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When other people are aggressive about protecting their boundaries but have no problem walking all over yours.

When a friend of mine claims to be so open-minded, but when confronted with exactly the situation she espouses, she reacts narrowmindedly -- and without any acknowledgment that she had earlier self-righteously advocated for exactly the opposite.
 
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Exactly!! I can't stand that either--I guess we can be peeved together!!

How about when someone attacks your discernment in a spiritual matter--that they have no idea what they are even talking about!
 
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Exactly!! I can't stand that either--I guess we can be peeved together!!

How about when someone attacks your discernment in a spiritual matter--that they have no idea what they are even talking about!

Me three...:wave: Should we start a group?

And that too! :sigh:
 
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When you are told by someone who doesn't even know you that your physical problem is just you not being spiritual and giving it over to God!

That makes me mad, ODAAT. Some people have a lot of nerve! (Let me at em. LOL)



PP: People who just blurt out whatever comes to mind, not caring whether it's truthful or not and being unconcerned with whether it hurts the other person.
 
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Thanks Virtual....you can be my bodyguard!! ;)

People who do whatever they want without thought of those around them. "If they don't like it -it is their problem." What happened to being courteous and gracious?
 
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People who do whatever they want without thought of those around them. "If they don't like it -it is their problem." What happened to being courteous and gracious?
I don't know ... seems like we live in a mighty self-centered society...

ETA: This is not a peeve, but I wanted to admit that I'm feeling jealous of somebody right now. I won't go into details, but let's just say it's along the lines of someone having a faster car, or a better kitchen appliance, or a sewing machine with more features on it, such that she could do a better job than me. Fortunately, "this too shall pass." (Is that from the Bible, btw?)
 
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