I was suicidal when I surrendered my life to Christ some years ago, about 7. I came to the end of myself. I was singing in a praise group at a church, not living my life right, but the spirit of the Lord began to convict me. I grew up in a "Christian" home, traumatic abusive upbringing, hence I was suicidal from childhood. After giving my life to Christ I had such a desire to serve and live for God and used to listen to sermons by David Wilkerson online before I found a better church that I switched to, and some years later I switched churches again. I've had terrible experiences in church and I've been in positions of active service in church departments all these years. But now I'm ready to step down. I'm not taking my focus off of Christ or off of His kingdom, but I want to take my focus off of "church" and focus more on the relationships that I have with people. I've learned profoundly through these life experiences that the strongest and most effective testimony in a life lived for Christ is the way that I live my life day to day. How do I address relationships with friends that have fallen into disrepair when I was never too good at communicating the inner turmoil I was experiencing? I think that my communication skills have suffered as a result of over dependence on texting/social media. How do I get authentic? I've had to re-learn how to connect with others/have peaceful relationships with others as I had this traumatic upbringing and then experienced much spiritual abuse in one of the churches I went to.