when I say keeping I mean not having an abortion. God will see you through all of this, Lisa. Just focus on Christ.

Still I am concerned about your involvement with this teacher. Have you talked to anyone about this yet?
 
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