I haven't has a VBAC (as I haven't had a Csection...though just barely they were getting ready to knock me out when my 2nd baby decided that it was pushing time). I have however doulaed at VBACs.
There is a great book out there entitled
The VBAC Companion by Diana Korte. ANd another book which I highly recommend (with certain stipulations) for women who are planning a VBAC is
Birthing From Within by Pam England. The stipulations are #1 it can sound a little new agey in places, and #2 part of the book involves doing some drawing to examine your emotions --and that is just not something that was really for me. However--even with those two reservations- I think it is an invaluable book! One of the moms who had a VBAC told me afterwards that she just kept saying to herself over and over again one of the things that she read in that book
The reason why I am such a huge advocate of that book is because I think it really helps a woman to really look squarely at the fears she has surrounding birth- as well as the expectations she has. And through really walking through our fears- they lose power over us...and we can be free to birth. She makes a big push to show that birth is physical, emotional and spiritual...and if we are struggling with fear- it can hinder birth just as an actual physical impediment. I don't know --it is an awesome book!