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Update;Son and his girls stopped by
His eldest girl has Dravet syndrome
Bouts of epileptic seizures 24/7
Heavy meds
She's not expected to see her teens
I'm really sorry Gary. Grandchildren should never die before their grandparents.Update;
Son and daughters just left from Christmas dinner we had three days ago
Very unplanned
His diesel truck wouldn't start
Worked on it for a couple days
Changed filters and such
Air in the fuel line
Primed it, got the air bled out
It'd now start, but quit
Turns out the computer would shut it down
Needed a program wipe and reboot
Got that done this morn, and off they went
We're a tad spent from those three days
and the girls were faunching at the bit
But
Turned into a blessing
The eldest girl (now 10) is experiencing more and more seizures
and a new twist: gasping for breath
We may not have her much longer
So, we consider the truck breakdown a wonderful blessing
Excellent story. Your love for him shines through.I love taking photos of creation
someone said "A picture is worth a thousand words"
However, I also enjoy writing about folks
Maybe a thousand words can paint a worthy picture
I have a lot of recollections
Here's one now
Grampa
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He was a quiet man.
Work was his vocation and recreation.
I spent a lot of time at their place in my early years.
Seems Grampa always had chores that filled his waking hours.
I was his shadow.
He wore coveralls most days, and always sported an old grey fedora.
His high cut oxfords made a shuffling sound as he walked. Parkinson’s was having it’s way with his system.
We’d dine on a bowl of hominy together in the country kitchen.
As the midday sun danced on the table through the window from between the limbs of the giant firs, I’d watch his massive hand struggle to keep his corn on the shaking spoon.
In between chores, and my naps, he’d sit in the old padded rocker and thumb through a photo album while I stood at his side.
‘The dapple was Molly and the grey was Dixie’, pointing to the work horse team he knew so well.
Seemed Grampa had a couple soft balls tucked in his upper shirt sleeves. He was a compact man at five nine, but stout, bull neck, thick arms.
I knew him in his lesser years, keeping his meaning to life by doing small jobs.
Things like sharpening the hoes with rasps, feeding the chickens, gathering eggs, or lubing the tractor.
He cut down a hoe to my size, and all three of us hoed acres of strawberries.
I saw him laugh once.
He was a proud man, brought down and humbled by an untreatable disease, but keeping his misery within.
Dad says he was hard boiled in his younger years, and short on patience. Proud.
I knew him as a much different man.
One time I peered through a cracked door to his study. He was on his hands and knees, talking to his Lord, no longer able to just kneel.
His bible was quite worn.
Dad gave to it me a few years ago.
I leant it to him at Christmas.
I’ll get it back pretty soon.
I think of times then and times now.
What a difference in pace, in conviction, in the shear enjoyment of endurance in simple living.
I see my grandkids give me an occasional glance of admiration, but nothing like the revered awe I had of him.
He died when I was ten.
I can still hear the shuffle of his feet, but it’s mine that echo his stride now.
His prayers in his study was for family, their salvation
They're being answered
I'm patterning mine after his
I like it. I used to have a slide of three yellow rises I took back in the 80s. One of my favorite photos ever,Late spring is so glorious
The garden is coming alive
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and a freshening of blossoms
Makes for a blessed Sabbath
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