I think it is a toolkit and we use what works wherever we are, which might be different to another place. There is also service evangelism, which my last Church was very good at, running food banks etc. My current Church is having a time of prayer and fasting next week to hear what the Lord is saying to us. So we will see.
I might agree to differ with you a bit on the methods but I think you have a good heart in trying to reach the lost. I'm going to bow out of the discussion now as I need to get on with other things but God bless you and your attempts to share the gospel.
Friendship evangelism is part of our toolbox, and we should all use it.
James 2:14-17 says "
What good is it, my brothers and sisters, if someone claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save them? Suppose a brother or a sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to them, “Go in peace; keep warm and well fed,” but does nothing about their physical needs, what good is it? In the same way, faith by itself, if it is not accompanied by action, is dead."
So be nice to people, bless them and get alongside them. Be their friend.
But, if we have faith that God is real and we see a non-believing brother or sister under God's wrath, and we say to them, “Be our friend”, but do nothing to warn them, what good is that? Faith without works is dead.
Our lack of proclamation evangelism gives the unbeliever reason to doubt that our God is not real. If you saw a house on fire, you would yell and warn the people inside. You believe that the house is on fire and that the person will die if you do not urgently warn them. You would not let it be on your conscience that you did nothing. Likewise, if you truly believe in an everlasting punishment for unbelievers, you will warn everyone you see as soon as possible. You would act in accordance with your belief.
Sadly, our absence of proclamation evangelism shows our level of belief; and the lost see this and this makes our witness weak.
"If you know of everlasting life, and you know of everlasting death, how much do you have to hate somebody to not tell them of it?" Penn Jillette
Lastly, a quote from Brother Yun who is a believer in China who has been jailed and persecuted for his faith but whose fire still burns very strong:
"The church today lacks this. The Holy Spirit descended as a tongue, and it is the Spirit that transforms our tongues. The disciples received a message and those that couldn’t talk became preachers. They received power, clarity and boldness and they started preaching the Gospel."
Thanks for the discussion. I enjoyed it too. I hope this challenges you to be courageous. Pray that God gives you a stronger love for the lost and a greater boldness and clarity to go and share the Gospel. God Bless.