You'd have a hard time turning down an obese, homely white woman for a date? Or do you become picky at some stage?
And how does marriage change things? Why would it suddenly be easy to do a behavior you find difficult now?
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You'd have a hard time turning down an obese, homely white woman for a date? Or do you become picky at some stage?
And how does marriage change things? Why would it suddenly be easy to do a behavior you find difficult now?
If you find it easy to refuse to date someone based on their skin color, can I assume that you don't hold it against someone who won't date you based on your skin color? That you understand that their preferences are just as valid as yours?
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I would not mind dating an obese white woman if she asked me out. When I was living on Oahu, I did date a couple of obese white women.
When I was married, I was faithful. The only time, that I was tempted, was in my four year first marriage, was on a cruise. I was playing a slot machine. I was by myself. This older white woman, stood next to me and said, "Hello!" I said. "Hello" to her. The next thing that I knew, she started to play with my hair! I told her, "Excuse me!" I left her in the casino. There was no way that I was going to cheat on my wife! Besides, I was cruising with my wife, her aunt ,my mother-inlaw, and my father-inlaw. That was my Fillopina wife.
During my second marriage, for six years to a white woman, I was never tempted. Yet one woman, a younger white woman, at church of all places ,did flirt with me a lot.
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Yes, I certainly do understand........absolutely. But, in California,there are many, many, interracial relationships. Now do you know why I would not want to move to the South? Also ,if I relocate now, at my new home, I will become a stranger all over again.
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