To begin, I'm twenty-four, a christian and haven't had a girlfriend in four years. I've had a few interests in the past but somehow I couldn't get it right. Now, I don't want to hinder my chances by doing the wrong thing, so I need all the advice I can get (that, and I need to boost my confidence).
I've known this girl for about three weeks or so through my friends. She just got out of a relationship a month ago and has been hanging in my group of friends since then. I hadn't really expressed anything towards her until Saturday (Halloween of all times). We went to a costume party out of town and throughout the night we talked and talked. We left later that night and crashed at a friend's house. As fate would have it, we ended up having to share the spare bed. Because we're both christians and waiting until marriage, nothing happened. However, we did wake up in eachother's arms a few times in the middle of the night. The next morning we both parted ways and said goodbye. Nothing was awkward or uncomfortable, but nothing was said about it either. A friend of mine told me I should have gotten her phone number that morning, but I didn't feel it was appropriate.
Here's where it gets tricky; now what? How do I figure out if she was taking interest in me or whether she was just forced into somehow being polite in a less than ideal situation? The next night (sunday) we hung out with the same friends and watched a movie. She sat next to me, but nothing was said about the night. I neglected to ask her for her phone number again, because I didn't want to make a scene in front of friends (and because I'm chicken, I'll admit it). I can't read "the signs" that girls apparently give guys and I don't really know how to make another move without ruining things.
Does this sound like there's something there, or am I imagining things?
I've known this girl for about three weeks or so through my friends. She just got out of a relationship a month ago and has been hanging in my group of friends since then. I hadn't really expressed anything towards her until Saturday (Halloween of all times). We went to a costume party out of town and throughout the night we talked and talked. We left later that night and crashed at a friend's house. As fate would have it, we ended up having to share the spare bed. Because we're both christians and waiting until marriage, nothing happened. However, we did wake up in eachother's arms a few times in the middle of the night. The next morning we both parted ways and said goodbye. Nothing was awkward or uncomfortable, but nothing was said about it either. A friend of mine told me I should have gotten her phone number that morning, but I didn't feel it was appropriate.
Here's where it gets tricky; now what? How do I figure out if she was taking interest in me or whether she was just forced into somehow being polite in a less than ideal situation? The next night (sunday) we hung out with the same friends and watched a movie. She sat next to me, but nothing was said about the night. I neglected to ask her for her phone number again, because I didn't want to make a scene in front of friends (and because I'm chicken, I'll admit it). I can't read "the signs" that girls apparently give guys and I don't really know how to make another move without ruining things.
Does this sound like there's something there, or am I imagining things?
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