I'll be blunt. There is no white privileged really. We are all equal. Only blacks make it out like they are not equal. Here are some points I want to make.
1. Blacks lacking in things
I am so tired of hearing about things like the Oscars where "Its racist, no blacks won!". Really they are just saying "No blacks won this year!". Because blacks have won in the past. The year prior 12 Years a Slave won lots of Oscars! Problem is there are just tons of white actors, politicians and so on. Not that many black. Is that because of racism? No. Its because its just how it is. Maybe "whites" out number blacks. Its not a racist thing. After all we had a black president.
2. Other minorities
Extending sort of from point 1, blacks fail to see how silly they look, especially the BLM thing. Do they realize for example with the Oscars in comparison to blacks, there are almost NO asian winners? Probably any number of others that have won less then black actors. And this applies for everything. President and so on.
3. What is white?
If you notice its only ever blacks and whites. But with every other "race", no one uses terms anymore. Your spanish, russian...etc. But when it comes to blacks they don't say jamacia, chad....etc. Just as whites aren't labeled as italian, british, irish...etc. Every culture has its goods and bad so to speak. I'm italian american (Well 50% other stuff). Not white. My friend is Kenyan, not african/black. Yes we have silly stupid race labels but they do not help with situations like this "white privilege" thing. If we were to break down races into their culture, maybe numbers would be different when it comes to black deaths vs white deaths. Who cops pick on more. Because if you notice, in any case with a cop attacking someone, the word "black" is simply used. When it comes to anyone else you tend to find out what they are. Mexican, chinese, moroccan. I'm sure people who are of "latino" or "arab" decent get alot of cop harassment too.
4. What is privilege?
This white card I hold supposedly gets me the world. It means I never get looked at. I never get judged. I get the world handed to me. Everyone loves me. Right? Wrong. I'm disabled (not physically), I get picked on because of my weight. Or how I walk. Or because I prefer talking to girls more then guys since I am not into most "male" things like sports. Police have watched be before, I've been almost arrested once (it was a false accusation and they let me go). I've been beat up. I've been abused by women because I am overly nice. I live at home while married. I get discrimination when I try to work on because of my disabilities. My life isn't the best. So whatever this card is I hold. I don't have it.
5. Blacks have the real privilege
Ok so I can say yes, cops target blacks more. Maybe this is just because blacks speak up more about it then whites. Hence it makes the news. Or maybe cops really do target them on purpose, which I agree is not good. But blacks have the card here. Just as with certain "same sex" people, they have the privilege of being who they are. If your black and someone hires you, they did it because they are racist and need to meet a quota. If they don't hire you its because they are racist and don't want blacks. If your fired, its because a company is racist. If you even look at a black man wrong, they yell racism. And they get away with it. They get others fired because the racist card plays well for them. Which is why many whites try to say nothing because we can't win. Even in cases where its obviously not about racism.
Such as when a black guy pulls a gun on a cop and the cop shoots him. The news say "white cops says black man!". Blacks say the black man was innocent, nice, outgoing...etc. Despite police records showing hes part of a gang, has a record of assault, drug possession...etc. Despite he lived in a ghetto where he ran with a gang beating up people. Despite the fact he owned a gun to show off and to scare people. Despite the fact (in one case) he just came from a store where he beat up a store owner. Black card lets you get away with that and be shown as innocent. Now, obviously in some cases of course a black man is killed for no reason. Such as that poor guy in new york who the caps sat on as the guy wheezed out "I can't breathe!". I do agree cops need better training.
6. Southern USA
I do feel as any real racism is MUCH bigger down south. Trace it back to the civil war if you want. Most cases are always in southern states. And while not everyone is racist down south of course, there are plenty that are and admit it. Having been south many times I seen it alot. Which is all the more reason not to say "whites" when that makes it about as bland as possible. Maybe say "Alot of southern white men, particulary of the eurpoean decent have a white privilege card.". Then that isn't even really fair to say.
7. History and stats
Lets not forget when people mention history, many blacks were slave owners themselves. Just as many blacks sold other blacks from other countries to make money on them. Out west even though we picture white guys, alot of them were actually black cowboys. Many facts people forget. In terms of stats, black on black death is the majority killer among blacks. I wish that would be mentioned instead of bringing up white cop to black death ratios.
8. Black culture change?
Perhaps the BIGGEST point I want to make here and the biggest issue is that there needs to be change from inside black culture. And yes, maybe a a tiny bit on the "white" end of it too. Now what I am about to say refers to "some" blacks. Not all or the majority (since I am terrible with words).
The culture of blacks needs change from the inside out. Many blacks (from regular people to politicians to christians...etc) have even said this. The culture to the outside world seems to consist of the same old thing. Gangs, violence, sex and so on. Alot of blacks movie tend to embrace this normally "stereotype" thing. In movies and tv the black person will speak with a (forgive this word) ebonic way. They talk about being tough, having lots of sex, killing off competition, having guns, fights and so on. Theres even a show made by blacks with blacks in it about a music empire (I think it is called Empire). In the shows its the whole negative black culture thing. This needs to change. They need to stop caring about those things. Most "Whites" do not stay in poverty places like a ghetto because "Its all we got". We try to get out of such places. We work hard. We do not roam around in gangs with our pants half down and pistols on us. We do not threaten people.
Because of the culture they created, it adds to the problem of white cops doing stupid things towards them (which yes, that means the culture for cops would have to change along with the black culture). I have many blacks friends of all ages who agree with me. Some were raised poor. Some had a silver spoon. Some fought very hard to get a degree, a good job and so on. None of them do anything from the stereotype black culture. They don't speak in a certain way. They speak proper. They don't believe in gangs, or violence as a tool. Or sex or women as meat. So it shows change is possible. I am all for that change.
Again alot of what I said about blacks is "some", not all or the majority. As for me? I treat blacks no different then I do anyone else in real life. When at the store I don't see one and think "Obviously a thug, avoid them!". I don't even notice the color. We are all the same. I'd actually like to see a great exercise here in response. What ethnicity (if thats the correct word) are you? I'm 50% italian. The other 50% consists of british, scottish, french, german, australian, hebrew (of course) and some other smaller ones.