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catch22

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Now I remember what I don't like about college... No one seems to have any faith in anything. Sometimes, I seem to be the only Christian on the entire campus. I was telling someone who I had been really good friends with last semester about how much God had changed my life over break, and almost instantly, he turned on me. In fact, it seems like nearly everyone will turn on you just for saying Jesus' name out loud. Anyone else have any problems with this? Is there anything I can do about it, or do I just have to suck it up and accept it?
 

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Catch22, I feel your pain! I also find that there aren't very many people of faith in college. Last semester I took Bio-Medical Ethics. Out of a class of 27, there was only two of us who would take a stand and say what we believe and site The Bible as our source. Needless to say, the other students in the class didn't even want to let us speak after a while. I didn't ever start an argument in that class, in fact I usually kept my mouth shut unless someone asked me something. But when they did, I would never "water down" my beliefs for sake of conversation. And I don't think you should either. You just can't let their negativeness towards you make you feel bad. Be proud!! You don't need anyone's approval or friendship that doesn't accept your beliefs.
 
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Yeah, it's really rough sometimes, but Instead of letting it get me down, I'm going to charge headlong into the fray. I'm a communication major, and I'm in preproduction on a film about the assualt of the intellectual elite on faith. A lot of people are going to be angry at me when the dust settles, but so be it. I don't live to please people...I live to please God.
 
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I haven't experienced that just because I'm not yet in college...but I also plan on attending a Christian college so again, I'm doubtful that I'll encounter that. I know it was like that for me in high school. I just stood my ground though, they all though I was a bible nut case...and I didn't have any friends aside from the ones that went to church. I was very open about my faith and I think that made a lot of people nervous.

And that's the way to live too! We aren't supposed to live as men-pleasers but as servants of Christ!
 
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I kind of wish that I went to a Christian college too. I've kind of had a desire lately to persue Christian counseling. It's a little late in college for me to be switching majors, but I could get a minor in psychology and then if I decide to persue it later I could go back to school.
 
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Chiristian colleges have there own issues too tho. Many "Chiristians" go there and can be exceedingly deceptive and sinse they do it in the name of God it's easy to get sucked in. I know lots of friends who had BIG problems with this at major Christian schools. I know how you feel totaly tho. I'm going for a Philosophy major in a secular school. Talk about pepole being against you. You have NO IDEA! Last symester in one class if i rased my hand half the class would sigh. It was funny. Just keep in mind if your being persecuted, your probably doing something right! Also read James 1. Good stuff in there.
 
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My entire major at the University I go to is not Christian. (Except me!) There are only 30 people in my major and they are all pagans; so I am cheating myself by not joining any of our groups! So I feel your pain!

I am ending up transfering! Luckily after I get married this spring, my future husband works in a different town; so I will move there and transfer schools! (He looked into it and found out that some of the memebers of my major are also Christian and attend the campus chapel!)
 
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catch22 said:
Sometimes, I seem to be the only Christian on the entire campus.

You might be right, but most likely you are not. I think that one of Satan's favorite weapons against Christians is to try to make them feel like they are all alone, and that everyone is against them.

The funny thing is that in a way it's true. We are called to be separate from to the rest of the world. And that can be a lonely place. But the fact is, we are never by ourselves. Remember Elijah? (Or was it Elisha? Someone correct me if I'm wrong) He was complaining that he was the only one left faithful to God, and God told him that, no, in fact there were still thousands left that had not bowed to Baal. Often we are like that.

Also, even if we were all alone, we still have God with us, and that counts for a lot. If people scoff at our faith, we should pity them rather than be offended or embarrassed. And I've found that the more honest and open I am about my faith, the less opposition I seem to get. I never force it on anyone, but if the subject comes up, I just lay out what I believe, and most people respect that. (In case anyone is wondering, I go to Cal. State Northridge, which is a very liberal school.) I think it's also important to learn when not to say anything. We are witnesses for Christ by our actions and not just our words, and sometimes using good social and conversational skills is more effective that immediately disputing any point that we disagree with.

Finally, seek out other Christian students for encouragement. I found a small Bible study group that meets in my area where all of the members go to different local collages. Sure, I never see them on campus, but just knowing that they are out there fighting the same fight helps.

We are out here, don't give up!

-Evan
 
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catch22 said:
Now I remember what I don't like about college... No one seems to have any faith in anything. Sometimes, I seem to be the only Christian on the entire campus. I was telling someone who I had been really good friends with last semester about how much God had changed my life over break, and almost instantly, he turned on me. In fact, it seems like nearly everyone will turn on you just for saying Jesus' name out loud. Anyone else have any problems with this? Is there anything I can do about it, or do I just have to suck it up and accept it?

I know just how you feel Catch. I'm not in college, but I am in the Army, and it is almost the exact same situation. I've found out the quickest way to get people to hate you isn't to be mean or rude to them, but to let them know that you love and follow Jesus. As much as you may think it though, you are NOT alone. There are most likely other Christians on your campus in the same situation, just trying to find someone to talk to about their life and beliefs. It is hard, and sometimes lonely - but it is also rewarding. To truly know that you have the strength to set yourself apart and not be like the world around you is gratifying, because you know it gives honor and Glory to the Lord, and what more can any Christian hope to do?
 
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