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You're right the threads about lying, greed, murder, etc. don't go very far, but it isn't because it isn't nearly as much fun.
It is because the majority of people know that lying, greed, murder, etc. are sins.
Do you hear liars referred to as depraved and not saved?
I don't really think there is a difference.
Well, obviously, everyone is aware male-female heterosexual intercourse is obviously different to same-sex intercourse.
But when one becomes one flesh, I would think there would be as much metaphor in there as much as being literal. If two people marry, and share their lives together, their hopes, their dreams - isn't that what marriage is fundamentally about? Two against the world? Unity? A couple-dom that isn't entered by anyone else?
Really, when you look at comitted homosexual couples there really is no difference, metaphorically. Homosexuals have long-term relationships, that if you removed gender, are no different to a heterosexual marriage.
So, I don't think the whole "One man and one woman" thing really holds that much clout. Really, I think its declasse to have wild, promiscuous sex - regardless of orientation. So, providing the homosexual couple in question are united, and are safe and devoted to each other, and aren't really hurting themselves or others around them, I think its a non-issue that the parties just happen to prefer the same gender.
That's true. Us Bible-believing Christians who don't use the Bible to justify our hatred of things we don't understand such as homosexuality are not fooled at all.
Because we read the Bible without the glasses of prejudice on.
So, you actually believe then - and please tell me if I'm wrong - that someone who calls themself a homosexual is REALLY a heterosexual (someone who finds those of the opposite gender attractive) that is lying ...?
I would be astonished if someone on this forum were to actually confess to actually believing that a homosexual is really a heterosexual who is feigning 'opposite' orientation.
Such a thing as "I'm not 'gay' but I'm going to pretend that I'm 'gay' just to bug God and Christians" would surely finish up in Ripley's Believe It Or Not.
Well the Bible seems to think it holds that much clout since it is mention many times.
So, you actually believe then - and please tell me if I'm wrong - that someone who calls themself a homosexual is REALLY a heterosexual (someone who finds those of the opposite gender attractive) that is lying ...?
I would be astonished if someone on this forum were to actually confess to actually believing that a homosexual is really a heterosexual who is feigning 'opposite' orientation.
Such a thing as "I'm not 'gay' but I'm going to pretend that I'm 'gay' just to bug God and Christians" would surely finish up in Ripley's Believe It Or Not.
In a nutshell, that basically defines many so called "Faith" Churches.KCKID--
As I mentioned last week on another thread, it's not so much that people like savedandhappy1 and Floatingaxe think gays are lying about their orientation, but rather that they themselves don't believe in orientation, and they think that gays are deluding themselves about it.
They believe that the personality differences between gays and straights can be better explained by a "spirit of rebellion." And when prayer and repentence fail to lift this "spirit of rebellion" the failure is in the gay person, never in their theology.
That depends on whether or not you consider 10 (or, if you count Jude, 11) to be "many," especially compared to the number of passages against so many other sins. I started to count the passages about theft but quickly lost count. Likewise for passages about lying.
The issues that we umbrella under the general term "homosexuality" only appear in ten passages in the entire Bible. Only five of these are explicitly teaching passages. The other five are accounts of outrageous behavior: either attempted or successful man-on-man rape done for political power.
Three* of these accounts never enter into discussions of whether the Bible forbids all forms of "homosexuality or whether it "condones" it in certain situations. These three document the two successful male-on-male rapes reported in the Bible. Ham and Noah (Genesis 9) and the rape Hanun ordered of David's ambassadors (2 Samuel 10 and 1 Chronicles 19).
(* If you want to insist that these passages are not about rape, as I have heard many Christians claim, I won't dispute you. But then your "many" passages are further reduced, and you have only seven.)
The fourth (Judges 19) only recently entered the discussion, and that as a counter to the fifth (Genesis 19). The claim has been made that because the crowd refused the offer of Lot's daughters, they must have all been gay. The crowd in Gibeah also refused the Levite's concubine, at first. They weren't about to settle for humiliating a woman, if they could get the strander himself. When they realized that he was not coming out, they did "settle" for the concubine, but humiliation was not enough, and they killed her as well.
Something very similar might have happened in Sodom as well, but for the intervention of the angels. We don't know. We do know that everywhere in the Bible (with the possible exception of Jude) where Sodom is mentioned, "homosexuality" is not named as one of her major sins. If it is present at all, it is buried with many other sins as unspecified "abominations."
Jude itself must be read with 2 Peter, which it parallels and complements. Both letters show that their authors were familiar with one or both of two apocryphal books which go into more detail about the "Sons of God" and the Nephilim (Genesis 6) and about Sodom; they claim that the angels were recognized as "Sons of God," A lot of people claim that this is why wanting to "know" the angels was, in Jude's words going after "strange flesh." I do not feel comfortable with this explanation. But the traditional explanation is even worse.
Given the obvious difference between someone who is the same (homo) sex and someone who is the "other" (hetero) sex, it seems strange that Jude would forbid hetero-sex, and even stranger that we are supposed to automatically read "hetero" as "strange" and interpret "strange" as "abnormal," and therefore must refer to homo-sex.
As for the five teaching passages, two of them mention arsenokoiten, along with a list of other sins, in passing while making another point entirely. Although Paul seems to have invented the word, and there are not enough different surviving documents left to be reasonably sure of its meaning, I have no problem going along with those who feel he is refrring back to the verses in Leviticus that ban "man-lying."
As a Pharisee and Biblical scholar, Paul woud certainly be aware of the teachings of the rabbis on Leviticus. [Due to length considerations I have had to cut out a lot of stuff here. I will post it in the near future, though perhaps in a different thread. Basically, though I pointed out that the command (even in Lev 20:13 where the lifeblood of both particpants is required) only bans being the "active" partner in one particular act.]
And then there's the last passage. The one where Paul chose a famous example of runaway Passion. Where Paul carefully crafted the phrasing to reflect the five symptoms of runaway passion. Where he added the fact that the same people would only "use" women, not love them, and where he was careful to use very mild words to descibe the nature of the acts, so that the spectre of "abomination" would not be raised. He did all this because the example that he "borrowed" from Plato was a same-sex example, and he wanted to be clear that the sin is not a "gay" sin, that it is equally wrong whether the partner is male or female
(Wow all this in response to just the first sentence of your post! I'll comment on the rest of your post later.)
savedandhappy1 said:God made us to love one another, and the devil wants us to kill eachother
savedandhapy1 said:The male and female bodies were made, by God, to fit together perfectedly thus making the one flesh.
KCKID--
As I mentioned last week on another thread, it's not so much that people like savedandhappy1 and Floatingaxe think gays are lying about their orientation, but rather that they themselves don't believe in orientation, and they think that gays are deluding themselves about it.
They believe that the personality differences between gays and straights can be better explained by a "spirit of rebellion." And when prayer and repentence fail to lift this "spirit of rebellion" the failure is in the gay person, never in their theology.
It tells me some gays see clobber passages and Christians don’t.It's just that we don't see other 'clobber' passages used with the same enthusiasm as those aimed at 'gays'. What does that tell you?
but I have yet to see anyone claiming lying is a Godly virtue to be blessed. If I did you might have a point, but as there clearly arent, you dont. Nor do I see people ignoring and disputing the Biblical passages that condemn lying.For instance, I have yet to see a thread where the scriptures are used to condemn the practice of LYING.
Ah but some other people do and anyway the point is God does take issue according to His word. We are arguing about God's word in the Bible , people are free can choose whether they believe or not. The problem with this forum and this topic is some seem to have understandings of the Bible opposite to what it says.But two homosexuals in a comitted, loving relationship isn't something I take issue with.
Dear KCKID,
It tells me some gays see clobber passages and Christians dont.
but I have yet to see anyone claiming lying is a Godly virtue to be blessed. If I did you might have a point, but as there clearly arent, you dont. Nor do I see people ignoring and disputing the Biblical passages that condemn lying.
I am tempted to lie at times, but there are no clobber passages for me as I am free not to lie, if I do happen to fall short I can repent and be forgiven.
You asked me what does it tell me and I told you. Yes it is simple, if there was promotion of blessing and condoning lying then it would be the issue that overshadows others. As it is same-sex blessing is being promoted bigtime and obviously thats the issue overshadowing others.You're not simple, Phinehas2. You know as well as I do that the 'gay issue' (abomination?) has taken on a life of its own. It overshadows ANY other biblical 'abomination' that one could think of.
When it comes to Christians, as seen on this forum most know the facts as they quote Gods word form the Bible. Many who promote or defend same-sex sex reject or dispute the facts, which is the word of God in the Bible. Such disbelief and denial to suit their own wishes represents an even greater issue than the promotion of the sin.Furthermore, Christians on forums such as this jump in on this topic almost with relish even though they are, for the most part, totally ignorant of the facts.
No I dont think they do, and anyway whatever their motives, it is Gods word they are spewing out. I suggest they also feel that many here who claim to be Christian dont accept the word of God.They seem to actually believe that spewing out a few well-worn scriptures in order to make some others squirm - that probably don't even relate to the subject matter anyway - will earn them kudos with God.
Uhh... I never said two gay men clobbering each other over the head with a club was ok.
But two homosexuals in a comitted, loving relationship isn't something I take issue with.
Being male & female and having intercourse doesn't equal healthy sex life. That just means you can have intercourse in the traditional way.
Gay men and gay women still have sex, so I don't know what argument you're making there.
Well, who says that all the homosexuals have to live without same sex intercourse? Moreover, if they don't believe that denying that is beneficial to their health.Dear Quirk,
Ah but some other people do and anyway the point is God does take issue according to His word. We are arguing about God's word in the Bible , people are free can choose whether they believe or not. The problem with this forum and this topic is some seem to have understandings of the Bible opposite to what it says.
Well, then, let God do the judging.I take issue with homosexuality because I believe God does, and I'm not sure what you are meaning with the club statement so will just leave the answer as is.
Traditional is all the Bible speaks of, if you are speaking of a man and a woman being husband and wife, or having children, or being the way God created mankind to be together.
Yes, I know homosexuals have sex, but that doesn't mean it is what God planned.