once a cheat always a cheat???

[~Lynz~]

ok the std talk can end... u can use a condom and then its safe... and thats not on topic.

and by cheating i mean kissing i dont mean having a relationship or have sex with....

 

[NoodlesNoodlesNoodles]

ok the std talk can end... u can use a condom and then its safe... and thats not on topic.

and by cheating i mean kissing i dont mean having a relationship or have sex with....

Suddenly, halfway through the game, the umpires changes the rules.

Nice..



P.S. "u can use a condom and then it's safe" is so wrong I'm just a little about it.

 

[white dove]

As the saying goes, "The best indicator of future behavior is past behavior". We don't like to hear that, but it's still the truth. I'd steer clear of any admitted cheaters, UNLESS the cheating was in the distant (yes, DISTANT) past and I could tell, after spending time with them, that they were a different person.

I don't think it's the self-admitted cheaters you'd have to worry about.

 

[xuxana]

so what do i think...

a guy goes out with a girl... cheats on her...
do u think he is likly to cheat again?

or how bout another situation

a guy goes out with a girl, cheats on her.. then starts going out with the new girl (after he has broken up with the first) how likely do u think it would be that he would cheat on the new girl?

i didnt use to believe this, but now i totally agree with it. my ex cheated on his gf of 2 years(at the time) to be with me. 2 years later he dumped me & upgraded to a stripper with a boobjob & bad teeth. i was devastated but it was an ultimate lesson learned. never again!

he seemed so nice, too.

 

[~Lynz~]

Suddenly, halfway through the game, the umpires changes the rules.

Nice..



P.S. "u can use a condom and then it's safe" is so wrong I'm just a little about it.

lol yeah sorry should have put that one in the first post but then i see anything from kissing to sex cheating.


and i mean using condom its the safe that ghost hunter can stop going on bout stds.

 

[Scorponok]

There can be emotional cheating as well. There are people going online and talking to people other than their spouses or those they are with and stating there is no issue with it because they're not cheating. But it still is, they're removing that emotional bond away from their relationship and putting it to someone outside of it. That is still cheating even if there is never any physical contact.

Cheating is cheating and there will never be a time that it is "okay" and unless you feel remorse, guilt, and disgust for what you did then I don't think you will ever be able to change that part of who you are will be stuck repeating it over and over again. Especially, if it's in the scenario that you presented in the first post.

A guy cheats on someone he is currently with but then goes after the new person. There is no time in between to feel the sorrow and guilt of what you did. It becomes a cycle that I believe cannot be broken until we take the time to step away from everyone else, view what we're doing wrong, and realize what is wrong with us to realize why it's happening. Not think about what the other person did or didn't do.

 

[xuxana]

There can be emotional cheating as well. There are people going online and talking to people other than their spouses or those they are with and stating there is no issue with it because they're not cheating. But it still is, they're removing that emotional bond away from their relationship and putting it to someone outside of it. That is still cheating even if there is never any physical contact.

Cheating is cheating and there will never be a time that it is "okay" and unless you feel remorse, guilt, and disgust for what you did then I don't think you will ever be able to change that part of who you are will be stuck repeating it over and over again. Especially, if it's in the scenario that you presented in the first post.

A guy cheats on someone he is currently with but then goes after the new person. There is no time in between to feel the sorrow and guilt of what you did. It becomes a cycle that I believe cannot be broken until we take the time to step away from everyone else, view what we're doing wrong, and realize what is wrong with us to realize why it's happening. Not think about what the other person did or didn't do.

ok well thats not really cheating. coz its not tangible. but i know how you feel.

but really, ive done this. owning a plentyoffish or zoosk account doesn't mean you are hooking up behind your significant other's back. its online stuff. it really shouldnt count. it's just mindless flirtation in the e-world.