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Pet peeves... hmmm, when people are too easily offended. ...You know how some people can be. You say you got a spot on your tie ( because if you had a spot on your cloths you sure would appreciate if someone would tell you so you could go wash it off.) ... and all of a sudden they act like you're saying that you're disgusted by them, they can't do anything right! They can't even dress themselves properly! and they might as well just go kill themselves because everybody hates them. (I mean, I want to be nice, understanding, patient. I know sometimes people are sensitive. Shoot, I'm sensitive sometimes. But, it gets sooooo old when adults act like needy 3 year olds who not only need you to sugar coat everything you say to them, but pretend that they're perfect when come on, they're just as human as anybody else. ... just so they don't have a mental breakdown. )

... I wonder sometimes what these people would do if they had any real crisis to deal with. *roll eyes*
 
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^ :D Yeah. I've yelled that a time or two in my own house. Children, they should come with volume control, you know? :D

Drag Queens... and how hetorosexual men that think acting like they're gay is funny. (my husband does this and it gets on my noives! )
 
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^ :D Yeah. I've yelled that a time or two in my own house. Children, they should come with volume control, you know? :D

Drag Queens... and how hetorosexual men that think acting like they're gay is funny. (my husband does this and it gets on my noives! )
Oh sure, I am talking at church or in a store or at someone else's house...

Another one... assuming that because I am single, I am lonely.
 
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people who talk over you and don't let you get a word in! My neighbor did this to me this morning...i was telling her what happened to Nick...because she asked, and she kept interrupting me telling me about her son's dog! oh my goodness! So i just shut my mouth!
 
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I here ya marezee. You understand of course that's a sign of a person being self centered, right?

Being accused and blamed (yelled at in front of my kids and my niece) for "taunting" my 9 year old daughter into having a full on temper tantrum (including slamming doors) by my husband. (they have a snow day today. And he works at home. She's a red head, with a temper to match, who has full on temper tantrums as a matter of course. I don't taunt her. If anything, I try to understand that she's a little high strung and prone to immature behavior. But, he thinks all children should be silent while he is working, which is about 24/7 these days. )
 
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yeah...i think my neighbor is a tadd self-centered...at least that is how she comes across to me!
She is always telling me how I should raise my boys. From the food i feed them to the discipline i should give them! :eek:
Excuse me?! God made me their mother, not you!

That is another pet peeve, of course!
 
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well...she is my neighbor, and her hubby and mine are buds, as well as her 3yr old son and my 4yr old son play together. So I'm trying to be civil.

she wants to have a bible study (just the four of us). I'm really undecided about that.

anyway! APP: this snow storm!!
 
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Pet peeve: Women who complain about their spouses. (I've always hated that, and because of the current state of my frustration, I'm gulity of it too. ) (I moved my problem into the womans discussion forum. This is really not the place for it. )
 
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