Antz, thanks for stepping into this difficult situation. It's certainly true I have no golden tongue, and I'm reminded of watching US Presidential debates in the primaries as Bill Clinton first attempted to become President. He was accused of being a "silver tongued politician," which he took as a compliment. I usually don't make snap decisions, but he instantly lost all credibility with me. Turns out I was WAY more than right!
Actually i love correction. In this instance there is some great wisdom in response to our OP, from many sources. He's not showing misunderstanding, but has flatly not responded to any of it.
It is not me that is being belittled and cast aside, nor is it *merely* the Gospel. It is no less than the G-d of the Bible Himself the OP is calling stupid, and there are only 2 reasons:
1) the OP doesn't care to attempt to think these issues through to see what is being said in the answers he's given;
2) he actually can't think these things through. I would prefer to think this is not the case, and I know if I were presented with reactions such as I give him, I would be prompted to try a little harder.
And Muli, don't assume I post in a vacuum. There are always others that can help explain. Math teachers always hated me because I'd never show my work - but I always got the right answer, and quicker than they could do it themselves.