Jimmy. Show me any scritupture that supports that theory! Look, when God saves a person you dont reach out and grab hold of God you submit to HIS will and allow HIM to grab hold of you. You dont enter his heart HE enters YOUR heart. You arent holding HIM, HE is holding on to you!!!
Romans 3:23 for all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God,
24 being justified freely by His grace through the redemption that is in Christ Jesus,
25 whom God set forth as a propitiation by His blood, through faith, to demonstrate His righteousness, because in His forbearance God had passed over the sins that were previously committed,
26 to demonstrate at the present time His righteousness, that He might be just and the justifier of the one who has faith in Jesus.
27 Where is boasting then? It is excluded. By what law? Of works? No, but by the law of faith.
28 Therefore we conclude that a man is justified by faith apart from the deeds of the law.
29 Or is He the God of the Jews only? Is He not also the God of the Gentiles? Yes, of the Gentiles also,
30 since there is one God who will justify the circumcised by faith and the uncircumcised through faith.
31 Do we then make void the law through faith? Certainly not! On the contrary, we establish the law.
Works are a fruit of your salvation not the basis for it.
Show me a saved person that lives a homosexual lifestyle and I will show you a very unhappy saved person that is being punished in his heart by God. I will also submit to you that it is VERY unlikely that a person who lives a homosexual or murderous or hedonistic lifestyle was ever saved at all. Im not saying its impossible, but I would bet that its very VERY rare. IF you totally reject Christ, you were never saved in the 1st place.
The Bible makes a BEAUTIFUL example of this when talking about a shepherd that has a lamb that continually runs away and so the shepherd breaks his leg and then carries the lamb with him as the flock moves until the lamb learns to stay with the flock. The lamb is still with the shepherd, he just takes the lambs freedom so that he is dependant on the shepherd. I can relate to this because I KNOW I am saved and I KNOW how God has dealt with me when I blew him off and tried to go off and do what I wanted. There was not one minute that I didnt feel conviction and Gods calling to my heart when I was being willfully disobedient. EVERY SINGLE TIME the call gets stronger and life gets harder until God finally drops the hammer on me and I cannot take the pressure anymore, I turn, repent and get right and the pressure is IMMEDIATELY relieved. I may have to live with the outcome of the mistakes in my life until I get things strightened out but I get my JOY back because I know that in spite of my circumstances I am walking in Gods will.
Im not speaking of opinion I am speaking this as PERSONAL experience, unrefutable by any interpretation of what the Bible says. The Bible is not conflicting and it is not contradictory. Romans 1 says we will KNOW the word because the word is written on our hearts so that we are without excuse. I know what I see in the Word and I also know how God deals with me personally. I have walked away from God willfully (not in my behoaviour, but in my heart by my determination to do what I want even though I know its not what God wants) and he has convicted me every minute every time I did it until I came back into his will.
Dont tell me I was lost, I was not lost, God was there all the time I could feel HIM I was just trying to ignore HIM and he flat wouldnt let me. He brings me back EVERY single time. My fear is that one day if I dont come back and I am no longer bear fruit, he is going to cut me down like the tree that bears no fruit.
Hebrews 12:5 "My son, do not despise the chastening of the Lord, Nor be discouraged when you are rebuked by Him;
6 For whom the Lord loves He chastens, And scourges every son whom He receives."
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F57 you endure chastening, God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom a father does not chasten?
8 But if you are
without chastening, of which all have become partakers, then you are illegitimate and not sons.
9 Furthermore, we have had human fathers who corrected us, and we paid them respect. Shall we not much more readily be in subjection to the Father of spirits and live?
10 For they indeed for a few days chastened us as seemed best to them, but He for our profit, that we may be partakers of His holiness.
11 Now no chastening seems to be joyful for the present, but painful; nevertheless, afterward it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.
12 Therefore strengthen the hands which hang down, and the feeble knees,
13 and make straight paths for your feet, so that what is lame may not be dislocated, but rather be healed